Shame And Scandal In The Family
Trini Lopez Lyrics


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Woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Woe is me, shame and scandal in the family

In Trinidad there was a family
With much confusion as you will see
There was a mama and a papa and a boy who was grown
He wanted to marry and have a wife of his own
He met a young girl who suited him nice
He went to his papa to ask his advice
His papa said, "Son, I have to say no
That girl is your sister but your mama don't know"

Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family

A week went by and the summer came down
And soon another girl on the island, he found
He went to his papa to name the day
His papa shook his head and this time he did say

"You can't marry this girl, I have to say no
That girl is your aunty but your granny don't know

Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family

Now, he went to his mama and covered his head
He told his mama what his papa had said
His mama, she laughed, she said, "Go man, go
Your daddy ain't your daddy but your daddy don't know"

Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Hey, worries, it worries me, shame and scandal in the family
Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family





Hey, hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Hey, hey, hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family

Overall Meaning

The song "Shame and Scandal in the Family" by Trini Lopez tells the story of a family from Trinidad that finds itself in a complicated and scandalous situation. The family comprises a mother, father, and their son who becomes romantically involved with two different women. When he seeks his father's advice on marrying the first woman he falls in love with, his father says no because the woman happens to be the son's biological sister. However, when the son finds another woman he wants to marry, his father once again denies his request because the woman is actually his aunt.


The son eventually turns to his mother for help and confesses his troubles. Although the mother laughs at the situation, she reassures the son that his father is not his biological father, and that he should go ahead and marry whoever he chooses. The song ends with the refrain, "Hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family."


The song's lyrics are humorous and upbeat, but the story they tell is one of scandal and shame. The song highlights the complexities of family relationships and how secrets and misunderstandings can lead to disastrous consequences.


Line by Line Meaning

Woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
An expression of sadness and shame resulting from a family scandal


In Trinidad there was a family
The story takes place in Trinidad, a country in the Caribbean


With much confusion as you will see
The story is complicated and difficult to follow


He wanted to marry and have a wife of his own
The son desired to get married and start his own family


He met a young girl who suited him nice
The son found a young lady who he was attracted to


He went to his papa to ask his advice
The son sought his father's counsel before getting married


His papa said, "Son, I have to say no
The father disapproved of the son's choice of wife


That girl is your sister but your mama don't know"
The girl the son wanted to marry was actually his sister, but only the father knew the secret


A week went by and the summer came down
Time passed, and summer arrived on the island


And soon another girl on the island, he found
The son found another girl to fall in love with


He went to his papa to name the day
The son sought his father's blessing for his second marriage


His papa shook his head and this time he did say
The father, again, disapproved of the son's choice of wife


"You can't marry this girl, I have to say no
The father revealed that the girl the son wanted to marry was actually his aunt


That girl is your aunty but your granny don't know
The son's grandmother was unaware of the family secret


Now, he went to his mama and covered his head
Feeling embarrassed, the son approached his mother with shame


He told his mama what his papa had said
The son conveyed to his mother what his father had revealed about the family secret


His mama, she laughed, she said, "Go man, go
The mother laughed and encouraged the son to go ahead with his marriage plans


Your daddy ain't your daddy but your daddy don't know"
The mother disclosed that the son's father was not his biological father, but he was unaware of the secret


Hey, worries, it worries me, shame and scandal in the family
The scandal in the family is causing the singer a lot of worry and concern


Hey, hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Reiteration of the initial expression of sadness and shame due to the family scandal


Hey, hey, hey, woe is me, shame and scandal in the family
Further reiteration of the singer's sorrow and shame regarding the family scandal




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: LORD MELODY, LANCELOT PINARD

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Comments from YouTube:

Blabber

When you're happy, you enjoy the music, but when you're sad, you understand the lyrics.

everhard1000

great rendition !!!

hanrolav H

Trini's version is the best by far

Vinz Ramirez

I liked the part where he went OWIECK! OWIEK!

John Michael Torrecampo

+ In Memoriam +

Trini Lopez
May 15, 1937 - August 11, 2020

oscarschmidt

Oh no, thanks for posting. Didnt know that, just found his youtube performance few days back kicking and singing. Grief.

bsc nyc

everhRd.... great rendition. indeed.! 🤔🤔🤐😭

OPM Music TV

R.I.P TRINI LOPEZ

70briareos

RIP :(

lajadda

Great

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