Unkind
After the Fall Lyrics


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I won't ask how you've been
'Cause I know that you've had it worse
And I could never imagine
But I know what it's like to hear those words
I don't love you anymore

'Cause I know how it feels
To have more than you
I thought I heard before
Now that it's all shaking
And you thought about it again and again
What you could have done
Or who you could have been

I do not make a difference when
That will always be then
And this will always be now
So just 'cause you're lost in somehow
On your way down the path

Shake away the pain
'Cause you're not feeling sick
I know you're too fitted
I won't work this
There's no way sin away

You have to face the facts
She's never coming back
She's moving on while you dwell on
You're fresh intensive past

Don't blame yourself for what's been done
Just move forward and keep pushing on
Beyond this to yourself
Teach yourself or do the same
Everything will work out

I do not make a difference when
That will always be then
And this will always be now
So just 'cause you're lost in somehow
On your way down the path

I know that bites are done
And your heart's still breaking
I know it's been hell
But if I'm not mistaking
You still have your son
Can learn from his dad




And you can hurt yourself in sight
Of that

Overall Meaning

The song "Unkind" by After the Fall is a powerful exposition of dealing with heartbreak and loss. The opening verse serves to empathize with the listener by acknowledging that they have experienced pain and suffering, and it's not something that we can simply brush off. It begins by stating that the singer won't ask how the other person has been, because they already know that they have had it worse. They may not be able to imagine the depth of their pain, but they can relate to hear the words "I don't love you anymore." The chorus symbolizes confronting the reality of the situation by acknowledging that the past is irreversible, and we can't change what has already been done. Sometimes we may feel stuck in our own pain, and can become lost on our path.


The second verse is where the song becomes particularly poignant. The verse reminds us that it's essential to shake away the pain, because we're not feeling sick- we're feeling hurt. We shouldn't get used to being stuck in a cycle of misery, but instead recognize that we have to face the harsh reality. We need to stop blaming ourselves and move forward. We can't change the past or the events that have brought us to this point in our lives. We must focus on the present and the future. The singer speaks of the importance of learning from our past experiences and moving forward with newfound knowledge. The song culminates with a reminder that even though the scars might be physical and emotional, we can still find healing. We can also use these experiences to teach valuable lessons to others.


Overall, "Unkind" is a moving song about learning to pick yourself up after heartbreak and coping with loss. The song offers a message of hope to those who listen, reminding them that they are not alone, and that someone out there can empathize with their situation.


Line by Line Meaning

I won't ask how you've been
I don't want to know about your current state


'Cause I know that you've had it worse
I know you've undergone more difficult times


And I could never imagine
I can't even picture it


But I know what it's like to hear those words
I have experienced what you're feeling


I don't love you anymore
I don't have feelings for you now


'Cause I know how it feels
As I've had similar experiences


To have more than you
To have something greater than expected


I thought I heard before
I believed I had heard this earlier


Now that it's all shaking
Due to current instability


And you thought about it again and again
You keep revisiting your thoughts


What you could have done
Actions you could have taken


Or who you could have been
The person you could have been


I do not make a difference when
Time doesn't affect me


That will always be then
Things will remain as they were


And this will always be now
The present is always the same


So just 'cause you're lost in somehow
Don't feel disoriented


On your way down the path
While you're moving forward


Shake away the pain
Let go of the hurt


'Cause you're not feeling sick
You're not physically unwell


I know you're too fitted
I know you're upset


I won't work this
I will not pursue this relationship


There's no way sin away
There's no easy solution


You have to face the facts
Accept the reality


She's never coming back
She won't return


She's moving on while you dwell on
She's progressing while you're stuck


You're fresh intensive past
Your recent intense past


Don't blame yourself for what's been done
Don't hold yourself responsible for the past


Just move forward and keep pushing on
Stay focused and move ahead


Beyond this to yourself
Focus on improving yourself


Teach yourself or do the same
Learn from your own experiences or from others


Everything will work out
Things will be fine


I know that bites are done
I know the hurt is over


And your heart's still breaking
You're still emotionally hurting


I know it's been hell
I know it's been awful


But if I'm not mistaking
If I'm correct


You still have your son
You still have your child


Can learn from his dad
Your son can learn from you


And you can hurt yourself in sight
You can treat yourself kindly


Of that
Realization of this fact




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