Monét has written songs for a number of artists including Nas, Ariana Grande, Fifth Harmony, T.I., GOOD Music, Lupe Fiasco, Chrisette Michele, Coco Jones, Chris Brown, and Dirty Money. Most notably in 2019, Monét received two Grammy Award nominations for Album of the Year for her work on Grande's "thank u, next" and Record of the Year for "7 Rings".
Stop
Victoria Monét Lyrics
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And it ain't your birthday
So why you callin' me with a wishlist
Like I live in a vase?
See, I've been bamboozled once before
You ain't foolin' me again
I just wanted you to know what I'm gon' say
Barely even just got on
Do I look like a tree to you?
Well, leaf me alone, if I do
And take this as your fair warnin'
Next time you're in need of somethin'
Don't call my phone, bitch
I need you to stop
Stop askin' me for shit
Ooh, I put this on in case you forget
Ooh-ooh, these niggas always want somethin' (somethin')
You know they always want somethin'
But nigga, I want somethin' too (oh-oh)
I want you to stop
A nigga just got paid
And the hair is laid
And my soul is saved
But I'm not your bank
Ask your mama
And remember
Don't call my phone, bitch
I need you to stop
Askin' me for shit
Ooh, I put this on in case you forget
Ooh-ooh, these niggas always want somethin' (somethin')
You know they always want somethin'
But nigga, I want somethin' too (oh-oh)
I want you to stop
In Victoria Monét's song "Stop," she addresses someone who constantly asks her for money and favors without considering her own needs and boundaries. The lyrics convey her frustration and assertiveness in setting boundaries in a direct and unapologetic manner.
The opening lines "It ain't even Christmas / And it ain't your birthday / So why you callin' me with a wishlist / Like I live in a vase?" express the absurdity of the situation. The person in question is asking for things as if it's a special occasion, even though it's not. Monét references being "bamboozled once before," implying that she has been taken advantage of in the past and will not tolerate it anymore.
She asserts her stance by saying "Stop askin' me for money, get your own." Monét emphasizes that she has worked hard to achieve her own success and does not owe anyone financial assistance. The line "Do I look like a tree to you? / Well, leaf me alone, if I do" cleverly plays with the comparison of being treated as a tree, constantly providing for others.
In the chorus, Monét repeats the message more bluntly, stating "I need you to stop askin' me for shit / Ooh, I put this on in case you forget." The phrase "these niggas always want somethin'" reflects a general frustration with people who constantly seek favors or handouts. Monét also asserts her own desires, saying "But nigga, I want somethin' too," reminding the person that there should be a mutual exchange in any relationship.
The bridge of the song highlights Monét's recent success with lines like "A nigga just got paid / And the hair is laid / And my soul is saved." It emphasizes her individual achievements and self-sufficiency, further strengthening her resolve to not be taken advantage of. The song ends on a clear and direct note, repeating the line "Don't call my phone, bitch" to solidify Monét's boundaries and demand for respect.
Overall, "Stop" showcases Victoria Monét's assertiveness and empowerment, urging others to respect her boundaries and needs while reminding them of her own desires in any relationship.
Line by Line Meaning
It ain't even Christmas
It's not a special occasion
And it ain't your birthday
It's not your special day
So why you callin' me with a wishlist
Why are you asking me for things you want
Like I live in a vase?
As if I have an endless supply of resources
See, I've been bamboozled once before
I've been deceived before
You ain't foolin' me again
I won't be fooled again
I just wanted you to know what I'm gon' say
I want to make my point clear
Stop askin' me for money, get your own, I
Stop relying on me financially, figure it out yourself
Barely even just got on
I've only recently started doing well
Do I look like a tree to you?
Do I appear like a source of endless support to you?
Well, leaf me alone, if I do
Leave me alone if that's what you think
And take this as your fair warnin'
Consider this as a clear and fair warning
Next time you're in need of somethin'
When you need something in the future
Don't call my phone, bitch
Don't contact me, disrespectful person
I need you to stop
I want you to cease your behavior
Ooh, I put this on in case you forget
I'm reminding you
Ooh-ooh, these niggas always want somethin' (somethin')
These people always have ulterior motives
You know they always want somethin'
You're aware they're always after something
But nigga, I want somethin' too (oh-oh)
But I also have desires
I want you to stop
I want you to cease your behavior
A nigga just got paid
I recently received my paycheck
And the hair is laid
My hair looks good
And my soul is saved
I feel content and at peace
But I'm not your bank
But I'm not your source of money
Ask your mama
Ask your mother for what you need
And remember
And keep in mind
Don't call my phone, bitch
Don't contact me, disrespectful person
I need you to stop
I want you to cease your behavior
Askin' me for shit
Requesting things from me
Ooh, I put this on in case you forget
I'm reminding you
Ooh-ooh, these niggas always want somethin' (somethin')
These people always have ulterior motives
You know they always want somethin'
You're aware they're always after something
But nigga, I want somethin' too (oh-oh)
But I also have desires
I want you to stop
I want you to cease your behavior
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Dernst II Emile, James Fauntleroy, Timothy Suby, Victoria Monet McCants, Yonatan Ayal
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@callme_t
This women’s ability to make songs out of anything is crazy and shows talent😂😂
@norwoodsstokes3883
Deep n her bag like a grandma with her peppermints...🎯🎯🎯🎯💯
@kimmysmith4011
Anything at all lol and I love it 😂
@mia_tay
I knew she was creative when I heard A$$ like that😭🩷
@vadiva08
Deadass Talent ❤ VM is def coming up…her vibe is the refreshment Ive needed in this industry
@BLAQROSEGOLD
A gift inside a gift kind of situation
@TheCRYSTALLURE
The melodic changes on this track are soo intricate. I can’t wait for this one to be performed live. ✨✨🤎🫶🏾
@blackdateline1996
Me too!!!!!!
@musicngelato
You can thank D Mile. His production talent is insane.
@jerzydevoos5413
Miss music like this