08 hate it here
Wilco Lyrics


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I try to stay busy
I do the dishes, I mow the lawn
I try to keep myself occupied
Even though I know you're not coming home

I try to keep the house nice and neat
I make my bed, I change the sheets
I even learned how to use a washing machine
Keeping things clean doesn't change anything

What am I gonna do when I run out of shirts to fold?
What am I gonna do when I run out of lawn to mow?
What am I gonna do if you never come home?
Tell me, oh, what am I gonna do?

Oh, I hate it
I hate it here
When you're gone

I caught myself thinking
I caught myself thinking once again
I have to try to keep my mind out of this
Try not to pretend

I'll check the phone
I'll check the mail
I'll check the phone again
I call you're mom
She says you're not there
And I should take care

Oh, I hate it here
When you're gone
I hate it
I hate it here
When you're gone

I try to stay busy
I take out the trash, I sweep the floor




Try to keep myself occupied
'Cause I know you don't live here anymore

Overall Meaning

The Wilco song "Hate It Here" is a devastatingly honest portrayal of loneliness and despair caused by a failing relationship. As the title suggests, the singer expresses his dislike for his current state of being, which is characterized by the absence of his lover. The opening lines of the song are symbolic of the singer's attempt to keep himself busy to avoid loneliness. He tries to be efficient with his time by doing chores such as washing dishes, mowing the lawn, and keeping the house tidy, even though he knows it won't make a difference.


The singer's loneliness intensifies, and he begins to question what he will do when his chores won't be sufficient to fill the emptiness. The lines, "What am I gonna do when I run out of shirts to fold? What am I gonna do when I run out of lawn to mow?" imply that daily activities won't satisfy him. He recognizes that he's lost his partner, and his world has crumbled as a result. He's lost his purpose, and he feels helpless and unimportant. Hence, he asks: "What am I gonna do if you never come home? Tell me, oh, what am I gonna do?"


The verse that follows highlights the singer's futile attempts to keep his mind preoccupied with thoughts. He admits that his mind still wanders, and he longs for his partner's return. He checks the phone, mail, and calls his partner's mother in the hopes of getting information, but all he gets is disappointment as she tells him that his partner's not there. This song is a heartbreaking ode to those stuck in a loveless relationship that longs for the return of their partner's love, but it never comes.


Line by Line Meaning

I try to stay busy
The singer tries to keep himself occupied


I do the dishes, I mow the lawn
The singer performs household chores


I try to keep myself occupied
The singer attempts to stay engaged in activities


Even though I know you're not coming home
The artist is aware that his loved one is not returning


I try to keep the house nice and neat
The artist tries to maintain an orderly home


I make my bed, I change the sheets
The singer takes care of his bedding


I even learned how to use a washing machine
The singer became skilled in laundry


Keeping things clean doesn't change anything
The artist realizes that, even with cleanliness, things remain the same


What am I gonna do when I run out of shirts to fold?
The artist questions what he will do when tasks cannot be performed


What am I gonna do when I run out of lawn to mow?
The artist wonders what he will do when he completes his outdoor duties


What am I gonna do if you never come home?
The singer worries about the possibility of his loved one never returning


Tell me, oh, what am I gonna do?
The artist asks for answers and guidance


Oh, I hate it
The singer expresses hatred


I hate it here
The singer dislikes his current living situation


When you're gone
The singer is not content when his loved one is away


I caught myself thinking
The artist realizes he is engaging in deep thoughts


I caught myself thinking once again
The artist acknowledges repetitive thought patterns


I have to try to keep my mind out of this
The singer attempts to avoid negative thoughts


Try not to pretend
The singer endeavors to avoid self-deception


I'll check the phone
The artist will verify the phone for messages


I'll check the mail
The artist checks the mail for any communication


I'll check the phone again
The artist repeats the action of checking the phone


I call you're mom
The singer attempts to contact his loved one's mother for help


She says you're not there
The loved one's mother informs the artist his loved one is not present


And I should take care
The loved one's mother advises the singer to care for himself


When you're gone
The singer is unhappy when his loved one is away


I hate it
The singer expresses hatred


I hate it here
The artist dislikes his current living situation


I try to stay busy
The artist tries to stay occupied


I take out the trash, I sweep the floor
The singer takes care of housekeeping duties


'Cause I know you don't live here anymore
The singer is aware his loved one is no longer present




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: GLENN KOTCHE, JEFF TWEEDY, JOHN STIRRATT, MIKAEL JORGENSEN, NELS CLINE, PAT SANSONE

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