When the Heartache Is Over
Tina Turner Lyrics


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Once in a lifetime you find
Someone to show you the way
Someone to make your decisions
But I let you lead me astray
Who did you think you were fooling?
Said you were missing me blind
But the truth is I knew you were lying
You were using me time after time

When the heartache is over
I know I won't be missing you (missing you)
Won't look over my shoulder
'Cause I know that I can live without you
Oh, live without you
Oh, I can live without you

Time to move on with my life now
Leaving the past all behind
I can make my own decisions
It was only a matter of time
Sometimes I look back in anger
Thinking about all the pain
But I know that I'm stronger without you
And that I'll never need you again

When the heartache is over
I know I won't be missing you (missing you)
Won't look over my shoulder
'Cause I know that I can live without you
Oh, live without you
Oh, I can live without you

When the heartache is over
I know I won't be missing you
Won't look over my shoulder
'Cause I know that I can live without you
Oh, when the heartache is over
I know I won't be missing you (missing you)
Won't look over my shoulder
'Cause I know that I can live without you
Yeah, yeah, I can live without you
Oh, I can live without you
Live without you




I can live without you, yeah
I can live without you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Tina Turner's "When the Heartache is Over" speak about the end of a relationship and the empowerment that comes with moving on from a toxic partner. The lyrics imply that the singer of the song was in a relationship with someone who misled her and used her for personal gain. However, she has now figured out that she doesn't need that person in her life to be happy, and she's confident in moving on without them.


The opening lines of the song set up the idea of a special person who can provide guidance and direction in life. However, the singer reveals that this person only caused her pain and never had good intentions. Throughout the song, she talks about leaving the past behind and taking control of her life. She is determined to let go of the toxicity and never look back. The chorus emphasizes the singer's newfound strength and confidence. She knows that she doesn't need the other person and is ready to live without them.


The song sends a powerful message of self-love and resilience. Sometimes we get stuck in relationships that do us more harm than good, but it's important to recognize when it's time to move on and start living for ourselves.


Line by Line Meaning

Once in a lifetime you find
It's rare to find someone who shows you the way.


Someone to show you the way
Someone to guide you through life.


Someone to make your decisions
Someone to make choices for you.


But I let you lead me astray
But I allowed you to mislead me and make bad decisions.


Who did you think you were fooling
Who did you believe you could deceive?


Said you were missing me blind
Claimed to miss me so much that you couldn't see clearly.


But the truth is I knew you were lying
But I knew you weren't being honest with me.


You were using me time after time
You repeatedly took advantage of me.


When the heartache is over
When the emotional pain is gone.


I know I won't be missing you (missing you)
I'm certain that I won't long for you anymore.


Won't look over my shoulder
I won't keep worrying about what you're doing or where you are.


Cause I know that I can live without you
Because I know I am capable of thriving without you.


Time to move on with my life now
It's time to start a new chapter in my life.


Leaving the past all behind
Putting all the hurt from the past behind me.


I can make my own decisions
I am in control and can make my own choices.


It was only a matter of time
It was inevitable that I would eventually learn how to live without you.


Sometimes I look back in anger
There are times when I reflect on our relationship and feel angry about what happened.


Thinking about all the pain
Remembering all the hurt and suffering.


But I know that I'm stronger without you
Despite the pain, I know I'm better off without you.


And that I'll never need you again
I am certain that I won't require your presence in my life anymore.


Yeah I can live without you
I can confidently live my life without you.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Graham Stack, John Robinson Reid

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@MzLadyToya84

Thank You, Lord, for blessing us with a Legend! Continue To Rest Anna Mae Tina Turner Bullock.

@conniebrown1432

No other singer/ celebrity has touched me and inspired me like Tina. This song got me through a very difficult time in my life. I don't know her, but her strength and resilience touched me nonetheless. Today I'm crying. Tomorrow I will smile again because I will be playing her music. RIP, Tina.

@Liamf986

Bless you and thank god for Tina she was a gift from the angels for us all to witness

@whitneykelly1628

I'm sorry you went through a difficult time may God be with you to guide and strengthen you. I love tina turner I'm saddened by her passing away. She's helping me get through a difficult time as well. I just lost my husband of 19 years and it's very hard. I wish the best for you we can get through this together.

@Slayful_queen111

Millions of tears are being shed with her passing. The song "Simply the Best" brings me to tears now. That song will down in history. Thank God she left us with her music and her videos.

@ixionfree

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@hornet1blue

Lovely sentiment for an amazing human being and performer 🥰

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@razvantasca

I often posted my love for Her. Never thought that one day I will post this message. 🙏❤️🙏. Am 52 and was hit yesterday, like all the people who love her. I am keeping her in my mind, heart and soul. For me, she had a very rough time in her life. Blessing us with all the marvelous creations. For me, she is in every single sparkle of light and joy. She will live in my soul, and I mean it. My thoughts go to her beloved husband, 35 years together, saved her life in critical situations. That man is suffering a loss. I know how it feels. Love to this great couple! Sorry, getting emotional, but I close my eyes and I see her, in the light she radiated in the 42 years I was loving her .
PURE BLESSING. Unconditional love and light. She never ever deceived me. Thank you, great soul, you are dancing in your dreams 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

@MonsieurCali

Good night Tina. THANK YOU for your masterpieces! 🕊️❤️

R.I.P

@willehrensperger

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