Sister Blister
Alanis Morissette Lyrics


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You and me, we're cut from the same cloth
It seems to some, we famously get along
But you and me are strangers to each other
'Cause you and me, competitive to the bone

Such tragedy to trample on each other
With how much we've endured
With the state this land is in

You and me feel joined only by gender
We are not all for one and one for all

Sister blister, we fight to please the brothers
We think their acceptance is how we win
They're happy we're climbing over each other
To beg the club of boys to let us in

You and me estranged from the mother
You and me have felt impotent in our skin
You and me have taken it out on each other
You and me disloyal to the feminine

Such a pity to disavow each other with how far we've come
With how strong we've been

You and me are on this pendulum together
And you and me with scarcity still fueling

Sister blister we fight to please the brothers
We think their acceptance is how we win
They're happy we're climbing over each other
To beg the club of boys to let us in

We may not have priorities same
We may not even like each other
We may not be hugely anti-men
But such a cost to dishonor a sister

You and me have made it harder for the other
We forget how hard separatism has been
You and me, we can help change their minds together
You and me, in alignment until the end

Sister blister, we fight to please the brothers
We think their acceptance is how we win
They're happy we're climbing over each other
To beg the club of boys to let us in

Sister blister, we fight to please the brothers
We think their acceptance is how we win
They're happy we're climbing over each other
To beg the club of boys to let us in

Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh




Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Alanis Morissette's song "Sister Blister" paint a poignant picture of the struggle many women face to gain acceptance and validation from men, often at the expense of other women. The first verse describes how the two women are perceived by outsiders as getting along well due to their shared gender, but in reality, they are competitive towards each other. The chorus is the heart of the song, as it reveals how women are pitted against each other as objects of desire for men, and how women feel that acceptance from men is a measure of their worth. The second verse delves deeper into the estrangement the two women feel from their mother, and how they express their pain by being disloyal to their own gender.


The lyrics highlight the cost of dishonoring a sister, and how the scarcity mindset that fuels this behavior impacts both women negatively. The final verse is a call to action for women to come together to change men's attitudes towards them, as the only way forward is in collaboration and mutual support. The use of the term "Sister blister" is a clever play on words, as a blister is formed due to friction and often painful.


Overall, "Sister Blister" is a powerful commentary on the damaging effects of patriarchal structures on women and the importance of solidarity among them.


Line by Line Meaning

You and me, we're cut from the same cloth
You and I are similar in many ways.


It seems to some, we famously get along
To the outside world, it appears that we have a great relationship.


But you and me are strangers to each other
Despite our similarities, we don't really know each other that well.


'Cause you and me, competitive to the bone
The reason we aren't closer is because we are extremely competitive with each other.


Such tragedy to trample on each other
It's a shame that we let our competitiveness get in the way of our relationship.


With how much we've endured
Considering all the struggles we've faced, it's unfortunate that we can't support each other.


With the state this land is in
Given the current state of the world, we should really be working together.


You and me feel joined only by gender
Our only true connection seems to be that we are both women.


We are not all for one and one for all
Unfortunately, we don't operate with a 'sisters in arms' mentality.


Sister blister, we fight to please the brothers
We are in constant competition with each other to win the approval of men.


We think their acceptance is how we win
We believe that the key to our success is being accepted by men.


They're happy we're climbing over each other
Men are amused by the way we compete.


To beg the club of boys to let us in
We will do almost anything to be included in male-dominated spaces.


You and me estranged from the mother
Despite being women, we feel disconnected from other women in general.


You and me have felt impotent in our skin
We are both insecure about ourselves as women.


You and me have taken it out on each other
Unfortunately, our insecurities have led us to lash out at each other.


You and me disloyal to the feminine
We have both betrayed our own femininity.


Such a pity to disavow each other with how far we've come
It's really sad that we've let our competitiveness get in the way.


With how strong we've been
Considering all the challenges we've faced, we should be stronger together.


You and me are on this pendulum together
We are both affected by the same societal pressures.


And you and me with scarcity still fueling
Despite our privileges, we still feel like we are lacking something.


We may not have priorities same
We might not have the same goals.


We may not even like each other
Let's face it, we might not actually get along.


We may not be hugely anti-men
While we are fighting for women, we are not necessarily anti-men.


But such a cost to dishonor a sister
Regardless of our differences, it's not worth disrespecting each other.


You and me have made it harder for the other
Unfortunately, our competitiveness has made things harder for both of us.


We forget how hard separatism has been
We should remember that we've faced a lot of challenges as women.


You and me, we can help change their minds together
If we work together, we can make a bigger impact.


You and me, in alignment until the end
Let's make a commitment to support each other.


Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh


Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh


Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh


Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Alanis Morissette

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