Black Flowers
Yo La Tengo Lyrics


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You can take what you can get
I forgive but I forget
You can never sleep enough
And your alarm is going off
You wake up and you can't pretend
A dream was just a dream again
Won't you dry your eyes?
But it doesn't matter anymore
You did just what you did before
Until you realize the words
Are going on and on and on

You can dig your grave in joy
When you find the real McCoy
When some pretty boys with skinny ties
With black flowers and Valentines
Try to take you home
Do you recognize that I
Have stopped before you get too high
On your own, surprise
Singing la la la la

You want it, you got it
You can't take it home
You got a long way to go
I wait forever to say that you will
You have a heart to show, ohh

Well you don't have to stay inside
Don't have to run, don't have to hide
Come dry your eyes
You know you can always change your mind
Maybe I will too in time
Once we understand
No one understands at all




Singing la la la la
Singing la la la la

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Yo La Tengo's song "Black Flowers" can be interpreted as a song about the disappointments and inevitable failures of life. The first verse speaks of forgiveness and forgetting, but also the exhausting reality of constantly waking up to face the same struggles and failures every day. The line "a dream was just a dream again" emphasizes the fleeting nature of hope and how it can quickly slip away. The second verse introduces the idea of finding joy in the simple things, but also the danger of letting oneself be seduced by superficial pleasures ("pretty boys with skinny ties/with black flowers and Valentines"). The singer warns against getting too high on one's own desires without recognizing what is truly important. The chorus offers the idea of redemption and the potential for change - the singer offers a way out, a way to dry one's eyes and start again, even if no one really understands.


This song is characteristic of Yo La Tengo's introspective and contemplative style, often dealing with themes of melancholy and introspection. It is a slow and dreamy song, with a somewhat mournful melody that reinforces the sense of longing and regret in the lyrics. Overall, "Black Flowers" speaks to the human condition of constantly striving for something better, but also holding onto hope that things can change.


Line by Line Meaning

You can take what you can get
Be grateful for what you have


I forgive but I forget
Forgiveness doesn't erase the memory


You can never sleep enough
Rest is essential


And your alarm is going off
Time waits for no man


You wake up and you can't pretend
Reality sets in


A dream was just a dream again
Illusions fade away


Won't you dry your eyes?
It's okay to cry


But it doesn't matter anymore
Let go of the past


You did just what you did before
Habits are hard to break


Until you realize the words
Awareness is key


Are going on and on and on
Life goes on


You can dig your grave in joy
Find happiness in simple things


When you find the real McCoy
Recognize genuineness


When some pretty boys with skinny ties
Beware of superficiality


With black flowers and Valentines
Deception comes in many forms


Try to take you home
Be cautious of those who try to lure you


Do you recognize that I
Do you see my intentions


Have stopped before you get too high
I want the best for you


On your own, surprise
You're capable of independence


Singing la la la la
Life goes on


You want it, you got it
Be careful what you wish for


You can't take it home
Material possessions don't bring happiness


You got a long way to go
Life is a journey


I wait forever to say that you will
I have faith in you


You have a heart to show, ohh
You are capable of love


Well you don't have to stay inside
Explore the world


Don't have to run, don't have to hide
Be yourself


Come dry your eyes
It's okay to cry


You know you can always change your mind
It's never too late to change


Maybe I will too in time
We're all capable of growth


Once we understand
Insight brings clarity


No one understands at all
Life is full of mystery


Singing la la la la
Life goes on


Singing la la la la
Life goes on




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