If I Were Going
Afghan Whigs Lyrics


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What should I tell her?
She's going to ask
If I ignore it, it gets uncomfortable
She'll want to argue about the past
Still I think she believes me
Every word I say
I think I'm starting to believe it all myself
Go ask the gentlemen who play it
But hate to pay
And it don't bleed, and it don't breathe
It's locked its jaws and now it's swallowing
It's in our heart, it's in our heads
It's in our love, baby, it's in our bed
It holds my arms down, sits upon my chest
It waves its finger at me every night & day
And it don't rest
And it don't breathe and it don't bleed
It's locked its jaws and now it's swallowing




It's all a lie, it's nearly dead
It's in our hope, baby, it's in our bed

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Afghan Whigs's song "If I Were Going" suggest a sense of denial and confusion as the persona grapples with being honest with his partner about something in their past that could potentially cause discomfort or argument. The persona is conflicted between telling his partner the truth or continuing to believe the lies he has told himself and her. The line "I think I'm starting to believe it all myself" indicates that the persona may be trying to convince himself that the lies are true, possibly because facing the truth would be too difficult.


The second half of the song uses imagery of a creature or thing that is swallowing and controlling the persona. It could be interpreted as a metaphor for the lies that the person is telling that are slowly consuming and controlling them. The line "It holds my arms down, sits upon my chest" suggests a feeling of suffocation and being trapped by the lies. Overall, the lyrics convey a sense of conflict, confusion, and desperation as the persona tries to navigate their relationship and their own thoughts and emotions.


Line by Line Meaning

What should I tell her?
The singer is unsure of what to say to his partner.


She's going to ask
The singer knows that his partner will ask him something.


If I ignore it, it gets uncomfortable
Ignoring the situation makes it awkward and uncomfortable.


She'll want to argue about the past
His partner will want to discuss past events and possibly argue about it.


Still I think she believes me
Despite the situation, the artist believes that his partner trusts him.


Every word I say
The singer believes that his words are convincing and trustworthy.


I think I'm starting to believe it all myself
The singer is starting to believe his own lies and is losing touch with reality.


Go ask the gentlemen who play it
The artist is suggesting to ask others who are experienced in similar situations.


But hate to pay
These experienced people would hate to pay for the consequences of the situation.


And it don't bleed, and it don't breathe
The situation is inanimate and does not have any life or feelings associated with it.


It's locked its jaws and now it's swallowing
The situation has progressed to the point where it is overwhelming and consuming everything, with no escape.


It's in our heart, it's in our heads
The situation affects their emotions and thoughts, consuming them completely.


It's in our love, baby, it's in our bed
The situation even affects their intimacy, invading every aspect of their relationship.


It holds my arms down, sits upon my chest
The situation is suffocating and preventing the singer from taking action.


It waves its finger at me every night & day
The situation is constantly taunting and reminding the singer of its presence.


And it don't rest
The situation's constant presence means that it never stops, never rests.


It's all a lie, it's nearly dead
The whole situation is based on lies and is coming to an end.


It's in our hope, baby, it's in our bed
Despite the situation coming to an end, it has still affected their hopes and dreams and is still a part of their relationship.




Lyrics © WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC
Written by: GREG DULLI

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