When They Ask About You
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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When I go for a walk
I meet old friends we knew
We sit around and talk
(Yes, we sit and talk)
Oh, then they ask about you
(Then they ask about you)
What's the good if I say
That you and I are through
I simply tell them you're okay
(Tell them you're okay)
Oh, when, when they ask about you
(When they ask about you)

They wonder where we've been
And why we fail to call
(And you don't ever call)
And I take it on the chin
Until the teardrops fall
(When the teardops fall)

They they they don't mean to be smart
Mmm, but if they if they only knew
That they're stepping on my heart
(Stepping on my heart)
When they ask, when they ask about you
(When they ask about you)

They're stepping and walking on my heart




Oh, when they ask, when they ask about you
Yeah yeah yeah (When they ask about you)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Aretha Franklin's song "When They Ask About You" delve into the experience of running into old friends and acquaintances who inquire about a past relationship. The singer reflects on these encounters, highlighting the emotions stirred up by the mention of their former partner.


The song opens with the singer going for a walk, and encountering old friends from their shared past with their ex. As they sit and talk, the friends inevitably ask about the ex-lover, prompting a mix of feelings. The singer questions the value of disclosing that the relationship has ended, instead opting to simply respond that the ex is okay. This implies a desire to protect themselves from judgment or further questioning.


The second verse suggests that the friends are genuinely curious about the singer's whereabouts and why they haven't kept in touch. The singer admits to taking the inquiries personally, feeling the impact of the unanswered calls and the weight of unexpressed emotions. The phrase "take it on the chin" conveys the coping mechanism of internalizing pain until it becomes too overwhelming, leading to tears.


The bridge acknowledges that the friends are not intentionally being hurtful or intrusive, but if they only knew the depths of the singer's heartache caused by their innocent questions. The repetition of "when they ask" emphasizes the ongoing impact of these encounters, continually stinging the singer's wounded heart.


Overall, "When They Ask About You" explores the emotions experienced when confronted with reminders of a past relationship and the simultaneous desire to protect oneself while navigating these encounters.


Line by Line Meaning

When I go for a walk
In moments of solitude, when I venture out to clear my mind


I meet old friends we knew
I come across familiar faces from our shared past


We sit around and talk
Engaging in conversations filled with memories and nostalgia


(Yes, we sit and talk)
(Indeed, we engage in heartfelt discussions)


Oh, then they ask about you
And that's when they inquire about your current state


(Then they ask about you)
(Specifically, they express curiosity regarding your well-being)


What's the good if I say
What purpose does it serve if I were to state


That you and I are through
That you and I have ended our journey together


I simply tell them you're okay
I choose to convey that you are doing fine


(Tell them you're okay)
(Let them know you are in a good place)


Oh, when, when they ask about you
Oh, every time they inquire about your existence


(When they ask about you)
(When they express an interest in your being)


They wonder where we've been
They ponder the locations we have frequented


And why we fail to call
And question the reason behind our lack of communication


(And you don't ever call)
(And you, never reaching out)


And I take it on the chin
I gracefully absorb the emotional blows


Until the teardrops fall
Until tears finally stream down my cheeks


(When the teardrops fall)
(When my sorrow becomes evident)


They they they don't mean to be smart
The individuals in question do not intend to appear clever


Mmm, but if they if they only knew
However, if only they possessed awareness


That they're stepping on my heart
That their inquiries are causing me emotional distress


(Stepping on my heart)
(Unknowingly treading upon my tender emotions)


When they ask, when they ask about you
Each time they inquire, each time they show interest in your existence


(When they ask about you)
(When their curiosity revolves around you)


They're stepping and walking on my heart
Their questions become metaphorical footsteps that inflict pain on my soul


Oh, when they ask, when they ask about you
Oh, whenever they inquire, whenever they seek information about you


Yeah yeah yeah (When they ask about you)
Yes, yes, yes (When they express curiosity about your being)




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: SAM STEPT

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