09. Love Is A Losing Game_
Amy Winehouse Lyrics


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For you, I was a flame
Love is a losing game
Five story fire as you came
Love is a losing game

One I wished, I never played
Oh, what a mess we made
And now the final frame
Love is a losing game

Played out by the band
Love is a losing hand
More than I could stand
Love is a losing hand

Self-professed, profound
'Til the chips were down
Know you're a gambling man
Love is a losing hand

Though I battle blind
Love is a fate resigned
Memories mar my mind
Love, it is a fate resigned

Over futile odds
And laughed at by the gods




And now the final frame
Love is a losing game

Overall Meaning

In Amy Winehouse's song Love Is A Losing Game, the theme of love being a game that is bound to end up in defeat is explored. The lyrics depict the feelings of regret and sadness that come with playing this losing game. The chorus of the song, "For you I was the flame, love is a losing game," suggests that the singer's intense passion for their lover led to their downfall. The phrase "five story fire as you came" adds to this imagery, suggesting that their love was so powerful that it was capable of both creating and destroying.


As the song progresses, the singer reflects on how they wished they never played this losing game. They realize that the consequences of their actions have led to a "final frame" of heartbreak and despair. The lyrics "played out by the band, love is a losing hand, more than I could stand" express the singer's feelings of being overwhelmed and defeated by the game of love.


The lines "self-professed profound, till the chips were down, know you're a gambling man, love is a losing hand" suggest that the singer and their lover were both aware of the risks involved in love, but they still chose to play the game. The singer tried to fight for their love, but in the end, they were resigned to their fate. The last lines of the song, "over futile odds, and laughed at by the gods, and now the final frame, love is a losing game," paints a picture of the singer as a victim of love's cruel whims, at the mercy of fate and destiny.


Line by Line Meaning

For you I was the flame
I was completely devoted to you


Love is a losing game
Love often ends in heartbreak


Five story fire as you came
My feelings for you were intense and all-consuming


One I wished, I never played
I regret getting involved with you


Oh, what a mess we made
Our relationship was chaotic and destructive


And now the final frame
Our relationship has come to an end


Played out by the band
Our relationship was marred by public attention


Love is a losing hand
Being in love often leads to pain and disappointment


More than I could stand
The pain of love was unbearable


Self-professed profound
I thought I was wise in matters of love


Till the chips were down
But when it came to my own relationship, I was lost


Know you're a gambling man
You took a risk by getting involved with me


Love is a fate resigned
I accepted that love often ends in heartbreak


Memories mar my mind
Thoughts of our past haunt me


Over futile odds
Despite the unlikelihood of success


And laughed at by the gods
Our relationship was subject to forces beyond our control




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Written by: Amy Winehouse

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@Cinrellaeyes2512

For you, I was a flame
Love is a losing game
Five story fire as you came
Love is a losing game
One I wished I never played
Oh, what a mess we made
And now, the final frame
Love is a losing game
Played out by the band
Love is a losing hand
More than I could stand
Love is a losing hand
Self-professed, profound
'Til the chips were down
Know you're a gambling man
Love is a losing hand
Though I battle blind
Love is a fate resigned
Memories mar my mind
Love is a fate resigned
Over futile odds
And laughed at by the gods
And now, the final frame
Love is a losing game



@bashahussain

I remember travelling into London with my mum and brother when I was about 14 or 15 years old. When we got into London, not far from islington/highbury area, the traffic was slow but flowing with a stop start rhythm. As we were gradually edging towards the front of a queue that was caused by a set of traffic lights, a beautiful girl that was sitting and waiting at a bus stop to the left of me caught my eye. I couldn't help but stare at her as she sat there and gaze towards the sky, in her own world. Looking at her I could see that her carefree head was in the clouds just watching the day go past.

She then turned her head and noticed me staring at her, we made eye contact. As we paused in that brief but beautiful moment, eyes locked looking at one another, we shared a beautiful subtle smile before breaking into a full on contagious beaming smile, as if we were good friends sharing a private joke and all the passersby were none the wiser.

I thought "wow look how beautiful she is and what a gorgeous smile" and then blushingly I turned my gaze away, not wanting to make it awkward for myself nor her.

Then I thought to myself "Hold on! Was that?!"

I snapped my neck back and realised, Yes! it was indeed Amy Winehouse! She started laughing realising that I had processed, computed and only just clocked on.

I exclaimed to my brother "look!! that's Amy Winehouse there!" He was more focused on the road and the lights up ahead as they began to change green he didnt believe me anyway.

As the car started moving I quickly put my windows down and shouted "AMY!!" She looked and was laughing even harder and then I knew without doubt it was her.

The cars moved off and my moment with her had passed.

I still think of that moment, especially when I go into London, as I usually go past the exact same spot. I think what if I would have got out the car and just took my shot at striking a conversation with her. Just to connect with another human and interact before going on about our days and lives.

She had a beautiful smile. And I can still picture her in that moment.



All comments from YouTube:

@Silverbackblackback

Hard to believe this was the lowest charting single from back to black album. People have no taste! Such a beautiful sad song.

@bghlee

This song and You Know I'm No Good are IMHO her two most beautiful and brilliant songs ever sung by her. Love her vocals and emotives.

@evasbolci3005

@@bghlee Agree,also "Tears dry on their own".Such poetry.

@NS-ur5ss

Her best song ever!

@ofirtal4032

You're so right!!

@anna-uc4tq

If she only knew how miserable and crappy the world and society have become today, she would have died twice...

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@goldenlady3495

I really wish she was still here.

@noxythegreat

Same here

@IXcircle

If she was still here she would still be an addict wasting away even more.
Maybe I wish she never touched hard drugs.

@MariaNI-yf1bz

Great loss

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