Got My Mind Made Up
Tom Petty and The Heartbreakers Lyrics


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If you don't want to love me then don't say I'm your man
Honey if you don't want to love me, don't you say I'm your man
Oh what's the matter baby, can't you see
This is not the first time it's happened to me?
I got my mind made up
I got my mind made up
If you don't want to kiss me, honey, then don't touch my hand
If you don't want to kiss me, honey, you better not touch my hand
I don't quite get it, why can't you see
This ain't the first time it's happened to me?
I got my mind made up
I got my mind made up
I got my mind made up
I got my mind made up
And if you don't really need me, honey, don't say you do
If you don't really need me, honey, then don't say you do
??? something I said
Still won't convince you not to play with my head, oh yeah
I got my mind made up
I got my mind made up
I got my mind made up




Mind made up
I got my mind made up

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Got My Mind Made Up" by Tom Petty and The Heartbreakers express frustration and disappointment with a lover who is sending mixed signals. The singer pleads with their lover not to claim they are in a committed relationship if they don't truly love them. The repetition of "this ain't the first time it's happened to me" suggests that the singer has been in this situation before and is tired of going through it again. The repeating refrain "I got my mind made up" shows that the singer has come to a decision not to continue with this relationship if their partner cannot commit to them.


The song can be interpreted as a commentary on the difficulties of love and relationships, and the importance of honesty and communication. The singer is not willing to be strung along by someone who is not genuinely interested in them, and is taking a stand for their own self-respect. At the same time, the lyrics express a sense of vulnerability and hurt, as the singer is hoping that their partner will change their mind and choose to truly love them.


Overall, "Got My Mind Made Up" is a straightforward, emotionally charged song about the complexities of love and the importance of honesty in relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

If you don't want to love me then don't say I'm your man
Don't label me as your man if you don't have any intention of loving me.


Honey if you don't want to love me, don't you say I'm your man
Addressing his lover, he emphasizes that she should not call him her man if she cannot reciprocate love.


Oh what's the matter baby, can't you see This is not the first time it's happened to me?
The singer questions whether the lover can understand his feelings, as he has experienced such situations before.


I got my mind made up
The repetition of this line throughout the song conveys the singer's resoluteness to his stance.


If you don't want to kiss me, honey, then don't touch my hand
If the lover does not intend to be intimate, then she should not give signs of false hope.


I don't quite get it, why can't you see This ain't the first time it's happened to me?
The singer repeats his frustration and doubts about the lover's intentions, highlighting his past experiences with similar situations.


And if you don't really need me, honey, don't say you do
Don't lead the singer on if no real emotional dependency exists between them.


??? something I said Still won't convince you not to play with my head, oh yeah
Despite the singer's communication attempts, the lover continues to toy with his emotions, causing him confusion and chaos in his mind.


Mind made up
This line is a shorter variation of 'I got my mind made up', emphasizing the singer's resolution in his feelings.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: THOMAS EARL PETTY

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