Good to Me As I Am to You
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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If you had a dollar
And I had a dime
I wonder, could I borrow yours
As easy as you could mine?
Because when you need my love
And I give time after time
And turn around to find me no returns
Then my friend, you've used my dimes

If there's water in the pitcher
And we both need a drink
To stay alive, my darlin'
I'd need less water than you think

My love, my love, these things, I swear, I say are true
And all I'm really saying is be as good to me as I am to you
Oh, yeah

Listen to this
Some people want
But they don't wanna give
They can do all of the wrong in the world
And got the nerve to not understand the meaning of loving me
Starting today,
Tomorrow, and forevermore
If you can't find it in your heart to do for me
Then, baby, just don't darken my front door

Baby
I want you to be as good to me as I am to you
Whoo, baby!
I don't think that's asking you too much to do
Listen! Don't you walk around here
Feeling like you can treat me any old way
Using my love, my time, my heart, day, day after day
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, baby, baby, be as good to me as I am to you




Whoo! Whoo!
Baby

Overall Meaning

In Good to Me As I Am to You, Aretha Franklin speaks to a friend, lover or partner, expressing her concerns about the unequal nature of their relationship. She begins the song by questioning the fairness of their interactions, indicating that it feels like the other person is taking more than they give. She compares the situation to a monetary exchange, suggesting that if she had a dime and the other person had a dollar, they would not be willing to give hers as easily as she gives him hers. She is frustrated because she has given so much of herself to the relationship, only to realize that she is not getting anything in return. Aretha's feelings of frustration and disappointment with the relationship are heightened when she realizes that the other person does not value her time and effort.


Line by Line Meaning

If you had a dollar
Do you think you'd be willing to lend me a dollar?


And I had a dime
If I needed a dime, would you be willing to lend it to me?


I wonder, could I borrow yours
Could you be as generous to me as I am to you?


As easy as you could mine?
Would it be effortless for you, as it is for me?


Because when you need my love
We both know that sometimes you need my love.


And I give time after time
And I give it to you again and again, with devotion.


And turn around to find me no returns
But sometimes, my love seems unreciprocated, and I feel hollow inside.


Then my friend, you've used my dimes
It's like you took my lending heart for granted, like a commodity.


If there's water in the pitcher
If we both need something to live.


And we both need a drink
And we both need a sip to stay alive.


To stay alive, my darlin'
For our mutual survival, my love.


I'd need less water than you think
My love is self-sustainable, and I don't need much from you.


My love, my love, these things, I swear, I say are true
I'm telling you, my love, these things come straight from my heart to you.


And all I'm really saying is be as good to me as I am to you
My love is sincere, and I only ask for the same respect given to me.


Some people want
Many people strive for things.


But they don't wanna give
But they're not willing to give in return.


They can do all of the wrong in the world
They can err in any conceivable way.


And got the nerve to not understand the meaning of loving me
But they can't grasp the essence of truly loving me.


Starting today, Tomorrow, and forevermore
From this moment on and forever after.


If you can't find it in your heart to do for me
If you're not capable of doing the same for me.


Then, baby, just don't darken my front door
Then don't waste my time with your insincerity.


Baby, I want you to be as good to me as I am to you
I want you to treat me with the same respect that I give you.


Whoo, baby!
Yeah, baby!


I don't think that's asking you too much to do
I don't feel like it's an unreasonable request.


Listen! Don't you walk around here
Hey, pay attention!


Feeling like you can treat me any old way
You can't just treat me casually or callously.


Using my love, my time, my heart, day, day after day
You can't just use my love, my time and my heart as if they're disposable, every day.


Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, baby, baby, be as good to me as I am to you
Oh, darling, please be kind to me, as I am to you.


Whoo! Whoo!
Yeah, yeah!


Baby
My love.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Aretha Franklin, Ted White

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Mark Drinkwater

These vocals are unmatched.. She simply has no rivals.

Rusty Crystal

Mike Patton? Kyo? Dimash? Vitas? Nina Hagen? Diamanda Galas? Mariah Carey? Etc...

Mark Drinkwater

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Rusty Crystal

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Mark Drinkwater

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Trina Dee

This woman is the singer of all singers. In her prime no one came close to matching her.

*Always a Butterfly 1990

I like how humble she stays. She does not look for recognition. The way she sings gospel music the devil has to shout. She is the Lady of Soul.

GPtwo

I never quite understood. After hearing this song I do now. My goodness.

Cortez Doaty

People forget that Aretha was the voice and held her spot 20 yrs before Whitney came along.

Gaynell Lee

@Cortez Doaty she held her spot after Whitney also.

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