plase be patient with me
Wilco Lyrics


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I should warn you when I'm not well
I can tell
Oh, there's nothing I can do
To make this easier for you
You're gonna need to be patient with me

I'm this apple, this happening stone
When I'm alone
Oh, but my blessings get so blurred
At the sound of your words
I'm gonna need you to be patient with me

How can I warn you when my tongue turns to dust like we've discussed?
It doesn't mean that I don't care




It means I'm partially there
You're gonna need to be patient with me

Overall Meaning

In Wilco's song "Please Be Patient With Me," the lyrics convey the message of someone being vulnerable and struggling with mental health issues. They warn their partner about their state of mind and explain that they may not be able to always relay their thoughts and emotions clearly. The opening lyrics set the tone for the whole song, stating that when the person is not feeling well, it becomes difficult for them to function, and there is nothing they can do to change it. They acknowledge that it will be hard on their partner, and express a need for patience and understanding.


As the song continues, the metaphorical imagery used in the lyrics becomes apparent when the person describes themselves as "this apple, this happening stone." This line paints a picture of someone who is both fragile yet also sturdy in their being. The next line goes on to describe how even though they are this way, it becomes challenging to differentiate between what is real and what is not when their partner's words start to blur their thoughts. This is where they acknowledge that they will rely on their partner's patience and understanding to help them through this struggle.


In the final verse, the person asks how they can warn their partner when their ability to communicate is hindered. They explain that just because they may struggle with expressing themselves at times, it does not negate the fact that they care about their partner. It is a reminder that even when someone is struggling, it does not mean they do not love those around them. The overall message of the song is that sometimes, one needs patience, love, and understanding to make it through the tough times.


Line by Line Meaning

I should warn you when I'm not well
I need to let you know when I'm struggling


I can tell
I can feel when I'm not doing well


Oh, there's nothing I can do
I can't control how I feel


To make this easier for you
To make it easier for you to deal with me


You're gonna need to be patient with me
You have to be patient with me despite my struggles


I'm this apple, this happening stone
I am two different things at once - fragile and stable


When I'm alone
My struggles are easier to handle when I'm alone


Oh, but my blessings get so blurred
But my positive traits become less noticeable


At the sound of your words
When you speak to me


I'm gonna need you to be patient with me
I'll need you to be supportive through my ups and downs


How can I warn you when my tongue turns to dust like we've discussed?
How can I communicate when I'm struggling to articulate my thoughts?


It doesn't mean that I don't care
My struggles don't mean that I don't care about you


It means I'm partially there
I'm still trying to be present for you


You're gonna need to be patient with me
You'll have to be understanding and patient with me




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Written by: JEFF TWEEDY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

chouu huang

I should warn you
When I'm not well
I can't tell
Oh, there's nothing I can do
To make this easier for you

You're gonna need to be patient with me

I'm this apple, this happening stone
When I'm alone
Oh, but my blessings get so blurred
At the sound of your words

I'm gonna need you to be patient with me

How can I warn you when my tongue turns to dust
Like we've discussed
It doesn't mean that I don't care
It means I'm partially there

You're gonna need to be patient with me



All comments from YouTube:

chouu huang

I should warn you
When I'm not well
I can't tell
Oh, there's nothing I can do
To make this easier for you

You're gonna need to be patient with me

I'm this apple, this happening stone
When I'm alone
Oh, but my blessings get so blurred
At the sound of your words

I'm gonna need you to be patient with me

How can I warn you when my tongue turns to dust
Like we've discussed
It doesn't mean that I don't care
It means I'm partially there

You're gonna need to be patient with me

Jared Fiske

Thank you, Jeff, for putting voice to what it feels like to be…well, to be what this song describes. Makes me feel 15% less crazy. 

Captain Swan

My favorite Wilco song 💜

Emre Goksen

Very soothing music. Reminds me of old good days.

Cristian Pacheco

grandiosos... wilco sabe como romperte el corazón y hacerte morir de amor.

Daharla Medina

A great song, I love it :)

Velouria Fiction

my teenage-me who is still living in me sometimes says thank you to jeff tweedy for finding words like these.

babyscream

this is the perfect song

Chairs missing

One of my hiding songs.

munkhtuvshin damdinsuren

Ghost town make me here,lovely song, I really like

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