Do I Need You
Ann Peebles Lyrics


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I've been unhappy all my life,
Seems like all I do is sacrifice.
The more I sacrifice the worse it makes me feel.
Most of the things I thought were wrong
Turned out to be for real.

I don't know if I'm ready
For the love you want to give.
I need something in my life to make me want to live.
I'm up in my whole life,
But I think need a change.
I need some sunshine in my life,
I can't stand the rain.

Tell me do, do, do I need you?
Tell me do, do, do I need you?

I don't need no man,
I already know the game.
I need more loving in my life
To chase away the pain.
You might be good to me,
And I might be good to you.
I don't need nobody that can't be true.

Tell me do, do, do I need you?
Tell me do, do, do I need you?

Tell me do, do I need your kiss?
Do I need your love?
Do I need the pain
That you might bring?
Like I said in my last song,
Can't stand the rain'
Tell me do, do I need your love?
Tell me do, do I need your kiss?




Tell me do, do I need you?
Do I need the pain you might bring?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ann Peebles’s song “Do I Need You” speak to a longing for change and a hesitancy towards opening oneself up to love. Peebles describes feeling unhappy and like she has been sacrificing for others her entire life, leading her to feel worse. She expresses uncertainty about whether she is ready for the love that someone else wants to offer her, and instead feels she needs something to make her want to live. Despite this, she questions whether she needs this person in her life - their love, their kiss, and the pain they might bring.


The song captures the complexity of human desire and the hesitancy many people feel when considering opening themselves up to the vulnerability of love. Peebles's lyrics express the idea that change and love are often difficult to navigate but can ultimately be worth it.


Line by Line Meaning

I've been unhappy all my life,
I have never been truly happy in my life, and this feeling has persisted over time.


Seems like all I do is sacrifice.
It appears that all I have done in my life is give up things, usually for the sake of others.


The more I sacrifice the worse it makes me feel.
Paradoxically, sacrificing more usually only makes me feel worse about myself and my situation.


Most of the things I thought were wrong
Many of the things I believed were not right, at least in my experience.


Turned out to be for real.
However, I have since realized that these things are true and cannot be denied.


I don't know if I'm ready
I am not sure that I am prepared or capable of handling what you are offering me.


For the love you want to give.
Specifically, I may not be ready to accept the love you are offering me and all that comes with it.


I need something in my life to make me want to live.
Generally, I require some source of inspiration or motivation to make me feel that life is worth living.


I'm up in my whole life,
Overall, I am dissatisfied with my life and my current situation.


But I think need a change.
Despite my dissatisfaction, I believe that making some sort of alteration in my life could improve my outlook.


I need some sunshine in my life,
More specifically, I require something or someone to brighten up my life and dispel the gloom.


I can't stand the rain.
Metaphorically, I loathe being unhappy and want to find a way to escape from it like taking shelter from the rain.


Tell me do, do, do I need you?
I am posing the question to you directly whether or not I actually require your presence or involvement in my life.


I don't need no man,
I am emphasizing that I am not specifically desiring a romantic relationship with a man given my past experiences.


I already know the game.
I am aware of the patterns that often emerge in romantic relationships often involving manipulation or dishonesty.


I need more loving in my life
I require more meaningful connections and support from people in my life to feel fulfilled.


To chase away the pain.
The love and support of others can help alleviate the emotional hardships that I am facing.


You might be good to me,
I acknowledge that you could potentially treat me well or offer me the support and love I desire.


And I might be good to you.
I am acknowledging that I could potentially be a positive influence in your life as well.


I don't need nobody that can't be true.
In general, I do not require anyone to be dishonest or inauthentic with me for any reason.


Tell me do, do, do I need your kiss?
Continuing to question whether the physical affection associated with a romantic relationship is necessary for my own emotional fulfillment or comfort.


Do I need the pain
Here, I am questioning whether the emotional pain that often comes with romantic relationships is worth it.


That you might bring?
Questioning specifically whether the person I am addressing would bring such pain.


Like I said in my last song,
A reference to the earlier song the artist released, likely holding similar themes or emotions.


Can't stand the rain'
Again referencing the metaphorical distaste for unhappiness and desiring for it to end.


Tell me do, do I need your love?
Continuing to question whether the intimacy and connectedness associated with love is necessary or desirable to me.


Tell me do, do I need your kiss?
Continuing to question whether the physical aspect of love is necessary for my own emotional fulfillment or comfort.


Tell me do, do I need you?
Continuing to address the central query of whether or not the person is necessary or desired in my life.


Do I need the pain you might bring?
Ending on the same questioning note as earlier about the potential pain involved with pursuing a relationship with the person in question.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ANN PEEBLES, DARRYL CARTER, DON BRYANT, GAYLE ARENDT

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