The Point of It All
Amanda Palmer Lyrics


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Oh what a noble distinguished collection of fine little friends you have made
Hitting the tables without you again no we'll wait no we promise we'll wait
June makes these excellent sewing machines out of common industrial waste
She spends a few months at a time on the couch
But she's safe she wears shades she wears shades
Oh but no one can stare at the wall as good as you my baby doll
And you're aces for playing along
You're only human after all
And you're learning that just 'cause they call themselves friends
Doesn't mean they'll call
They made the comment in jest
But you've got the needle I guess that's the point of it all

Maybe a week in the tropics would help to remind you how nice life can be
We propped you right up in a chair on the deck with a beautiful view of the sea
But a couple days later we came back and you and the chair were nowhere to be seen
You had magically moved to the closet, eyes fixed on the spot where the dryer had been
Oh yes no one can stare at the wall as good as you my baby doll
And you're aces for playing along
You're almost human after all
Why on earth would I keep you locked up in here when you so love the fall
Well the patterns laid out on the bed
With hundreds of colors of thread
But you've got the needle I guess that's the point in the end

It's better to waste your life watching the scenery change at a comatose rate
Then to put yourself in and turn into one of those cigarette ads that you hate
But while you were sleeping some men came around
and said they had some dimensions to take
I'm not sure what they were talking about
but they sure a mess of your face

But still no one can stare at the wall as good as you my baby doll
And you're aces for coming along
you're almost human even now
And just cause they call themself experts doesn't mean that they'll call
Oh they've got the permanent price and the homes with a stable address




And they've got excitement and life by the fistful but you've got the meaning
I guess that's the point of it all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Point of It All by Amanda Palmer are cryptic and offer a glimpse into a world of isolation, addiction, and abuse. The first stanza talks about a "noble distinguished collection of fine little friends" who are playing without the singer. It portrays a sense of abandonment and isolation. The singer's friend June creates sewing machines from industrial waste and spends several months on the couch, but she stays safe by wearing shades. This could hint at June being depressed or dealing with some emotional pain.


The second stanza talks about the singer being taken to the tropics to remind them how nice life can be. However, when they returned, they found that the singer had moved to the closet and was staring at the spot where the dryer had been. The singer's obsession with staring at the wall suggests that they may be dealing with drug addiction or some kind of mental illness.


The final stanza talks about how it's better to waste your life watching the scenery change at a comatose rate than to become like one of the cigarette ads that you hate. It suggests that the singer is aware of their situation but can't seem to break free. Meanwhile, the "experts" who are taking advantage of the singer have "permanent price and homes with a stable address," but the singer has "the meaning." The line "I guess that's the point of it all" suggests that the singer has found some purpose in their life despite the circumstances.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh what a noble distinguished collection of fine little friends you have made
Addressing someone's group of carefully chosen companions in a sarcastic manner.


Hitting the tables without you again no we'll wait no we promise we'll wait
Friends indulging in activities they know the addressed person enjoys without including them.


June makes these excellent sewing machines out of common industrial waste
Praising someone's artistic skills and their ability to create valuable things out of ordinary objects.


She spends a few months at a time on the couch
Mentioning someone's tendency to spend long periods of time inactive or uninvolved.


But she's safe she wears shades she wears shades
Acknowledging someone's preference to protect themselves from the outside world.


Oh but no one can stare at the wall as good as you my baby doll
Sarcastically complimenting someone's ability to do nothing and be unproductive.


And you're racist for playing along
Highlighting someone's compliance with the negative behavior or thoughts of others.


You're only human after all
Reminding someone to have compassion for themselves and their limitations.


And you're learning that just 'cause they call themselves friends
Making someone aware of the fact that not everyone who claims to be their friend will behave accordingly.


Doesn't mean they'll call
Expressing disappointment when people who say they care, do not follow through with actions that demonstrate that they do care.


They made the comment and just
Implying that people have a tendency to speak without considering their impact.


But you've got the needle I guess that's the point of it all
Encouraging someone to focus on their skills, talents, and passions and turn them into something positive.


Maybe a week in the tropics would help to remind you how nice life can be
Suggesting that taking a break and exposing oneself to a different environment can help them to appreciate life better.


We propped you right up in a chair on the deck with a beautiful view of the sea
Describing the conditions under which someone was provided rest and a conducive environment.


But a couple days later we came back and you and the chair were nowhere to be seen
Narrating an unexpected absence from an ideal setting provided to help someone relax.


You had magically moved to the closet eyes fixed on the spot where the dryer had been
Revealing someone's tendency to seek comfort or protection in unusual places.


And you're racist for playing along
Highlighting someone's compliance with negative behavior or thoughts of others.


You're almost human after all
Acknowledging someone's humanity and their susceptibility to both good and bad experiences.


Why on earth would I keep you locked up in here where you so love the fall
Expressing confusion about why someone would choose to remain in a situation that makes them unhappy.


Well the patterns laid out on the bed
Referring to a designated place of creation or work.


With hundreds of colors of thread
Describing a wide range of resources at someone's disposal.


But you've got the needle I guess that's the point in the end
Emphasizing the importance of having unique abilities or talents that set one apart from others.


It's better to waste your life watching the scenery change at a comatose rate
Highlighting the fact that there are unfulfilling ways to spend one's life.


And to put yourself in and turn into one of those cigarette ads that you hate
Drawing attention to the negative impact of appearing as an undesirable image.


And while you were sleeping some men came around and said they had some dementions to take
Narrating an event where someone was taken advantage of while they were vulnerable.


I'm not sure what they were talking about but they sure a mess of your face
Expressing discomfort and confusion about negative actions taken towards someone else.


And just cause they call themself experts doesn't mean that they'll call
Implying that just because someone identifies themselves as an expert, does not mean that they behave accordingly.


Oh they've got the permanent price and the homes with a stable address
Describing the material advantages that some people have.


And they've got excitement and life by the fistful but you've got the meaning
Emphasizing the importance of finding joy, purpose and fulfillment beyond just superficial pleasures.


I guess that's the point of it all
Summarizing the essence of the song's message regarding self-discovery and a purposeful, fulfilled life.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Amanda Palmer

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Comments from YouTube:

@JEFFRAUSCHL

I just get more and more impressed, involved, depressed, with every listen of every lyric of every song. Thanks for the music, the pain and the beauty of it all.

@ThePeaceableKingdom

Every time I dip into Amanda's catalogue I am amazed...

@ravendevino6419

This song still hits me hard, even a year after my bf died of an overdose. It frames the regret and sadness, and longing perfectly.

@mandys72

I'm so sorry 😞

@feyhuckle6308

No matter what the song is 'really' about: you're the one holding the needle, and that's the point in the end.. Your choices are your own to make. Cheers to those listening in 2021

@JP-gv6mw

At some point there is no choice.
I lost my Partner a year ago. He never had a really choice.
That is the tragig point of it all.

@Grapemaul

Amazing song. It's only a shame there aren't more genuine artists in the music business.

@oliviabraccio6065

"And you've learned that just 'cause the call themselves friends doesn't mean that they'll call--they made the comment in jest." Most profound line in the history of recorded music.

@cait7265

As someone with avoidant personality disorder and dissociative problems this song is like it was written for people like me.

@devinaustin8462

Watching in '21... this song has helped me through some shit. I cant believe how well these lyrics applied to my situation. Its uncanny, really.

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