"Grapefruit" is about self-love and learning to accept oneself despite pres… Read Full Bio ↴"Grapefruit" is about self-love and learning to accept oneself despite pressures from society to conform to what is considered "beautiful." The song speaks to Tove Lo's personal journey of struggling with body image issues and encourages listeners to accept their bodies and look beyond what society dictates in order to find true happiness. She conveys her message using vivid imagery such as counting calories and running the tap, which represent the extreme measures one takes to conform to society's expectations. By the end of the song, Tove Lo encourages listeners to take back their bodies and ultimately, to accept themselves as they are.

Grapefruit
Tove Lo Lyrics

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Counting while I run the tap
I'm on my knees
Chokin' on my hands all night
In my sleep
Counting all the calories
Now get 'em up
Body positivity
Help me out

The swans of ballet
They're skin and they're bones, that's not me
I'd die for my love though, break
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me, what I see is not me

One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me, what I see is not me

One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Can my obsession please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me, what I see is not me

Sweet girl, you're so disciplined
Now keep it down
I don't like my measurements
Won't make a sound
Diana, how she guards the clock (the clock)
She's in control (control)
Now why is everyone in shock? (In shock)
You let her go

The swans of ballet (ballet)
They're skin and they're bones, that's not me (me)
I'd die for my love though, break (break)
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me, what I see is not me

One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me, what I see is not me

One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Can my obsession please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me, what I see is not me
What I see is not me, what I see is not me

When I'm hurting, every time I have a bad day
Then everyone gets lost
But I'm learning every time I feel out of place
That you are all I've got, oh

One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in (oh)
What I see is not me, what I see is not me (what I see is not me)

One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Can my obsession please die
Five, six, hate this

How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me, what I see is not me

Overall Meaning

Tove Lo’s song Grapefruit shines a light on the struggles of body dysmorphia and the pressure society puts on women to conform to unrealistic beauty standards. In the first verse, Tove Lo describes counting calories and feeling in control of her body; however, this seemingly healthy behavior turns into an obsession in the chorus as she chants, “One, two, grapefruit, three, four, lose more, five, six, hate this.”

The second verse shows Tove Lo’s desire to change overnight and be free from her obsession. She makes a reference to Lady Diana, who struggled with bulimia, and how everyone was shocked when it was revealed. The song’s title, “Grapefruit,” is used as a metaphor for the unrealistic body shape she is striving for. Tove Lo admits that what she sees in the mirror is not who she really is and recognizes the need to break away from this toxic cycle.

The end of the song brings a hopeful message. When Tove Lo is hurting and feeling out of place, she learns that the only person she can trust is herself. She ends the song by reaffirming that she wants to take back the body she’s in, breaking free from the obsession that she can never be good enough.

Line by Line Meaning

Counting while I run the tap
Trying to distract myself and numb my mind

I’m on my knees
Feeling weak and vulnerable

Chokin' on my hands all night
Struggling to control myself and my thoughts

In my sleep
Even my subconscious is plagued by my insecurities

Counting all the calories
Obsessing over every little detail of my body

Now get 'em up
Trying to motivate myself to improve my body

Body positivity
Trying to love myself and my body despite my flaws

Help me out
Asking for guidance and support in my journey

The swans of ballet
Feeling inadequate compared to the idealized image of dancers

They're skin and they're bones, that's not me
Realizing that my body is different and that's okay

I'd die for my love though, break
Willing to go to extreme lengths for the people I love

Break 'til I wither away
Pushing myself to the brink of exhaustion and destruction

What I see is not me, what I see is not me
My perception of myself is distorted and not accurate

One, two, grapefruit
Trying to use a strict diet to control my body

How am I back here again?
Feeling like I can't escape this cycle of self-criticism and obsession

Three, four, lose more
Setting unrealistic goals for my body and feeling like I'm never enough

I know my mirrors are lyin'
Realizing that my perception of myself is not accurate

Five, six, hate this
Feeling trapped and consumed by my obsessions and insecurities

Take back the body I'm in
Trying to reclaim ownership and love for my own body

Wish I could change overnight
Desperately wanting to transform myself and escape my insecurities instantly

Can my obsession please die
Longing for freedom from my compulsive thoughts and behaviors

How am I still in this fight?
Wondering why I can't seem to overcome my insecurities and obsessions

When I'm hurting, every time I have a bad day
Feeling like my struggles consume me and affect every aspect of my life

Then everyone gets lost
Feeling alone and like others don't understand my struggles

But I'm learning every time I feel out of place
Trying to find meaning and growth in my struggles and pain

That you are all I've got, oh
Realizing that my support system is what keeps me going and gives me strength

Lyrics © Sentric Music, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Tove Lo, Ludvig Karl Dagsson Soederberg, Timothy Nelson

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@frogchair

1y↑45

The line “what I see is not me” has no many meanings! It’s genius 🙌

1) the representation in media is not inclusive

2) the feeling that our bodies are simply vessels that don’t reflect who we really are on the inside

3) the loosing of ourselves by trying to be something we are not

4) the self-image that we project onto our own bodies

5) the reminder that the unkind things we tell to ourselves are not true

I love you ❤ you are radiant! ✨

@abdu11ahbutt

2y↑60

[Verse 1]
Countin' while I run the tap
I'm on my knees
Chokin' on my hands all night
In my sleep
Countin' all the calories
Now get 'em up
Body positivity
Help me out

[Pre-Chorus]
The swans of ballet
Their skin and their bones, that's not me
I'd die for my love though, break
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

[Chorus]
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

[Verse 2]
Sweet girl, you're so disciplined
Now keep it down
I don't like my measurements
Won't make a sound
Diana, how she guards the clock (The clock)
She's in control (Control)
Now why is everyone in shock? (In shock)
You let her go

[Pre-Chorus]
The swans of ballet ('Llet)
Their skin and their bones, that's not me (Me)
I'd die for my love though, break (Break)
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

[Chorus]
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

[Post-Chorus]
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

[Bridge]
When I'm hurtin', every time I have a bad day
Then everyone gets lost
But I'm learnin' every time I feel out of place
That you are all I've got, oh

[Chorus]
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in (Oh)
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

@araflyrics

2y↑17

LYRICS:

Countin' while I run the tap
I'm on my knees
Chokin' on my hands all night
In my sleep
Countin' all the calories
Now get 'em up
Body positivity
Help me out

The swans of ballet
Their skin and their bones, that's not me
I'd die for my love though, break
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

Sweet girl, you're so disciplined
Now keep it down
I don't like my measurements
Won't make a sound
Diana, how she guards the clock (The clock)
She's in control (Control)
Now why is everyone in shock? (In shock)
You let her go

The swans of ballet ('Llet)
Their skin and their bones, that's not me (Me)
I'd die for my love though, break (Break)
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

What I see is not me
What I see is not me

When I'm hurtin', every time I have a bad day
Then everyone gets lost
But I'm learnin' every time I feel out of place
That you are all I've got, oh

One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in (Oh)
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me

All comments from YouTube:

@tovelomusic

2y↑5.8K

This song is for all of us who have or will struggle 💗

@bobfrog5627

2y↑18

💖❣️

@ryanap8396

2y↑42

Tove, I struggle with body related Gender Dysphoria and being under weight. Thank You so much ❤❤❤

@johnnygetgood1616

2y↑13

Queen.

@sadsade1850

2y↑5

Love you to!

@angelespiri952

2y↑7

Thank you. 😢

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@Fangirlofvariousfandoms

1y↑1.3K

Ok, so, don't get me wrong, I LOVE Marina and Lana Del Rey, but why doesn't Tove Lo get the recognition she deserves for being and indie queen? Her voice is honestly angelic, she's such an unappreciated talent ♡

@benjaminschulze4601

1y↑1

You dont know that you have to play your part in an dark agenda in the musc buizz to be succesfull and if you dont 90% you will never get big even if youre music is in an level of an world star? Open your eyes. Everything that jave the power to manipulate an huge amount of people get used to do so. Universal and Sony are the biggest in the music buizz.

@maximilianogasconrodas9009

1y↑95

I think (and this is just my personal opinion) that she doesn't get the recognition she deserves bc she's way too sexual, which I don't mind at all, I actually like her bc of that BUT the doble standard sociaty we live in isn't ready for her lyrics as in a woman talking about sex so openly on her songs. Taylor's been dragged for wrting too many songs about ex boyfriends now think about a woman talking about explicit sex like Tove's done and keeps doing.

@cibucikel

1y↑46

@@maximilianogasconrodas9009 that's not it, its simply she isn't American with Ariana Grande production team ....

@DesireeEagle

1y↑38

Her time is coming. Everyone will hop on the Tove Lo bandwagon. For now we just keep loving her. She's here for those of us who understand her. 💜

@TheForkOnTheLeftist

1y↑30

@@maximilianogasconrodas9009 pretty sure you're right. This other person that brought up Arianna Pequena doesn't understand that Tove doesn't write metaphors and loose comparisons, she just says everything straight from the heart which I think we all love. Arianna and others are far more subtle (34+35 etc whereas Tove writes "Hey You Got Drugs" and gets to the point). Good observation

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@id_sandr29

22w↑50

one of the most underrated songs on this album

@Wtftoveis

21w↑6

Dirt femme was so underrated

@id_sandr29

13w↑2

@@Wtftoveis Yeah, period. I really need to more people listen this album 😭

@karinaschulerferro3815

1y↑474

i like how this song talks about a struggle with body image without putting down anybody's body type & just keeping the focus on the common struggle with meeting a standard which harms many <3

@JoachimMoeller

1y↑1

I'm 43, and from your photo you look half my age or so, so likely way more in tune with what's the current "standard" hence who better to ask? As to the current standard, my assumption being it being on the way too thin side going by runways and such (what little I've seen on occasion), so not expecting a reply, much less a lengthy one (I detest being of inconvenience, generally), if you'd care to enlighten me (and hopefully others), I'd greatly appreciate it, as to what is the current "standard"? Maybe just a few models' names to excemplify. I don't exactly follow fashion and related hoopla, but growing up with healthy BMI ladies in the '90s (as mentioned in the following copy from Wiki), I too well remember the later heroin chic messed up thing, and I do remember hearing some fashion shows/places requiring (or at least contemplating doing to, years back) a BMI of models higher than something, i.e. high enough that a doctor wouldn't be worried. IG + filters & photoshop galore surely can't be helping.
Wiki: Heroin chic was a style popularized in early-1990s fashion and characterized by pale skin, dark circles underneath the eyes, emaciated features, androgyny and stringy hair—all traits associated with abuse of heroin or other drugs. American supermodel Gia Carangi is remembered for being the originator of the trend. Heroin chic was partly a reaction against the "healthy" and vibrant look of leading 1980s models such as Cindy Crawford, Elle Macpherson, and Claudia Schiffer. A 1996 article in the Los Angeles Times stated that the fashion industry had "a nihilistic vision of beauty" that was reflective of drug addiction.
PS: Keto with intermittent fasting (eat 1-2 times a day) feels great and got me from 98 to 68 kg, lower fat than usual keto till goal reached, 63 kg 18-year-old boxing weight, losing about 1 kg/week. US Navy Seals studying switching to keto too, so good stuff all around. I jus lowered fat a lot, but anyone wanting to maintain weight and not feel hungry much + super stable blood sugar = psychologically more stable should at least look into it to see if it might work for them too.

@karinaschulerferro3815

1y↑12

@@JoachimMoeller So if you're asking me, the currently hyped beauty standard is still thinness but, like, with a BBL & the face of a Bratz doll. At the end of the day the standard is always changing. It doesn't really matter what the standard is. Any body type being held as a beauty "standard" is harmful to many as all human bodies are built differently and have different appearances at their healthiest. not everyone would look like kim kardashian, marilyn monroe, kate moss, or whoever the time's chosen body icon is after adopting a "healthy" lifestyle. Therefore, to celebrate a body type over others is never to encourage health, it is to encourage hatred/disrepect for people who do not have that body type and resentment/jealousy towards those who do- it hurts literally everyone, even the people who end up in the "pretty" category. (Also health is not even a moral high-ground from which we should judge others or ourselves & base our respect anyway.)

@dornsmichel_1364

1y↑3

@Joachim For me as a 23 year old I'd say there are multiple standards. Still for some standards like being super skinny ,super defined or super musular and so on you'll sometimes need to get in a state that can be physically and mentally harmful to you

@uhuraenterprise6372

1y↑11

I say be yourself and fuck the beauty standards

@maggiishere

1y↑3

@@uhuraenterprise6372 I agree with you, but that is so much easier said than done.

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@JayLattee

2y↑670

This is her best era so far! I cannot wait for the album ❤️

@aruscyrus

2y↑27

her best era was Lady wood

@littletassio

2y↑1

@@aruscyrus habla

@charliequinn_

2y↑44

@@aruscyrus Let’s just say that she doesn’t have one bad era. Her music and artistry has consistently gotten better and better with every album!

@thefirephoenix872

@chryzoliz

2y↑27

Her best era is every era

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@sloanx5202

2y↑383

I cannot believe all these years later and she’s still doing the same amazing, flawless, perfect work but on a higher level each era. This is truly amazing and beautifully heartbreaking at the same time.

@ryanap8396

2y↑12

Never stopped after Habits (Stay High)!

@chooky7568

2y↑2

Agreed. It’s heavy

@hamiltonfortuna

2y↑3

She gets better and better

@fionalomax7175

2y↑198

17 yrs of this madness. I'm 56 yrs old in December. This disorder doesn't care about your age, sex, colour... I'm sending everyone my ❤️ and understanding 🤗🐾

@Tiredafyall69

1y↑6

You are so, so loved. I’m so glad you’re still here.❤️❤️❤️❤️

@tovelover2910

1y↑5

ur so strong!!! 🙌🏼

@dw8416

1y↑333

Idk if it was intentional to make "grapefruit" also kinda sound like "break through" but i found it very poetic. Its so easy to miss the signs with eating disorders and many suffer in silence from society's unrealistic expectations. Thank you. 💟

@croop0903

1y↑12

Interesting about ED. I didn't watch the video but only listened to the song and I interpreted it from a Trans person's POV. I think it works on various levels. ALSO, yes love the wordplay with grapefruit/breakthrough. Sitting here being like "damn, she can play with the big dogs on a songwriting scale"

*Edit: the significance of the grapefruit is it taste sour and bitter but looking sweet and tangy. The contrast of appearance and innards

@TheForkOnTheLeftist

1y↑5

I literally thought those were the lyrics my guy

@frogchair

1y↑3

Totally! On first hearing I thought it was ‘break through!’ But then I realized the title and recognized it as ‘grapefruit!’Amazing how she can make it sound perfectly like both <3

@TheNcuizon

YESSSSSSSSSS

@KrazyStylez09

1y↑1

I thought it was breakthrough this whole time

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@Juuuhspnx

2y↑927

Tove, I cannot thank you enough for this song. I’ve struggled with my weight all my life. I was so afraid of gaining weight and not fitting in society that I just stopped eating. I existed to lose weight. At my lowest I couldn’t get out of bed anymore because I didn’t have energy. Anorexia almost killed me in 2018. The cruel thing is EDs are very silent because no one wants to talk about it. I wanted to find help, but I didn’t. I had to figure a way out by myself - and your music played a very important role on my recovery. It reminded who I really am.
If it had took me, I would have missed out on so much! I wouldn’t have been accepted in the University of my dreams - which I did in 2019. I wouldn’t have been able to meet you and hug you too thank you for everything - which I did in the same year. I wouldn’t have met the love of my life, who kindly loves every piece of myself that I’ve always hated - and I did in 2020. This is just to name a few examples.
I know it’s so hard talking about it, but I’m so glad you did through your music. We have to talk about it - awareness is everything. To each one of you suffering from an eating disorder out there, know that you are not the number in the scale. You are loved, you matter. EDs are a lifetime struggle, but recovery is possible. Most importantly: it is so worth it. Don’t give up on you and the life you have ahead. This is my before and after. I’m so glad to finally be me.
Thank you once again, Tove. I love you!

@ryanap8396

2y↑18

This comment really touched me . I can barely maintain above 105 on top of have body related gender Dysphoria. Just know that you are loved 🥰

@emdoubleyew3788

2y↑11

Glad you’re still here 💜

@renaissancegeek

2y↑13

Glad you found the strength to love yourself; and people who can be themselves and love themselves are the most beautiful.
Please keep being your beautiful self!

@TechnicJunglist

2y↑9

I've been struggling since I was 13 and I'm 40 now. It got especially bad when I started factoring in beer calories as a meal.

@SteveinSanFrancisco

2y↑1

@@TechnicJunglist vodka cran doesn't help much either 🙄

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@alexandrecrruz

2y↑450

This has been one of Tove's best eras. Songs with extremely important lyrics and a special message for all fans.
I feel special to live at the same time as this exceptional artist. ❤️❤️❤️

@TatianaVs-ze2fo

Keep suporting the dirt femme era 🔥

@kabri

13w

amen

@AAllakazamm

8w↑2

I love that she's a scorpio and she's not affraid to show it.

@asiah5262

1y↑172

I have always loved Tove Lo for her body and sex positivity, but to hear her talk about body dysphoria and ed issues, is absolutely amazing. I am literally moved to tears, this is such an amazing song and I thank her for talking about it.

@absly5

body dysphoria, you mean FAT, ThiKK is the same term, BIFFA waste bin

@siritalis4956

2y↑609

This song hits really hard for anyone going through or knowing someone with an eating disorder, or just anyone who struggles with body image. I've come a long way with my body image, so this song doesn't hit me there, but strangely the chorus reflects how I feel about my struggle with panic attacks. This song came at the perfect time for me ❤️ Thank you

@robinskull

MY SONGS ARE WAY BETTER THAN TOVE LO

@50Kvful

Covid legacy? The ex and GF are asking me for more money but no sex?

@jessewru6425

2y↑4

I just woke up alone to a room everyday for years in such a mood as that. Its not that way anymore.

@theIastgeneration

well what i see

Luke 10
19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.

May the grace of JESUS be with you

@matteo5860

2y↑389

Full circle moment; I was considering not going to a Tove gig because I felt fat and thought I’d be out of place which is Ridiculous I know. I told myself it was just anxiety and pushed through and had the best time. This track has really resonated with me, and of course it’s absolutely beautifully produced. I love it. Thank you Tove.

@Sidorido1

2y↑23

Bish u better come, sometimes u gotta turn your brains off. Im sure u look amazing & are a wonderful person! ❤

@sansiveria578

2y↑15

Yes bish, rock whatever you have...we're human.

@matteo5860

2y↑5

@@Sidorido1 aw thank you so much 😊

@emmaspencer1540

2y↑4

Totally get the anxiety of it all, I’ve cancelled so many plans bc I felt too “fat” 🙄
Good on you for pushing past that! It would have been amazing 🖤

@jesusjasso1510

2y↑3

Bish you better go! Or you will regret it, this Tove community will make you feel comfortable all the time ❤ you only have to worry about your own joy

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@MysticDreamer96

9w↑2

"Grapefruit helps us restore our own power and claim our own spiritual purpose. The effects of grapefruit include supporting our sense of self-love, especially with regards to loving and honoring ourselves. Grapefruit encourages us to look within and address the issues we've been avoiding"

@frogchair

1y↑45

@JDMimeTHEFIRST

26w

I recommend watching “Naked Attraction”. It’s a dumb reality show where people choose from naked people who they want to date. But honestly, it made me feel better about my own body. Everyone’s different. They included all body types and people with disabilities and injuries.

@DavidLeithFraser

2y↑172

Her music never misses. Emotional, danceable, iconic. So ready for this new album.

@setlistking

2y↑80

This girl deserves more recognition. Her music is powerful 🔥🔥

@JadeSa11y

2y↑3

Agreed but also I like having her Al too myself at concerts lol

@EbikeAdventuresSD

2y↑2

Woman

@thefirephoenix872

@Wtftoveis

21w↑6

I love how this song sounds like it was so inspired by Robyn, her favourite artist

@Wtftoveis

38w↑20

Is there really an artist as real as Tove Lo? I've never listened to anyone as honest as her who addresses her feelings instead using fake positivity. She's a true inspiration

@lucaandsiobhanlim8712

2y↑516

The art was so cool, the room that represented her body and the abuse she causes to herself and as time goes on we see the wounds she’s inflicted on herself. Such an amazing portrayal, I was oooing the whole way through ❤️

@KimchiBitz93

2y↑7

finally someone talking about this , literally thought of the same thing 🙌🏾

@logan4231

2y↑18

Literally trapped in her own skin. Such an amazing visual

@SirAndrewII

46w↑1

It's pretty difficult to watch on silent/in slow motion, though.

@Andrew.McAvoy

2y↑17

crying already at the visual conception and how it’s executed

@TheDaniel0258

17w↑4

Who‘s watching this 2024 ? ❤

@drzjivago100

1y↑49

I’m not a woman nor a struggling person but Tove has given me a peek and appreciation for what is like to be young, in love, heartbroken, struggling, user and without a clear path in life. All with and ear for poetry and heart. Thank you Tove. You are needed!

@greyp.852

2y↑216

I’ve been a fan for years but this album is on another level. Incredible.

@stu8965

2y↑6

Totally agree, she continues to raise her own bar with each release.

@bryanw3549

2y↑2

This album is like master class level. IT IS BRILLIANT!!!! Every song!!!!

@bluesea4465

2y↑1

Exatamente!!!!

@alejandroyllescas3822

I definitely agree with u. This album… a masterpiece I’d tell

@WillSherman-nz6je

YES IT IS OMG!!!

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@agustinamontero4972

2y↑256

I sayed it thousand times, I'm going say it a thousand more, Tove Lo is one of the most underrated artists of all time, she never disappoints, you can see that everything she do is from the bottom of her heart, I love you so much. Can't believe to see in Argentina for the second time ❤️❤️❤️

@Bunsanity

All of these, all of these thousand times

@ryanap8396

2y↑1

I read “I slayed it thousand times”

@tyrelgardner

Absolutely

@andrebighach

you keep saying it.

@LegendaryPhenom

She's criminally underrated, it's so fking absurd!

@IsalKamara

30w↑4

At first I didn’t understand the song until I started to read the lyrics and think of the taste of a grapefruit, such powerful symbolism 😢

@Wtftoveis

21w↑1

I think that she intended for grapefruit to sound like breakthrough

@sandynilsson1647

2y↑147

Its heartbreaking that I understand and relate to every word you sing. Thank you for putting it in words and a beautiful song on the hardest battle many of us will face. Fuck this sickness and its demons, may we all be free one day. <3

@GustavoHernandez-bj2nw

1y↑2

We will

@liamshalamar9324

2y↑148

Tove Lo deserves alot more attention but the only thing is she pushes and gives us everything and more. She really knows how to deliver. Her whole music catalogue is amazing. She needs to be nominated more, perform at music events. EMAS, AMA's, Grammy. This performed live would be extraordinary. This was one of my favourite snippets from the album as I'm currently struggling with body image and starving myself. Thankyou tove lo. I'm always happy to see you return with new music.

@helenstewart9408

I "liked" your comment then wondered if that were the right thing to do. Many comments resonate with our shared experience of hating and hurting ourselves but honestly, you can get through this. It never goes away completely but it does get easier and as she says " you are all you've got". Look after yourself as best you can but don't be too proud to ask others for help; my friends helped immensely, and still do on really bad days.

@chryzoliz

2y↑41

Tove if you're reading comments, thanks for your music and artistry!

@kelliecatena5511

2y↑99

This video made me cry. You’re the reason I broke free from a lot of things I struggle with. The video “moments” I saw two years ago and I said to myself “I want to embody tove lo” that’s exactly as free as I want to be. YOU’RE THE REASON for my breaking free from being too shy to dance. You’re the first concert I’ve ever sang out loud to and danced to. I feel so trapped in myself. This song is just perfect. I love you. Thank you for being the biggest inspiration in my life. I mean that honestly.

@sarahb7154

1y↑2

Beautiful comment x

@ryryconyers7700

1y↑71

I've never struggled myself but I am playing this on repeat for all the strong people that I have seen go through this. YOU ARE ENOUGH.....

@ericku.b.2953

2y↑120

Every single song from this album is freaking good so far. She is serving as always 💛✨️✨️✨️

@xara_ninanile

Enjoying this. Please checkout Forever Be Mine by ninanile I would truly appreciate it , if you would share and subscribe ✨️😊

@bellae8793

2y↑50

Here I am at 34 once again suffering with my disordered thoughts. Its a beast I have fought for at least 22 years and it never truly dies and goes away for good. Im in tears listening to this. Love it.

@bellae8793

@Mark Park wow. Thank you for taking the time to out of your day to put me down. I really appreciate it. You never know what another person is going through Mark. I feel so bad for you.

@santisanti2612

do mindfullness

@maralolue2160

@Mark Park wtf is wrong with you she was just saying how the song helped her

@log794

@Mark Park No need to be a condescending ass. She means disordered as in relating to an eating DISORDER. It wouldn't be called a disorder if everyone had it. You get over yourself and stop putting someone down for no reason, precious

@sheaboland7690

@Mark Park wdym "get over yourself." they're just sharing their experience lol, nothing wrong with that.

@ClaLu

32w↑2

39 years living, 33 years struggling with fatphobic attacks from family, friends and society 😢 ... Learning to love myself and my beautiful body ❤ worth every second ❤

@user-gs8uc5vl3b

30w↑1

Stay Strong ❤

@noonstars

32w↑3

been struggling with an eating disorder for 18 years now, since i was 12 years old. my dad yesterday sent a childhood photo of me from that time right before the binging/purging began. she was so cute, chubby cheeked, and desperate to be loved. i just wish i could have given her a hug, told her she was perfect as she was. i remember how much i hated myself then and how much torment i went through in school. i was bullied relentlessly. this song kind of makes me choke on my feelings

i guess i'm leaving this comment for those that can relate, especially the younger ones here: it does get better. you aren't alone. you are worthy. your body you're in is deserving of health and care. you deserve to exist.

@1978januarygarnet

2y↑28

Immediate tears...Thank you for everything your voice represents. I don't feel alone knowing you and your heart are in the world.

@GiraffeLife16

2y↑73

Didn't expect this to make me cry, but it did. Thank you Tove for making this and sharing it with the world.

@selispeks

Same! I bawled! 😭

@NazriB

Lies again? Germain Fighter God's Floor

@CookinLittle

2y↑58

I haven't been this excited about an album in a long time. Can't wait for this!

@losmaschin60n3s

2y↑13

I feel this is going to be her best album since Lady Wood 💕💕💕

@Wtftoveis

30w↑3

This song deserved more of a hype for her drawing attention to real life issues instead of just skipping over them. What I love about Tove Lo is how she listens and understands her fans so much 💕

@marcelaarancibia4643

1y↑2

Tjank you Tove, you dont know how much i love you <3 im a scorpion lady you understand me :(

@OswaldoPachecoVE

2y↑41

Theres' too much to be thankful for during this new era. By far, one of the greatest/most creative and authentique artists nowadays. Sound wise, production wise and visual wise this woman keeps outstanding her singles one by one. Thanks for this incredible project <3

@erickmendes3044

2y↑4

her face in the final is ART

@manaswiniraman8740

25w↑5

i love this mv so much. the box she is in is just skin and how her body dysmorphia is screaming for her to get our of her own skin and bones. the bruises she is making the struggle she is going through just to be herself. or not to be. i love this so much because that is just how i feel everyday looking at the mirror. Tove Lo is just the most relatable queen.

@Wtftoveis

22w↑1

I have never seen such a beautiful or creative video before

@justinbancroft4328

1y↑2

I remember how close I was to going up. Just need to unwind. And collect all my pieces back. ♥️ then I'm finnish.🙏

@LEVIAHAN

2y↑11

Her body transformation , coupled with the choreography for this song was so relevant and Grammy worthy. I am now obsessed with this song!

@iamdimonzik

2y↑109

It’s deep, it’s simple, it’s sad and danceable, always ahead of its time. Serve again ✨🙏🏻✨

@marklee991

44w↑2

I have a daughter right now who is going though some serious issues. Tove, you are providing the light for her.

@maskedathiest

1y↑2

just need to have discipline and work hard.
songs like this keep people from "day one" and stuck on "some day".
great song though. one of my favs of all time.

@SuperMisfits138

....it's about having Bulimia, dude.

@SacuryKyle

2y↑23

THIS ERA WILL BE SO GOOD!! IM TOO EXCITED!!! 🥰

@briannestewart4877

2y↑28

I've had anorexia for almost ten years now and am still trying to recover. This song is amazing as well as all of your others and it really speaks to me. I love you!!

@losmaschin60n3s

2y↑3

Stay strong ❤

@ryanap8396

2y↑2

Don’t let people tear you down, you will always have people who love and support you

@briannestewart4877

2y↑1

@@ryanap8396 thank you so much

@briannestewart4877

2y↑1

@@losmaschin60n3s thank you!

@JDMimeTHEFIRST

26w↑3

I’m usually not into most modern pop artists, but you are one of my favorite artists, period. Have been for a long time. Janelle Monae is another and Lana del Rae, lykke Li, etc. This song alone is very relatable. As an autistic woman who has bouts of anorexia and orthorexia, thank you. 😊

Running got me through a lot and basically is my therapy, but now I have a torn labrum 😢. Have to swim and strength train, maybe write more for mental health. Listening to music helps, too. ❤

@TatianaVs-ze2fo

1y↑6

Only 2.2M? This deserves billions 🔥

@andya1744

2y↑140

This video is such a great representation of when you’re at war with your mind and you just want out from the intrusive thoughts. The way Tove has grown so much as an artist is inspiring. She’s always been super raw and honest and always peeling back the layers.

@simon_xcx

2y↑27

All the singles so far have been 10/10 for me! This one didn’t disappoint either 💓😍

@bowiejones5769

2y↑7

This feels like "no one dies for love" part 2 LOVE IT!!!!!

@chrisjoosten9819

7w↑1

The bridge on here is absolute groove.

@zed1stdow398

2y↑37

Such a talented lady! This album will stand out from the pack. 🐺🥀
My love goes to those that have suffered with body image issues x

@_.d2vd._

2y↑14

So excited for this album

@int6nsfy

46w↑2

I just got out of a psych ward, have been watching this video repeatedly. It’s how I felt inside of treatment, so happy this exists.

@JinxMarie1985

1y↑4

Was watching that on mush I was crying a lot. Brings up a lot of feelings. I love you so much!!

Second time on mush next day lol 😆
I love her deeply so much❤

@vgamemaster99

2y↑50

I can’t say enough how important it is for artists to make songs about things like this that people are struggling with, and can use music to get through with. On top of its importance, it has a catchy beat and really great lyrics!

@anneparham

Yeah I worry artists will stop being this raw because of fear of people being triggered but it really does help some who have struggled w this

@anneparham

1y↑1

(Ex: Taylor swifts music video of Anti-Hero featured the word “fat” and she had to remove that frame)

@adventuresntoto

2y↑32

I have not experienced an eating disorder before, but I relate to the feeling of depersonalization. It is a scary feeling. It's something I wish no one endures, and if you are, I hope you can get the support you need to ground yourself. One reason I really love Tove Lo is for songs like this; more vulnerable and raw songs. It's hard on her, so I don't want her climbing into this often. These songs help listeners feel less alone amid scary times, and it comes off as more authentic cause of who Tove Lo is.

@byhugodonis

35w↑2

I recently got diagnosed with a mental disorder and finally realized why this song spoke to me in a level I didn’t understand. Thank you for writing and singing from your soul and allowing us to be part of this journey with you.

@novalee4650

1y↑35

Had this song on repeat for the last 24 hours and it will probably stay that way for weeks now!

@TatianaVs-ze2fo

Is magical

@shaniecegullison

47w

Same

@rickardsamuelsson7753

2y↑6

I love the fact that 80s beats are back in the industry, its not only Tove. Absolutely love it.

@TigerWoodsLibido

Kavinsky, Electric Youth etc the ‘Drive’ and ‘Stranger Things’ soundtracks saved pop music.

@PROD5VE

2y↑10

Tove Lo is a huge inspiration to me and I WILL produce a song for her one day.

@lisalewis6043

13w

Oh girl. You're singing with my voice. When can I listen to this song and not cry? Thank you for being our voice in the darkness. There are so many of us. Too many...

@baileyneddo9559

i’ve never seen a more powerful portrayal of feeling trapped in your own skin.

@owenmunhuwakare5651

2y↑4

This is the best news ive heard today, Tove we are ready, bring it sis 😭❤️❤️the thirst is overrrr

@rjs2035

2y↑6

Yes 4 minutes!!!! BRING BACK LONG POP SONGS!!!! Every single released so far has been a MASTERPIECE and that’s a rare find. This album WILL NOT disappoint!! 🫶🏽

@Asteroid0202

6w↑2

I just discovered this song(and Tove) and I really liked the melody and arrangement at my first listen, but then I read the lyrics and wow!! The message is so beautiful😭😭 This is the self reflected type of song I’ve been looking for🥹

@raresg9637

2y↑6

The most underrated artist of our generation

@TheFlux2

2y↑16

So good. 'one two / grapefruit ' is just a great example of using just a handful of words to convey a world of pain. As always I love your voice.

@docvalentine13

1y↑20

I hope you never stop making music... I love every one of your songs!

@SynymynBuhnz

1y↑48

Thank You So Much for this! I cry and dance to this song. 3 decades of eating disorders and I'm still struggling every day. Thank you for this song and video!

@JinxMarie1985

My ED just started maybe 5 months ago... and I cannot eat. I'm hungry but for some reason... I can't eat. It gives me anxiety. I don't understand it.

@Jettypilelegs

Love to you both. 5 decades, how am I still in this fight?

@annnee6818

@JINX Please please please get help the quicker you start the more likely it will be you shift it completely, if you wait it could really take hold. Please, I beg you. Sounds like AN, highest death rate of all mental illness. Talk to someone!!!

@booskie4316

I think all of this comes from the desire to be desired. Regardless of your shape, look or form, we all want to be wanted. We all want to be accepted. We all get lost in pursuing those things that we believe will lead us to that acceptance and desire.

Love the song.

@Dieselboy221

1y↑2

I heard this song over and over and over again when my wife would shower and never really noticed it. That's until I got really stoned one night and she was blasting it in the shower. I ran to the bathroom to take a leak and I found myself taking a piss with the most amazing dance moves I have ever pulled. All I have to say is I'm hooked. Great tune.

@Pixelade

2y↑20

yeah, this will be your best album. no words 😩❤

@50Kvful

1y↑2

She is the new Woman = Powerful in everyway!

@zdenku

2y↑2

the level this bish is putting in the music industry is really really high. thanks for bringing it back.

@abdu11ahbutt

2y↑60

@j.h_8894

Obrigado por passar a letra

@luisfeliperodriguezmedina5253

2y↑223

Increíble el sonido de este come back de Tove Lo. Se agradece que siempre hay aportaciones de sonido diferentes de Tove Lo en cada producción que saca. Sin duda es una artista que gana el reconocimiento de sus fans y que ojalá fuera más reconocida en la música. Amazing. Brazo. 👏

@guillermobisbal7013

Estoy muy de acuerdo contigo Luis, pero este no es un come back de Tove Lo, no ha parado ni un minuto!

@luisfeliperodriguezmedina5253

2y↑3

@@guillermobisbal7013 no me refiero a la ausencia, soy fan de ella y se de su actividad, me refiero al festejo de regresar este año con nuevo disco

@josedejesusdavalosmarquez

2y↑1

Estoy de acuerdo con Tigo, pero más allá de ello, el mensaje que trasmite está canción, es simplemente profundo, ya que habla son algún trastorno alimenticio.

@tutujunioratyahoodotcom

I’m in line with your comments, Luis … totally in agreement with you. 🙂👍

@micheldemeulemeester2120

👍👍👌👌🖤

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@kevinhesspschamp8889

1y↑2

Song of 2023! Remember this! #GrammyAwards #BillboardMusicAwards #AmericanMusicAwards share the song like the song comment on the song!

@Ilikefrogs..

1y↑1

One of the best songs about eating disorders/body dysmorphia that I've ever heard.

@josedaydream0922

2y↑41

As someone who has struggled with weight and body image, I definitely appreciate and understand this song and video. Thank you, Tove Lo ! I’m really hoping I can see you in concert next year 🎉❤️👏🏾 proud fan from the Cayman Islands!

@deivid3414

2y↑91

- A MULHER SÓ LANÇA HINO! MISERICÓRDIA 😍💙

@gracie99999

2y↑2

😃<3

@phillippaulbauer5830

1y↑1

The first time I heard this I thought she said "How am I still in this body?" and I thought I'd never heard a sentence that made more sense to me in my life.

@juliaz3308

1y↑4

this song has been so important to me. i can’t count how many times i’ve cried listening to this

@sassy.

2y↑3

“No one dies from love” had me in tears, and I’m so happy to have caught this so early only uploaded 4 hrs ago! ❤🎉

@elizabethcmar1970

2y↑25

ANOTHER FUCKING INCREDIBLE PIECE OF ART. Thank you, Tove, for being so vulnerable with us. We love you. ❤️

@alienteknology5390

1y↑5

A beautiful song by a beautiful woman with an important message for people struggling with self image.

@bryanbrasile2703

2y↑18

THIS is art. The lyrics. The musical production. The message. The video. The choreo. Tove Lo is my muse.

@araflyrics

2y↑17

@tovelover2910

THANK U 💖

@TatianaVs-ze2fo

❤❤❤❤

@busrahtoparslan

2y↑8

Everything she does is clever, wild and filled with lots of emotions.

@thomasthomas8091

All women are beautiful in their own way, regardless of the outer appearance...the beautiful soul is what's important.

@carmencash3738

13w↑1

Omg this song is immaculate someone please give Tove Lo her STARS⭐⭐⭐⭐

@teddyruxbin9300

1y↑3

Thank you! 🙏 ❤

@user-gs8uc5vl3b

30w↑4

Girl you are an entire inspiration ❤

@Wtftoveis

21w

She defined an entire generation

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