상남자
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되고파 너의 오빠
너의 사랑이 난 너무 고파
되고파 너의 오빠
널 갖고 말 거야 두고 봐 (fire!)

왜 내 맘을 흔드는 건데?
왜 내 맘을 흔드는 건데?
왜 내 맘을 흔드는 건데?
흔드는 건데, 흔드는 건데?

아빠, 아빤 대체 어떻게
엄마한테 고백한 건지
편지라도 써야 될런지
뭔지, 니 앞에서 난 먼지

괜히 틱틱대고, 씩씩대고, 징징대게 돼
나는 진지한데, 찌질하게 시비나 걸게 돼
뭔데 신경 쓰여, 다 큰 날 애로 만들어
거꾸로 뒤집을껴, 인연을 연인으로

대학까지도 너랑 간다면 참 잘 갈 것 같아 uh
가나다라마바사아 하쿠나마타타 uh
똑같은 프로필 사진 왜 자꾸 확인할까? Uh
그렇다고 착각하지마, 쉬운 남자 아냐 uh

안달 났어, 나 안달 났어
니가 뭔데? 너만 잘났어?
왜 나를 자꾸 놀려, 놀려
너 이제 그만 hol' up, hol' up

꽉 잡아 날 덮치기 전에
내 맘이 널 놓치기 전에
Say what you want
Say what you want
니가 진짜로 원하는 게 뭐야?

꽉 잡아 날 덮치기 전에
내 맘이 널 놓치기 전에
Say what you want
Say what you want
니가 진짜로 원하는 게 뭐야?

왜 내 맘을 흔드는 건데?
왜 내 맘을 흔드는 건데?
왜 내 맘을 흔드는 건데?
흔드는 건데, 흔드는 건데?

겉으론 bad, bad girl 속은 더 bad, bad girl
나 같은 남잘 놓치면 후회하게 될 걸
메신저 확인해놓고 누르지 않는 너의 행위
"1" 자리 없어 짐과 동시에 속만 타지
네비게이션이나 살까 봐 (빠름, 빠름, 빠름)
어필하려고 계속 난 (아둥바둥, 바둥)
진심? (I got 'em) 뒷심? (I got 'em)
내가 유일하게 갖지 못한 건 너의 (아름, 아름다움)

이 내가 어떻게 변하면 되겠니? Hol' up
밀당? 어장? 그런 거 난 잘 (몰러)
대신 아프면 119말고 날 불러
니가 울라면 울어, 웃으라면 웃어, 구르라면 굴러

안달 났어, 나 안달 났어
니가 뭔데? 너만 잘났어?
왜 나를 자꾸 놀려, 놀려
너 이제 그만 hol' up, hol' up

꽉 잡아 날 덮치기 전에
내 맘이 널 놓치기 전에
Say what you want
Say what you want
니가 진짜로 원하는 게 뭐야?

꽉 잡아 날 덮치기 전에
내 맘이 널 놓치기 전에
Say what you want
Say what you want
니가 진짜로 원하는 게 뭐야?

되고파 너의 오빠
너를 향한 나의 마음을 왜 몰라?
나를 모른 척해도, 차가운 척해도
널 밀어내진 못하겠어

되고파 너의 오빠
너의 남자가 될 거야, 두고 봐
나의 마음이 네게 닿도록
지금 달려갈 거야 yah-yah-ah

꽉 잡아 날 덮치기 전에 (yeah-yeah-yeah)
내 맘이 널 놓치기 전에 (놓치기 전에)
Say what you want
Say what you want
니가 진짜로 원하는 게 뭐야?

꽉 잡아 날 덮치기 전에 (oh)
내 맘이 널 놓치기 전에 (oh)
Say what you want




Say what you want
니가 진짜로 원하는 게 뭐야?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to the song "상남자" or "Boy In Luv" by BTS (Bangtan Sonyeondan) describe the feelings of an adolescent boy who is deeply in love with a girl and desperately wants to become her "oppa" (older brother). The song expresses his yearning to be the one that she loves, and his frustration with himself for not knowing how to make his feelings clear to her. Through the lyrics, he questions why his heart is constantly swayed by her, and wonders how his dad managed to confess to his mom when he is unable to do so himself. The song further explores the boy's internal conflict, as he feels that he is being perceived as immature and weak when he tries to express his feelings. Yet, at the same time, he feels a strong determination to overturn his fate of being friend-zoned by turning his relationship with the girl from a mere connection to a romantic one.


The song also highlights the way in which the boy feels like he is being toyed with by the girl he loves, and the frustration he feels at not being able to decipher her true thoughts and intentions. He oscillates between being numb to her, expecting her to take the first step, and taking the initiative himself before he loses her to someone else. The chorus repeats the phrase "Say what you want" urging the girl to be honest about her feelings towards him. In the end, the lyrics are hopeful, as the boy declares that he will persist in his pursuit of her, and that he will not give up until his love for her is reciprocated.


Line by Line Meaning

되고파 너의 오빠
I want to be your older brother


너의 사랑이 난 너무 고파
I am starving for your love


널 갖고 말 거야 두고 봐
I will have you, just watch


왜 내 맘을 흔드는 건데
Why are you shaking my heart?


흔드는 건데 흔드는 건데
You keep shaking it


아빠, 아빤 대체 어떻게
Dad, how did you confess to mom?


엄마한테 고백한 건지
Did you confess to mom?


편지라도 써야 될런지
Should I write a letter?


뭔지, 네 앞에서 난 먼지
I feel like nothing in front of you


괜히 틱틱대고 씩씩대고 징징대게 돼
I act childish and whine for no reason


나는 진지한데 찌질하게 시비나 걸게 돼
I try to be serious, but end up being petty


뭔데 신경 쓰여
Why am I so concerned?


다 큰 날 애로 만들어
You make me feel like a kid again


거꾸로 뒤집을껴, 인연을 연인으로
I want to turn our fate upside down and be lovers


대학까지도 너랑 간다면 참 잘 갈 것 같아
If we go to college together, we would do well


Oh 가나다라마바사아 하쿠나마타타!
Oh, I'll even learn the ABC's and the Lion King!


Oh 똑같은 프로필 사진 왜 자꾸 확인할까
Why do I keep checking your same profile picture?


Oh 그렇다고 착각하지마 쉬운 남자 아냐
Don't misunderstand me, I'm not an easy guy


안달 났어 나 안달 났어
I'm annoyed, yes I am


네가 뭔데? 너만 잘났어?
Who do you think you are? Are you the only one great?


왜 나를 자꾸 놀려 놀려
Why do you keep playing with me and teasing me?


너 이제 그만 hol' up, hol' up
You better stop, hol' up, hol' up!


꽉 잡아 날 덮치기 전에
Grab me tightly before it's too late


내 맘이 널 놓치기 전에
Before my heart loses you


Say what you want
Say what you really want


네가 진짜로 원하는 게 뭐야
What do you really want?


겉으론 bad, bad girl, 속은 더 bad, bad girl
You seem like a bad, bad girl, but you're even worse inside


나 같은 남잘 놓치면 후회하게 될 걸
You'll regret it if you let go of a guy like me


메신저 확인해놓고 누르지 않는 너의 행위
You check your messenger, but don't reply


"1" 자리 없어 짐과 동시에 속만 타지 네비
When there's no "1" in my inbox, my heart aches like a navigation


게이션이나 살까 봐 (빠름 빠름 빠름)
I'm afraid you might be seeing someone else (quickly, quickly, quickly)


어필하려고 계속 난 (아둥 바둥 바둥)
I'm acting cool on purpose (doing this and that)


진심? (I got 'em) 뒷심? (I got 'em)
Do I have sincerity? (I got 'em) Backbone? (I got 'em)


내가 유일하게 갖지 못한 건 너의 (아름 아름 다움)
The only thing I can't have is your (beautiful, beautiful) looks


이 내가 어떻게 변하면 되겠니 hol' up
How should I change myself? Hol' up


밀당? 어장? 그런 거 난 잘 몰러
Playing hard-to-get? Mind games? I'm not good at those


대신 아프면 119 말고 날 불러
Instead of calling 911, call me if you're hurt


네가 울라면 울어, 웃으라면 웃어, 구르라면 굴러
If you cry, cry, if you laugh, laugh, if you roll, roll


너 이제 그만 hol' up hol' up
You better stop, hol' up hol' up


너를 향한 나의 마음을 왜 몰라
Why don't you know my heart towards you?


나를 모른 척해도 차가운 척해도
Even if you pretend not to know me or act cold


널 밀어내진 못하겠어
I can't push you away


너의 남자가 될 거야 두고 봐
Just watch, I will become your man


나의 마음이 네게 닿도록
So that my heart reaches you


지금 달려갈 거야
I'm going to run towards you now




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Si Hyuk Bang, Ho Weon Kang, Nam Jun Kim, Yoon Gi Min, Dong Hyuk Shin

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@micasa1467

If you’re listening to this song on
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@Xannn124

lmaoo i've been streaming it for many's months now bc its so gooddd

@aiceenicolefrancisco6118

Imao i always play this song even im 7 months army

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Yay Yahoo

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I listen to this almost every day 💜💜💜

@serendipity5928

Who left ?? I mean every army is so obsessed with this mv even tho me also

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Boy in luv will always be iconic

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Always frr

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16 year old Kookie to 22 year old Jin. all those are the greatest memories

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