DOB: June 22, 1966 (sun sign:Cancer)
Hometown: … Read Full Bio ↴Name: Kazuyoshi Saito
DOB: June 22, 1966 (sun sign:Cancer)
Hometown: Tochigi, Japan
Blood Type: O
An acoustic guitar that his mother bought for him in the 6th grade changed his life. In intermediate / high school, Kazuyoshi was a guitarist in a band. Having been influenced by his senior schoolmate, he started to write songs in college and moved to Tokyo at the age of 21. He continued to build his experience as a musician and made his major label debut in 1993. His well-known works include: 'Aruite Kaero', 'Utautai no Ballad' and others. Kazuyoshi performed at the famous Budokan in both 1999 and 2004.
ジレンマ
斉藤和義 Lyrics
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結局最後は虚しくなった
分かっちゃいるのに今日も
よせばいいのに今日も
イメージばっかに気を取られて
気がつきゃただの八方美人
誰かのせいにしたくて
誰かのせいにする
嫌われないようにするために
やっぱり虚しい八方美人
普通を隠すために
バカがバレナイヨウニ
誰かと自分をくらべっこして
数えきれない嘘を重ねる
本当はいったい何処だ
本当の君は誰だ
なんだか泣きたくなるな
何も考えず泣きたくなるな
だけど涙は出ない
何かが邪魔して出ない
不器用と言えば聞こえはいいが
隠してみたってただの小器用
なんだかカッコ悪いな
とってもカッコ悪いな
何だか一人になるな
何だか一人になるな
なりたくないのになるな
ほんとは望んでるのかな
誰かと自分をくらべっこして
結局最後は虚しくなった
分かっちゃいるのに今日も...
知りたくなるのさ今日も...
誰かと自分をくらべっこして
何だか もう疲れた
いったい きみは だれだ
ずっと考えてる
The lyrics of 斉藤和義's song ジレンマ ("Dilemma") are about feeling lost and conflicted, struggling to find one's true self through the constant comparison with others. The first stanza talks about the main character's habit of constantly comparing themselves to others and how ultimately it leaves them feeling empty. Despite knowing that they should stop, they still get caught up in appearances and try to please everyone. They blame others for their own problems instead of taking responsibility for their actions.
The second stanza talks about the pressure to fit in and be liked, which makes the main character feel even more helpless. They hide their true selves behind a facade of normalcy and small talk, afraid of being exposed as foolish or inadequate. The constant lying drains them and they start to wonder who they really are.
The third stanza talks about the feeling of being alone and how it's difficult to express one's emotions even when they want to. The fear of being seen as awkward or clumsy stops them from reaching out to others, leading to further isolation. The song ends with the main character still searching for answers and asking who they really are.
Overall, the lyrics explore themes of self-doubt, loneliness, and the struggle to find one's true identity in a world where appearances often matter more than substance.
Line by Line Meaning
誰かと自分をくらべっこして
Comparing oneself to others
結局最後は虚しくなった
Ended up feeling empty
分かっちゃいるのに今日も
Knowing but still doing it today
よせばいいのに今日も
It would be better to let it go today
イメージばっかに気を取られて
Getting caught up in appearances
気がつきゃただの八方美人
Realizing that one is just a people pleaser
誰かのせいにしたくて
Wanting to blame someone else
誰かのせいにする
Blaming someone else
嫌われないようにするために
Trying not to be disliked
やっぱり虚しい八方美人
Still feeling empty as a people pleaser
普通を隠すために
Hiding one's true self
バカがバレナイヨウニ
Trying not to reveal one's foolishness
数えきれない嘘を重ねる
Telling countless lies
本当はいったい何処だ
Where is the real self?
本当の君は誰だ
Who is the real you?
なんだか泣きたくなるな
Feeling like crying
何も考えず泣きたくなるな
Feeling like crying without thinking
だけど涙は出ない
But the tears won't come
何かが邪魔して出ない
Something is blocking the tears
不器用と言えば聞こえはいいが
Sounds good to say clumsy
隠してみたってただの小器用
Just being good at hiding
なんだかカッコ悪いな
Feeling uncool
とってもカッコ悪いな
Really uncool
何だか一人になるな
Feeling alone
なりたくないのになるな
Not wanting to but becoming alone
ほんとは望んでるのかな
Is it really what is wanted?
知りたくなるのさ今日も...
Still wanting to know today...
誰かと自分をくらべっこして
Comparing oneself to others
何だか もう疲れた
Feeling tired
いったい きみは だれだ
Who are you, exactly?
ずっと考えてる
Continuously thinking
Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: SAITO KAZUYOSHI
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