I Surrender Dear
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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We've played the game of 'stay away'
But it costs more than I can pay
Without you I can't make my way
I surrender, dear.

I may seem proud and I may act gay
That's just a pose, I'm not that way.
Cause deep down in my heart I say,
I surrender, dear.

Those little mean things we were doing
Must have been part of the game
Lending a spice to the wooing
Oh, but I don't care who's to blame

When stars appear and shadows fall
Then you'll hear my poor heart call
To you my love, my life, my all
I surrender, dear





Oh, to you my love, my life, my all
I surrender, dear

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Aretha Franklin's song "I Surrender, Dear" describe a relationship that has been fraught with conflict and distance. The singer acknowledges that while they have played the game of "stay away," it has come at a cost that she cannot bear. Without the other person, the singer cannot find her way. She admits that her pride and outward demeanor are just a facade, and deep down in her heart, she knows that she needs to surrender to love.


The verse suggests that the little mean things they were doing were just part of the game, adding spice to the wooing. However, the singer no longer wants to play these games and does not care who is to blame. When night falls and the stars appear, the singer's heart will call out to her love, asking for them to return to her. The final line is a declaration of love, an affirmation from the singer that she surrenders all to the loved one.


Overall, the song is about the power of surrender and the admission that sometimes, we need to let down our guard and give in to love. The singer recognizes that the road to love is not always easy, but the rewards of surrendering are too great to ignore.


Line by Line Meaning

We've played the game of 'stay away'
We have tried to keep our distance from each other


But it costs more than I can pay
It's too difficult and unbearable to be away from you


Without you I can't make my way
I can't live without you


I surrender, dear.
I give up, I'm willing to do anything to be with you


I may seem proud and I may act gay
I might appear confident and happy regardless of how I feel inside


That's just a pose, I'm not that way.
I'm only pretending, my true emotions are different


Cause deep down in my heart I say,
My true feelings are deep down inside me


I surrender, dear.
I give up, I'm willing to do anything to be with you


Those little mean things we were doing
The negative things we said or did to each other


Must have been part of the game
They were probably just part of the overall situation


Lending a spice to the wooing
Adding excitement to our relationship


Oh, but I don't care who's to blame
I don't care whose fault it was


When stars appear and shadows fall
During difficult or uncertain times


Then you'll hear my poor heart call
You will hear the true feelings of my heart


To you my love, my life, my all
To the person I love, who means everything to me


I surrender, dear
I give up, I'm willing to do anything to be with you




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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@jimmydemetri

I love this classic jazz song interpreted by Aretha in her own classic way

@sauquoit13456

On this day in 1962 {February 12th} Aretha Franklin opens at the Showboat Bar in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania...
At the time her "I Surrender, Dear"was at #96 on Billboard's Hot Top 100 chart; six days later on February 18th it would peak at #87 {for 1 week} and it stayed on the chart for 5 weeks...
The record's B-side, "Rough Lover", also made the Top 100, and for the one week it was on the chart it was at #94...
'The Queen of Soul' will celebrate her 74th birthday next month on March 25th {2016}...