Try A Little Tenderness
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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I may get weary, women do get weary
Wearing the same shabby dress
But to one who's weary try a little
Try a little tenderness

Oh, I may be waiting just anticipating
All of the things I may never possess
But while I'm waiting try a little
Try a little tenderness

Now I, I may be, I may be sentimental
But I wanna say that I've had my griefs
Oh, and I've had my cares

And just a good word soft and gentle
Makes it, makes it easier
Easier to bear

Now, I might forget it
Oh, but don't let me forget it
Love's all my whole, whole happiness

And it's so, so easy
Try a little




Oh, try a little tenderness
Tender, tender, tenderness

Overall Meaning

The song “Try a Little Tenderness” by Aretha Franklin is a beautiful ballad that explores the complexities of love and tenderness. The lyrics appeal to women who may get "weary wearing the same shabby dress,” urging them to try a little tenderness. The song encourages that while waiting for all the things one may never possess, they can find comfort by trying a little tenderness. Aretha recognizes that it is not just women who get weary and in need of tenderness - she is sentimental and shares that she has had griefs and cares of her own.


The song emphasizes how a good word that is soft and gentle can make it easier to bear. She acknowledges that love is her whole happiness, and it is so easy to have it by trying a little tenderness. This emphasizes the importance of tenderness in a relationship, as it can make all the difference. The repeated chorus of “tender, tender, tenderness” drives home the message of the song and beautifully captures the essence of the message.


Line by Line Meaning

I may get weary, women do get weary
Life can be tiring, especially for women who are expected to fulfill multiple roles and responsibilities.


Wearing the same shabby dress
Repetition and stagnation in life can be exhausting and lead to weariness.


But to one who's weary try a little
Showing kindness and compassion can go a long way in helping someone who is tired.


Try a little tenderness
Being gentle and understanding can help make a difficult situation feel more manageable.


Oh, I may be waiting just anticipating
Waiting for something we desire can feel frustrating and never-ending.


All of the things I may never possess
The fear of not achieving our goals or dreams can be overwhelming.


But while I'm waiting try a little
Although the wait may be long, we can try to make the most of the present moment.


Try a little tenderness
By being understanding and compassionate, we can make ourselves and others feel better in difficult situations.


Now I, I may be, I may be sentimental
It's okay to have feelings of nostalgia or wistfulness.


But I wanna say that I've had my griefs
Everyone has experienced pain and loss in their lives.


Oh, and I've had my cares
Daily stresses and worries can accumulate and weigh us down.


And just a good word soft and gentle
Kind words and understanding can have a profound positive effect on our emotional state.


Makes it, makes it easier
When someone is going through a hard time, showing empathy and kindness can make their burden a little lighter.


Easier to bear
With emotional support, it becomes easier to cope with difficult or trying situations in life.


Now, I might forget it
It's possible for us to forget the kind words and actions of others.


Oh, but don't let me forget it
It's important to remember the times when someone has helped us through a difficult situation.


Love's all my whole, whole happiness
Love and emotional connection are essential for humans to experience happiness.


And it's so, so easy
It doesn't take much effort to be kind and understanding.


Try a little
Simply trying to understand or show compassion can be enough to make a difference.


Oh, try a little tenderness
Being gentle and compassionate can be immensely helpful in difficult times.


Tender, tender, tenderness
Repeating the word 'tenderness' emphasizes the importance of being gentle and empathetic towards others.




Lyrics © Kanjian Music, Bluewater Music Corp., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Jimmy Campbell, Reg Connelly, Harry M. Woods

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