Fairweather Friend
Vanessa Carlton Lyrics


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Say you see through the folly but you do it for the fame
And I'm fighting the jet stream drinking cheap wine on airplanes
And you're in LA not Chicago
Key under mat, I walk the dog, order in, home alone

Found your letter on a full moon Sunday night
Some other girl in your spell casting plans for her life
Pour the vodka and it dulls sharp knives
Breathe the words of diamonds on rings

And you didn't mean to do it
So I don't have to believe it
If you didn't really mean it
Then magical thinking gets us by

Think for the after show those candy-colored lips
Your age is showing and you've gotta work harder for it
It's always easier with freshmen
They're not as clever and she'll bring you to life

And you didn't mean to do it
So I don't have to believe it
If you didn't really mean it
Then magical thinking gets us by

My fairweather friend
Fairweather friend

Live for the folly but you did it for the fame
Now you're fragile as porcelain drinking cheap wine on airplanes
Did I ever leave Chicago?
Got your message that you're doing well

And you didn't mean to do it
So I don't have to believe it
If we didn't really mean it
Then magical thinking gets us by

Gets us by, gets us by

You say you see through the folly but you did it for the fame

You say you see through the folly but you did it for the fame

You say you see through the folly but you did it for the fame

You say you see through the folly but you did it for the fame





My fairweather friend

Overall Meaning

The song "Fairweather Friend" by Vanessa Carlton is a melancholic ballad that delves into the complexities of a strained friendship. The opening lines of the song indicate that the singer's friend is willing to compromise their values or beliefs for the sake of fame, while the singer is struggling to keep up with their friend's glamourous lifestyle. The chorus repeats the phrase, "And you didn't mean to do it / So I don't have to believe it / If you didn't really mean it / Then magical thinking gets us by," suggesting that the relationship is based on the friend's tendency to make empty promises.


As the song progresses, the singer discovers a letter from the friend that reveals they have intentions to use another girl for their own gain. The friend seems to be changing and aging, while the singer remains the same. The line, "Your age is showing and you've gotta work harder for it," suggests that the friend is struggling to maintain their image and lifestyle as they get older. The song ends on a slightly bitter note, with the singer receiving a message from the friend that they are doing well, but still questioning the authenticity of their words.


Overall, "Fairweather Friend" is a poignant critique of the emptiness and transience of fame and the difficulties of maintaining genuine relationships within its constraints.


Line by Line Meaning

Say you see through the folly but you do it for the fame
You know it's ridiculous, yet you do it for the attention


And I'm fighting the jet stream drinking cheap wine on airplanes
I'm trying to keep up while travelling on a budget


And you're in LA not Chicago
You're not where I thought you were


Key under mat, I walk the dog, order in, home alone
I'm stuck at home while you're out having fun


Found your letter on a full moon Sunday night
I stumbled upon your message on a mystical evening


Some other girl in your spell casting plans for her life
You're scheming with someone else to manipulate their future


Pour the vodka and it dulls sharp knives
Alcohol is a temporary pain reliever


Breathe the words of diamonds on rings
You're spinning stories of wealth and status


And you didn't mean to do it
You made a mistake but you claim it was unintentional


So I don't have to believe it
I don't have to accept your excuses


If you didn't really mean it
If you're lying to me


Then magical thinking gets us by
Then we'll use our imagination to cope


Think for the after show those candy-colored lips
You're planning for the future after the fame fades


Your age is showing and you've gotta work harder for it
You're getting older and need to put in more effort to stay relevant


It's always easier with freshmen
It's easier to manipulate people who are naive


They're not as clever and she'll bring you to life
She's not as smart as you, but she'll make you feel alive


My fairweather friend
You're not a true friend when the going gets tough


Live for the folly but you did it for the fame
You're chasing after what's frivolous for the sake of popularity


Now you're fragile as porcelain drinking cheap wine on airplanes
You're delicate and vulnerable despite pretending to be strong


Did I ever leave Chicago?
Did I ever really move on from where I started?


Got your message that you're doing well
I received your update on your successful life


Then magical thinking gets us by
We'll pretend that everything is okay


Gets us by, gets us by
It's enough to get us through the tough times




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: VANESSA CARLTON

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