You Don't Know What Love Is
Wynton Marsalis Lyrics


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You don't know what love is
'Til you've learned the meaning of the blues
Until you've loved a love you've had to lose,
You don't know what love is.

You don't know how lips hurt
Until you've kissed and had to pay the cost,
Until you've flipped your heart and you have lost,
You don't know what love is.

Do you know how a lost heart fears
At the thought of reminiscing,
And how lips that taste of tears
Lose their taste for kissing?
You don't know how hearts burn
For love that can, not live yet never dies.




Until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes,
You don't know what love is.

Overall Meaning

Wynton Marsalis's song You Don't Know What Love Is is a powerful ballad that explores themes of heartbreak, loss, and the true meaning of love. The song is about the realization that true love cannot be known until we have experienced the pain and sorrow of lost love. The opening line, "You don't know what love is until you've learned the meaning of the blues" sets the tone for the rest of the song.


The lyrics suggest that until we have loved and lost, we cannot fully understand the depth of love. Marsalis sings, "Until you've loved a love you've had to lose, you don't know what love is." The pain of a broken heart is necessary to truly appreciate the joys of being in love. The second verse speaks to the physical pain that can come with love, "You don't know how lips hurt until you've kissed and had to pay the cost." Loving someone can be a profound experience that requires sacrifice, and the cost of that sacrifice can be great.


The final verse of the song is particularly poignant as Marsalis sings, "Until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes, you don't know what love is." The idea of sleepless nights and the constant agonizing over a lost love is a universal experience, and the raw emotion in these lyrics is powerful.


Overall, You Don't Know What Love Is is a beautiful song that speaks to the pain and beauty of love. The lyrics are insightful and poetic, and Marsalis's delivery is soulful and heartfelt.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't know what love is
You cannot truly know the feeling of love


'Til you've learned the meaning of the blues
Unless you've experienced heartbreak and sadness


Until you've loved a love you've had to lose,
Unless you have loved someone that you have had to let go of


You don't know what love is.
You still cannot truly know the feeling of love


You don't know how lips hurt
You do not understand the pain that can come from kissing someone


Until you've kissed and had to pay the cost,
Unless you have suffered as a result of loving someone


Until you've flipped your heart and you have lost,
Unless you have loved and lost


You don't know what love is.
You still cannot truly know the feeling of love


Do you know how a lost heart fears
Do you understand the fear that can come from losing someone you love?


At the thought of reminiscing,
When you think back on the memories you shared


And how lips that taste of tears
And how tears can change the way a kiss tastes


Lose their taste for kissing?
Making it difficult to enjoy kissing again


You don't know how hearts burn
You do not understand the emotional pain that can come from loving someone


For love that can, not live yet never dies.
For a love that cannot physically exist but still remains strong


Until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes,
Unless you have stayed up all night thinking about someone you love


You don't know what love is.
You still cannot truly know the feeling of love




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DON RAYE, GENE DE PAUL

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