How Can You Love Me
Ambrosia Lyrics


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Babe, it took a long, long time to get it out this way
Now, that the hurtin's over all I've got to say
(Is) that I know
Sure as I am living
It takes more than forgiving
'cause it ain't been easy
I know you did your best to please me
How can you love me,
After all the years we've tried
After all the tears you've cried
After our love has died

Babe, I've seen some pretty faces everywhere I go
I say now
Maybe I ain't the same person that you used to know
But I know
In my heart I'm livin'
For the love you've given
And the foolish thing about it
Is that I thought I'd live without it

How can you love me
When you know I've been with someone else
And I ain't too happy with myself
But I keep on comin' back around

Ooh, sometimes it feels like I'm gone forever
(I'm gone forever)
Ooh, it gets so hard to wait
(It gets hard to wait)
Ooh, we're far away and it ain't gettin' better




Well, I know that somethin' is surely wrong
When I feel this way, well I can't go on and on

Overall Meaning

In the song "How Can You Love Me," Ambrosia's lead vocalist is reflecting on a past relationship, admitting that it took a long time to come to terms with the pain and hurt he experienced. Even though he has forgiven his significant other, he acknowledges that it takes more than just forgiveness to continue a relationship, especially after all the difficulties they have faced. The singer expresses doubt in their reconciliation, questioning how his partner could still love him after all they have been through, including the tears and the failed attempts to make their relationship work. He admits to seeing other people but ultimately realizes that he wants to be with the person he is singing to.


Throughout the song, the lyrics express a sense of confusion and struggle, as the singer grapples with his emotions and the complexities of his relationship. The bridge of the song highlights the distance between the two and the frustration that comes with it, but it also signals a realization that something needs to change for them to be content. The song is a poignant reflection on the challenges that come with navigating a past love, and the hope for a brighter future with the person they still love, despite everything.


Line by Line Meaning

Babe, it took a long, long time to get it out this way
Expressing my feelings was difficult, so it took a lot of time.


Now, that the hurtin's over all I've got to say
Now that I've healed, I can tell you everything I feel.


(Is) that I know
I am confident in what I'm about to say.


Sure as I am living
I am absolutely certain.


It takes more than forgiving
Just forgiving is not enough to fix what's been broken.


'cause it ain't been easy
It's been hard.


I know you did your best to please me
I recognize that you tried your hardest to make me happy.


How can you love me,
I'm wondering how you could still love me.


After all the years we've tried
Despite all the time we've invested.


After all the tears you've cried
Even though you shed tears over me.


After our love has died
Now that our relationship is over.


Babe, I've seen some pretty faces everywhere I go
I've been exposed to attractive people around the world.


I say now
Let me tell you.


Maybe I ain't the same person that you used to know
I might have changed since we last met.


But I know
I am aware.


In my heart I'm livin'
I truly feel deep down inside.


For the love you've given
Grateful for the love you've shown me.


And the foolish thing about it
I was silly to think that I didn't need it.


Is that I thought I'd live without it
I believed I could survive without your love.


How can you love me
How can you still love me?


When you know I've been with someone else
You're aware that I've been with another person.


And I ain't too happy with myself
I don't feel good about my actions and decisions.


But I keep on comin' back around
I find myself drawn to you, even after everything.


Ooh, sometimes it feels like I'm gone forever
At times, it seems like I'm never coming back.


(I'm gone forever)
I'm truly gone, perhaps for good.


Ooh, it gets so hard to wait
It's difficult to be patient.


(It gets hard to wait)
Waiting becomes a challenge.


Ooh, we're far away and it ain't gettin' better
Our distance is causing our issues to worsen.


Well, I know that somethin' is surely wrong
I am aware that there is an issue.


When I feel this way, well I can't go on and on
When I feel this overwhelmed, I can't continue as usual.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: DAVID PACK, JOSEPH PUERTA

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