I Am
B.I. Lyrics

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날 찾아 헤매 do it again
아직 날 원해 do it again
난 찾아 헤매 do it again
계속 날 원해 do it again

나나 나나나나 나나나나나 나나 나나나나 나나나 (yeah)
나나 나나나나 나나나나나 나나 나나나나 나나나

Ah (Who am I ?)
Yeah 날 찾아 헤매 깊어가는 고민의 무게 yeah
어디로 가는 걸까 점점 더 무뎌지는 고뇌
저 거울을 봐도 보이지 않는 숨길 수 없는 나의 본능
달 따라 나를 품고 있는 저 빛나는 아름다운 그림의 모습

Hands up 높이 하늘 위로 yeah eh
Hands up 접은 날개 펴고
별빛의 저 길을 따라

날 찾아 헤매 do it again
아직 날 원해 do it again
난 찾아 헤매 do it again
계속 날 원해 do it again

나나 나나나나 나나나나나 나나 나나나나 나나나
나나 나나나나 나나나나나 나나 나나나나 나나나 (yeah)

하얀 눈 위를 걷는 어린아이 웃지 못하는 어른아이
난 물처럼 저 별처럼 흘러 흘러 흘러가 이 겨울처럼
이제 내 습관처럼 자연스럽게 내 얼굴 바라만 볼래
깨달음의 연속 저 높은 방 문턱을 넘어갈 차례

먼지가 된 옷을 털어 아픔은 잠시 스쳐가는 바람
I got to go 꿈에 올라 feel so good 저 길을 따라서

날 찾아 헤매 do it again
아직 날 원해 do it again
난 찾아 헤매 do it again
계속 날 원해 do it again

Hands up 높이 하늘 위로 yeah eh
Hands up 접은 날개 펴고 ooh wow

별빛의 저 길을 따라
별빛의 저 길을 따라
별빛의 저 길을 따라

별빛의 저 길을 따라
별빛의 저 길을 따라

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to B.I.'s "I Am" depict a lost and confused soul searching for their identity and purpose. The opening lines "날 찾아 헤매 do it again" and "아직 날 원해 do it again" convey the singer's yearning for someone to seek them out, while the main chorus "나나 나나나나 나나나나나 나나 나나나나 나나나" suggests a repetitious internal dialogue they face. B.I.'s questioning "Who am I?" in the bridge illustrates how the singer's search for themselves is compounded by the weight of their worries, which are leading them down an increasingly unsure path.

The lyrics use imagery effectively to convey the singer's journey, such as the lines "이제 내 습관처럼 자연스럽게 내 얼굴 바라만 볼래" which show the singer wanting to turn their attention to their core self, much like a natural habit. Meanwhile, the lines "하얀 눈 위를 걷는 어린아이 웃지 못하는 어른아이" convey how the singer feels like they are stuck between unknowing youth and unhappy adulthood. The use of the "별빛의 저 길을 따라" refrain throughout the song also serves as a symbol of hope and guidance, suggesting that following this path is the solution to the singer's search for clarity.

Line by Line Meaning

날 찾아 헤매 do it again
I am struggling to find myself, trying to figure out my true purpose in life

아직 날 원해 do it again
Despite my confusion, I know that I am still desired and needed

난 찾아 헤매 do it again
I am constantly searching for answers and new experiences to help guide me

계속 날 원해 do it again
The desire for my presence is continuous and I cannot ignore it

나나 나나나나 나나나나나 나나 나나나나 나나나 (yeah)
Sometimes I feel alone and insignificant, but I know I must continue to persevere

Ah (Who am I ?)
I am questioning my identity and place in the world

Yeah 날 찾아 헤매 깊어가는 고민의 무게 yeah
The weight of my deepening concerns is making it harder to find myself

어디로 가는 걸까 점점 더 무뎌지는 고뇌
My purpose is becoming less clear with each day, causing me more despair

저 거울을 봐도 보이지 않는 숨길 수 없는 나의 본능
Despite my doubts, my true self shines through and cannot be ignored

달 따라 나를 품고 있는 저 빛나는 아름다운 그림의 모습
I am surrounded by beauty and inspiration, even when I am lost

Hands up 높이 하늘 위로 yeah eh
I am reaching towards the sky, trying to break free from my pain

Hands up 접은 날개 펴고
I am spreading my wings and taking control of my own destiny

별빛의 저 길을 따라
I am following the path of the stars and searching for my own guiding light

하얀 눈 위를 걷는 어린아이 웃지 못하는 어른아이
Sometimes, even as an adult, I feel lost and helpless like a child in the snow

난 물처럼 저 별처럼 흘러 흘러 흘러가 이 겨울처럼
I am flowing through life like water, searching for my place in the world

이제 내 습관처럼 자연스럽게 내 얼굴 바라만 볼래
Finally, I am learning to accept and love myself in a more natural way

깨달음의 연속 저 높은 방 문턱을 넘어갈 차례
I am ready to face the challenges ahead and embrace new wisdom on my journey

먼지가 된 옷을 털어 아픔은 잠시 스쳐가는 바람
I am letting go of my past pain and moving forward with renewed strength

I got to go 꿈에 올라 feel so good 저 길을 따라서
I am chasing my dreams, reaching for the stars, and feeling good about myself

Hands up 높이 하늘 위로 yeah eh
I am lifting myself up and pushing towards new heights

Hands up 접은 날개 펴고 ooh wow
I am overcoming my fears and letting my true self shine

별빛의 저 길을 따라
I am walking down the path of the stars and creating a new path for myself

Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Jung Kyu Moon, Ba Ro, Jin Young Jung

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Khadijah Abdullahi

I'm.15 and I've been questioning my sexuality for some time.I know im demisexual but ive been think whether im bisexual due to my fictional crush being a woman for the first time
Like i said im still confused on my sexuality so it gonna take some time to figure out what i identify yet Im scared of coming out to my parents due to them.being religious but once I leave the house this I'm gonna start experiment with sexuality
I'm thinking im gonna stay with bi curious for bow and see where this goes
I'm excited for this journey thank you fro this lovely video ☺

Edit :So....after 4 months of figuring out,questioning,my parents finding out without my permission and telling me that I am doing an abomination a sin in front of the Lord,and lot of tests
I have finally the biromatic Goddess I want to be

Cursed Ragdoll

2y↑1

and what if im never gonna be sure?

or that I feel the urge to date those I'm less attracted to in the gender sense but more in an aesthetic or emotional sense.

Those I am more attracted to in the gender sense, however, make me feel uncomfortable and distressed when i know they like me...

maybe I'm just insecure

or maybe deep down I know I cant feel the sorta feeling for someone as other people can. but I still feel the desire to date, someone, regardless of feelings.

idk, but even then I'm not sure i feel comfortable dating someone if i know they like me romanticly a heck of a lot more than il ever like them... it feels like i'd be hurting them
...
would that still make me bi-curious tho

All comments from YouTube:

Aftheart

2y↑657

You don’t know how much I needed this, it feels amazing to hear. I had a conversation with my mom recently about my sexuality and I got very overwhelmed and emotional but I couldn’t put into words why I was so upset and the taking time part of this video is a perfect way to describe what I was feeling. My mom also had told me that there is no rush, but it feels so much better to know I’m not the only one who experiences that feeling.

Tarun Kumar S. P

@LayLow_1302 yes I feel the same way I am clearly sexually attracted to men but I push myself towards women also but it usually makes me feel uncomfortable

Actually not The real slenn

2y↑1

Km afraid Cuz i hear every where that it is a sin and my family and Friends Will reject and mock me plus im not sure .

🗿That one person🗿

…. I don’t believe in this type of stuff boy is boy girl is girl simple and saying your something like bisexual its not very helpful

Wilbert Dude

CRINGE!

12 More Replies...

Cloudaddy

2y↑219

For the Chat: If you’re under 17 years old, try not to focus so much on your sexuality. Most of the time you don’t even know what you feel under you’re in it, and that’s not something you need to be doing with yourself yet

Cloudaddy

@Matthias VH because that’s the legal age to have sex in most cases, some others is 16 and 18

I don’t mean any gender nonsense when I use the word “sexuality,” no one should be worrying about that absolute tik tok bs at any point in their lives, ever

Matthias VH

1y↑1

Why 17 specialy?

Cloudaddy

1y↑5

@Jessica Aitken grow up Jessica

Jessica Aitken

1y↑2

I don’t think that’s helpful for teens who want to identify themselves

Psych2Go

2y↑29

Agree. Thanks for sharing!

Rob Vel

2y↑258

Don’t tell your best friend you’re bicurious in the middle of the night during a sleep over.

annabelvanpelt

1y↑1

I did that lmao

owlore

1y↑1

I hid my bff's closet and told them screaming

Just here

1y↑2

@Millena how did you friend take it ? Or not 🤔lol

Asiya Bano

2y↑8

Too late

Millena

2y↑9

I did that lmao

4 More Replies...

Micah Angela

2y↑377

I’m currently exploring my sexual preference. I’ve been attracted to guys all my life, however, it wasn’t until when I was 11 that had some attraction by women. My mom told me it was just a “girl crush” more than it was as an actual attraction I get from guy. I’ve been confused and reluctant since then. Any time I had some sorta attraction from women during high school I immediately dismissed it as “just a girl crush”. I’m now 23, and I’m still trying to understand and open myself up with my sexuality. I guess I’m in that bi-curious stage, but I haven’t yet put myself out there in the dating world. I definitely know I’m not straight, I just don’t have a label.

Dawood Sulaiman

I am seeing a straight professional couple for 4 years. Recently he became orally bi, the best experience I ever had even though I would say myself I am straight. They both love chocolate now.

V Specialist

@Poldovico "do whoever you want" words to live by

Amber Wright

1y↑1

Yes!!! This is exactly how I feel too! I am having a hard time.

It's Angie4now

2y↑1

@_-COOL_- You're welcome 💗

_-COOL_-

2y↑1

@It's Angie4now ty!

32 More Replies...

Bread

2y↑337

This pandemic got me from being "slightly homophobic super straight" to "bisexual" and then "am I a lesbian?"

M M

2y↑2

@Jaz okay, 1. You’re painting the political parties as EXTREMELY black and white and majorly oversimplifying things before this person can even start to think for themself. 2. All of my family are all leftists, but they’re still homophobic, transphobic, and some of them even racist! (Which really sucks and goes against your praise toward the left side) So just so you know, left isn’t always the BEST side who believes in EVERYONES rights, none of the sides are perfect…

Alien Bird 🐦👽

The pandemic made me go from “what is a gay person? (I was 11) to “am I bi?? Idk anymore 😩13 year old”

Vouxi

Same😞😞

Posegativity

@Tudor Badea horsehair??

14 More Replies...

Ronja E

2y↑147

1. 0:39 - Testing the waters
2. 1:05 - being uncertain
3. 1:38 - taking time
4. 2:14 - seeking advice
5. 2:44 - being yourself

Your videos always come to the right time, because I've been thinking about this a lot recently ^^"

Cherry Cola

2y↑46

I'm crying rn, because I'm a bicurious demisexual who can't "experiment" because I've only wanted to date or kiss like 2 people in my life and I prefer men like 95% of the time BUT I keep getting this nagging feeling I'm not straight and I can't always tell the difference between a crush and platonic attraction to the same gender T_T

miracu_ladynoir (Phoebe J)

Same😶I thought i was the only one thinking like this😅I'm asexual/demisexual and bi-curious🙌

Luz's Witch Bestie

1y↑1

Why is this me💀

Alt Account

1y↑1

Quoiromantic check?

Sean McFadden

2y↑118

I definitely went through a bicurious period before coming to terms with being Ace. It's definitely okay to not be sure about yourself. Life is a journey.

Also, I definitely appreciate all the Ace flags and representation in this video.

Birbistic -

2y↑1

@Sean McFadden thankyou :))

Sean McFadden

2y↑2

@Melanie Martin Pride flags. If you mean in the video, the colours in the right pattern are shown in various shapes around the following times in the video. 0:14 , 1:00 , 1:55 , 2:46 , and 3:02 . Just because the colours of a flag are shown on something other than a flag, that doesn't mean they don't represent what that flag represents. I hope this has cleared up what I was referring to, and that you're having a good day.

Melanie Martin

What flags?🗯🗯🗯🗯🍇

Tudor Badea

2y↑3

i was also confused but now i identify as a tree and im so proud of myself for coming out.tree gang anyone??🌳🌳🌳

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Khalilah D.

2y↑105

This is such a great video for people who don’t fully understand they’re feelings and who may not have someone to talk to about it 🙏🏽

Emie Digital

2y↑12

I have never been attracted to a woman my whole life , but I met a girl and I am head over heels. I’m still confused and honestly a little scared. I told some of my friends and their main advice to me was to try not to focus too hard on “what” you are. You dig who you dig and experiment. ❤ I wish everyone the best of luck on their journeys.

10_Percent_For_The_Big_Guy

2y↑10

It is so aggravating when people just assume you're bi curious. People thought that I was "just going through a phase" when I came out as bisexual, but here it is 18 years later, give or take, and I'm still a proud bisexual.

WWExStans

2y↑30

I’ve been bi-curious for 4 years now and I am still trying to identify my sexuality. I want to get some experience on identifying my sexuality. Whatever the result will be, I know I will be happy 😊

jack

Same

stxrry_boba

2y↑26

I'm still just confused but people know so I don't have to hide anything. I'll find out in my own time but it's good that I've spoken about it. I hope to any others of you feeling the same that you can too. Thank you Psych2Go, I hope you're well 🤞🏾💕

Sadie's Stuff

2y↑1

All but two of my friends are part of the rainbow community, and I have been lucky enough to talk about it. :))

Flagel Bagel

2y↑1

being your true self is such an incredible thing

Amber P

2y↑37

I'm actually a lesbian now, but I was bisexual for years & I was not ashamed of my identity 💗

Abbey Wagner

2y↑2

@Amber P good to know 👍👍👍👍

Amber P

2y↑2

@Abbey Wagner I found out in senior year of highschool. I had a crush on one of my female friends but she was straight. I always loved being around girls but that was the first time I noticed myself having feelings for a girl. I realized I was a sapphic after that.

Abbey Wagner

2y↑2

But Bi-curious still

Abbey Wagner

2y↑3

I’m also Bi

Abbey Wagner

2y↑2

When did you first find out

danialbinnordin

2y↑60

I need more art style like this is caught everyone's attention.
It's soo cute!😍😍😍

j

2y↑32

Been questioning myself for years. I still lean towards men, but guess I’d date women or sleep with them if I had a chance. I’ve flirted with women, but never got past that stage. Always been afraid, but coming to grips about who I am

Beef Jerky

2y↑29

This has helped a lot I used to watch a lot of your videos in 2019, now that I'm beginning to question myself, and to be honest, feeling a little silly that I'm the only one out of my friends who hasn't figured themselves out, but I've been finding these videos to be incredibly reassuring they've helped a ton :)

Tritie Army

1y↑15

Seriously this helps me a lot I've been thinking I'm Bi for a some time now but I need some help and advice like this. This is all I needed.

Jonas

2y↑45

I think the biggest struggle for me, is that I for a decade has identified myself as gay. Though I have only been bi-curious. I have always been very fearful of touching the subject of sex. So when men usually makes it so easy as ordering a pizza (I am sure the women knows, exactly what I mean), it at least was a way to get some sexsual experience. It quickly became boring, and there wasn't much emotions attached, so I stopped doing it. Some months ago I then started getting in touch, with my sexsuality, and found out I wasn't gay. So when you have spend so much time, identifying as one thing, then how do you get out? I think one of my biggest issues is, I still got a tremendous respect for the LGBTQ+ community, and the friends i made along the way. So I am a afraid that this will be seen as disrespectful.

Jonas

2y↑1

Thanks Kawaii C and Jaz I think you are right. Sorry I haven't answered until now, it has been a long day. :-)

Jaz

2y↑6

It would be more disrespectful to yourself and others to continue to actively lie if you think you are not queer

Kawaii C

2y↑9

If you have understanding friends they'll understand that you could have gotten your identity wrong. There's nothing wrong with that. We're all trying to figure ourselves out. :)

Matt of Thunder Tower

2y↑4

I absolutely love your videos! They’re incredibly helpful and your voice is so soothing!

In my teens and early 20’s, I was curious about the same sex/gender. However, during this time, I denied my attraction towards men as I’ve always had attraction and crushes towards women. Over the past few years, basically since the pandemic began, I’ve been exploring more of my sexuality. While I may identify myself as bisexual, I feel like I’m still bi-curious—still shedding the bi-curiosity cocoon you might say.

Today, I identify as bi-curious/bisexual/demisexual.

MikesterMF

2y↑3

Would love to see a video like this on gender fluidity. I've been exploring it for myself, and I know it's such a personal experience, but I'm having a hard time really putting into words how it's applicable for me and my experience

Sofie's Spectrum

2y↑4

I'm bisexual and come out a couple of years ago, I assumed I could never try anything because I didn't know my orientation so I could only carry on being with men so I completely boxed myself off from trying anything. Remember no matter how you choose to identify, or who you choose to love someone will always love you!! Don't be afraid to be you x

Bear Claus

2y↑5

When my sister and I were in the early stage of our teenage years, my parents told us both, "which ever turns you on, we love you no matter what". That was their talk about sexuality between the sexes(the 1990's).

I dont think anyone can tell you how to be and expressing freedom to be yourself is best validated and nurtured. It shows love, takes away any fear or pressure(confusion included), and allows someone to be just who they already were.

Ive told this to gay friends and straight friends, all were very impressed with my parents words. They expressed how they wished they had parents as cool as mine. They also created some cool and accepting adults in my sister and I.

Tasmanian Tiger 🐅

2y↑3

I'm bisexual and I really do like both boys and girls mostly girls. I was bi curious in the past, and it's a solid point for me this way I can like whomever without it making me feel weird. I would date a nonbinary person just like anyone else if there nice and kind. It's hard to tell if you like both but it's alright to not know. I didn't know bi curious was a thing until I started identifying myself bi.

.•°3MB3R°•.

2y↑3

SIDE NOTE: bisexuality is a spectrum (omnisexual,pansexual, polysexual, biromantic ace, aromantic bisexual, ect!)and the definition can vary from person to person! Don't worry if you don't fit one specific definition or label, just be yourself and don't worry to much if you don't have to!
You don't need label if you don't want them, it can be an important part of your identity, and there no problem with that, but you can just do what you want and it will likely be ok!
Im bi/omni/ace and I support you all!! 💗💜💙

Sadie's Stuff

2y↑22

Thank you! This litterally described me, and I've been thinking on it for two YEARS. Thanks!

Spooky

2y↑11

Yaaaasssss I was just thinking how u guys should make some more LGBTQ+ videos! Slay queens

Mohita Sinha

2y↑10

i love you for making this video, i was always struggling with and constantly questioning my orientation because bisexual just didnt seem a label fitting enough for me, especially since i had oscillating feelings. this video helped me define my sexuality much better, thank you <3

Jaz

Bi-curious is not a label lol. It’s just saying you’re questioning/unlabeled. Bi in general is a broad and fluid label that is more often than not filled with oscillation. Bi people having leans/prefs for whichever gender and the “bi-cycle”

Xavier Dillon

2y↑4

Thanks yet again, Psy. Though I ended up identifying as straight, I was bicurious for awhile, and when my mother found out I was kicked out and called terrible things, and accused of much worse things

Harmylie •

I hope you are okay. I care about you. Please stay safe ♡

Millena

2y↑3

All my life I was heterosexual until 9th grade I had a dream about my bff who was a girl. I freaked out, told my mom and she said “well if you’re happy liking girls I’m happy too” that calmed me down, but the thought never went further and I continued to like guys. Fast forward to college I told my friends that I was bicurious because I wouldn’t mind experimenting. I still liked guys. Funny enough last year a friend told me they liked me. I knew that their pronouns were she/they but they present themselves as male. However I didn’t really care. It didn’t bother me, so I went on a date with them. A year later we are still dating and happily girlfriends. That’s how I became bisexual.

libbs s

2y↑1

Loving this series! More on different sexuality and gender please 🙏

Kill Me so I can Respawn

2y↑4

I was always taught that it was when you could admit that a member of your gender was romantically attractive as a partner even if you didn’t intend on making a move on them. I’ve dated both and I can easily say, women are harder to date because the mind games is just not worth it. There’s only enough room for one raging vessel of estrogen here

Alexis W

2y↑8

To anyone reading this, I was wondering what my situation sounds like and I am open to any feedback. Please don’t worry about feeling like you’re labelling me, I am open to considering whatever you think.

This is how I feel about men: Cannot find them physically attractive unless I like their personality. If I do, I’m more attracted to faces first and then later embrace the rest of their body. Not usually attracted to the male body by itself.

This is how I feel about women: Never been grossed out by women’s bodies, but I also do not feel that “pull” at the same time. Right now, there has been only one girl who I do feel butterflies for. I think she’s beautiful and I love being around her. However, I do not feel the desire to physically engage (kiss, etc.) but I feel like it does cross the line of friendship.
That’s it in a nutshell. I would welcome conversation. Maybe there’s someone on here who is feeling the same way! Thanks 🙂

ireland romney

2y↑1

I'm so grateful for this, it put my exact thoughts and confusion into words!! it cleared up so much for me, thank you!! <3

Kiterina

2y↑1

I’m a female who is almost completely into guys. But every once in a while a girl comes around who makes me question everything. I’m not quite sure what I am but I’m think I’m some form of bisexual possibly. I’m definitely bi-curious so thank you for teaching me it. There’s been about 4-5 girls that have made me question but man…they’re all bigger then me or pretty athletic so maybe that’s just my type. Idk?

TheBobcatlover

2y↑1

Ive found r/bisexual really good for support. Sure you're going to get some opinionated people (welcome to the Internet 😅) but most of them are great.

I joined sometime last year as I'd started to question things etc, wondering whether I really am Bi because I haven't (and still havent) had any same sex experiences. but like someone said to me you wouldn't, for example, question a cis hetero male virgin if they were attracted to women. If you're attracted to more than one gender then you're likely Bi and welcome to the club!

Andy Kirtland

2y↑3

Despite preferring women, I have thoughts and fantasies about experimenting with men and I honestly don’t mind having them thoughts and fantasies running though my head because I like them.

I’ve obviously not had any experience with the same gender and have only ever had one serious relationship with a girl, so can’t really call myself bisexual just yet.

I’ve been single for a long time now and I find both genders physically appealing and now open to experimenting with someone of the same gender. Life’s too short to live with regrets and I strongly believe that love is love.

Sam Wheat

2y↑3

Would have liked hearing your thoughts on people who are curious about same-sex... activities, but have no interest in same-sex romance.

Amulet Coffee

2y↑1

It's a good thing that this video exists cause I have been I identifying as bisexual for a while also have been wondering if I was pansexual. Now it's clear for me cause I still don't have a lot of experience to call my self bisexual

Sofia G

2y↑1

Aaahhh oh my gosh yess I'm so happy to see representation😍😍
So I now identify with bi-curious and straight because I'm a female who has liked guys all my life and never liked girls the way I like boys. But I would probably be down to having sexual relations with both genders but only romantic relationships with guys. I was confused about my sexuality for a while and I thought I was bisexual but I never liked girls and I would force myself to like girls to fit the label and it was just super confusing. It wasn't until I found the term bi-curious where I was like THATS ME!!
Thank you so much Psych2go for giving more light to this lesser known sexuality💗💗

jack

I was scared of it now i realized that I liked every second of it my lovely cousin made me feel so much better it doesn't matter what his gender is I'm a proud bi❤️❤️❤️

Neko JAM

2y↑5

Totally agree as someone that had a bicurious phase, I ended up finding out I was Pansexual then finding out I found out I was panromantic but sexual gay

Anne R

2y↑3

Can I say once you tell someone your sexuality, it is not fixed and can changed multiple times. I myself have gone through around 5 sexuality spectrums but not frequently. A sexuality spectrum is different to the sexuality, as you could say you are on the spectrum but not exactly have equal preferences towards each gender

Nathaniel Sizemore

2y↑3

I have known some people (female and male) who were "Bi-Curious" that ended up being either homosexual/heteroromantic or heterosexual/homoromantic.

James Barlow

Hey so not too long ago I came out to all of my friends and a little bit of family as bisexual and at the time I was certain that is what I identified as. However recently I've been feeling even more confusion in that I rushed into determining exactly what I am, and I havent entirely figured it out yet because I havent been in a relationship with the same gender. Is it alright to go back on what I said and identify as bi-curious instead? I feel like i've already heavily stated what I am to people and if I start to change that, it will lead to them being confused also.

Lurane

2y↑1

I'm so grateful for this. I needed it.

LayLow_1302

2y↑5

I’m confused about my sexuality and I’m scared to be gay or bi because people could beat me up or hurt me and it’s sad when society doesn’t accept you for who you are I’m only 16 lol and still learning about myself

LayLow_1302

2y↑1

@Doctorino Sixerino tnx I appreciate it ❤️ but I’ll see where life takes me

Doctorino Sixerino

2y↑3

I’m really sorry you’re living in a situation like that.

S. Crawford

I guess I am......I'm not sure what I truly am but I definitely know what I gravitate towards. The more feminine, both outfits and personality the more I'm attracted to.....no matter what gender. It's the feminine qualities that attract me. Being an introvert, I'm happy even if I don't find a long lasting relationship, but I definitely know what I'm attracted to.

Sarai Marks

2y↑1

I tried telling my parents about bisexuality but they don’t believe me maybe it’s because they don’t understand… I find both boys and girls attractive! I even like someone who’s a girl!

𝕁𝕠𝕖𝕝

This is wonderful. You are the best at explaining things that other people might struggle with. Thank you

What am I now?

2y↑1

Even I didn't know, how much I needed this video... Thank you so much... ❤️🤗

bear

2y↑2

I think I’m bi.
But I might be bicurious

She talks about testing the waters

But what if I haven’t ever been with someone, and no one is interested in me?
That’s what my life is like right now, and honestly it discourages me a lot. I’m 14 and I haven’t dated anyone ever.
So I need more help than what this video or my experience could give

JUSTABLACKHOODIE

2y↑2

To be honest I’m not sure what I am. I feel confident in being ace (about having little to no Intimate attraction.) but I’m kinda a serial romantic person with low intimate attraction.If one of my best friends liked me I would probably date them.(ima girl there a girl that is bi)
But not in a kissing way.i don’t know if I actually would like them like that or am I just would like them platonically. I know they used to have a crush on me I think at least.to be honest, I think I was just so excited to be with them and to be their friend. I don’t know if I have REAL feelings for girls or am I just trying to fit in with people at my school that know who they are.I think I might be a straight-ace.but I’m not sure, for right now I am probably going to identify with this for the time being, but if something changes it changes, if it doesn’t it doesn’t.🙂

jack

Dear I became a bi years ago but denied it but deep down I liked it so much

Moonphase

Thank you for this video! Sexuality is something that's always made me extremely confused..

TSVH

ive talked about this with a friend a while ago and i still dont entirely know what i am but i dont think i am entirely straight. his conclusion, as he knows more about this stuff than i do, was probably bi/pansexual heteroromantic which in turn feels weird as im not someone to go to bed with anyone outside of a relationship. ive personally come to a point where im just me and ill see what happens. if anything ever comes from it then thats fine and if it doesnt, thats fine too

El Sorzis

2y↑1

Im glad i came across your video. I needed to litsen to this. I feel like i am one of the ones who ocassionaly (but frequently) wonders about it, so this was wholesome to hear. Thank you :3

Psych2Go

2y↑1

No problem! Hope this video helps you and thanks for sharing your story!

Nofaceguy117

I’ve been all over with my sexuality, currently I float more towards aegosexual, which means that I don’t have any want to have sexual relationships with anyone, but I still prefer fantasies and reading romantic or sexual books over the actual thing, but that’s not set in stone, I’ll know for sure one day though! 😁

MALACHAI

my first relationship with a boy: Day 1- bi curious, Day 4- bisexual. It didn't take me long to figure that part out. Weird as it might sound, I wish that had been the hardest part of this whole 'coming out' deal.

:D

thank you for this video! definitely resonated with me :D

Psych2Go

2y↑1

You're so welcome!

Loli Dva

2y↑1

I was once bicurious, but then figured out I was pansexual ❤💛💙

jack

1y↑2

Same i found out that I'm bi years ago but couldn't accept it i finally accepted myself as I am

RosyKitteh

2y↑1

It's hard for me to think about gender in relation to sexuality. I identify as asexual, so on the sexual attraction side of things, I'm covered. However, as for romantic attraction, I feel like I'm bicurious or something like that, but I'm unsure. I've always had friends of all genders and when deciding if I like them as more than friends, I don't think about their gender at all. Gender isn't that important to me, so would that be biromantic or panromantic or what?

Floof Doodle

I came out to my mom about my crush
And man it's was the worst mistake I made
I always felt guilty about pressuring her with these things and now that I am trying to explain that I am bi-curious I think I have made a gap in our relationship

Jaz

2y↑1

You are questioning not bi curious. Also your mother made the mistake not you. Have a good day

ཌNedད

Being curious about life is good after all, but the most important is to be self-assured when choosing a path, for these kind of decisions are one-way ones, there is no turning back once one has made one's own choice, the chosen path must be followed till life's end.

KAESISCOOL

I'm currently going through an identity crises (both gender and sexuality) and I'm specifically questioning my romantic oreantaion. I say this because I think I'm asexual, but I still want to be in a romantic relationship with people, I just dunno with what genders yet

clxver7

I actually found out I was bisexual when I was 9, I would feel warm and fuzzy around my female friend, im actually planning on asking her out next week :) ~~I still have a crush on her yes~~

Deez

I came out on the new year of 2023. It felt so relieving and fresh. But then i started getting afraid of what my parents would think. Im pretty sure my mom wouldn’t mind even if she is a Christian she believes if its what a person wants its what they want so she doesn’t push religion on them but my dad grew up in the rough parts of the 80’s and he and my sister are enemies now and practically hate eachother and i cant lie its both of their faults because my sister and father are like exact copies of one another which is why they hate eachother because she freaks out about stupid shit and my dad says things he shouldn’t say but to him those things are normal to his generation and i grew up with the same type of tolerance for alot of types of humor so when he makes fagot jokes i find them funny and take no offense even tho im bisexual but the way my sister reacts is the problem. If she would have just calmly asked him about it and talked it would have fixed the problem but the way she went about it pissed him off and now they dont talk and since he says stuff about her sexuality to piss her off and she retaliates im afraid if i came out to them he would treat me the same especially since i am a marine. I graduated from MCRD and i feel like if he knew his son was like that as a marine i would be shunned even more so. Im proud to serve my country even if the corp calls me weird for what i am i dont mind because marines are tough so if someone says some shit to me about who i am I’ll just clap back because thats just how marines are. Thats the marine culture. But im afraid I’ll lose my dad because of who i am. That man is a great man and has worked so hard to provide for me and my family growing up so when i chose to serve i think about paying him back for his service to my family. And even if i came out to him and he rejects me i will not reject him.

Khadijah Abdullahi

Random Girl Who Owns Bunnies

I’ve been crushing on guys all my life but recently I started catching feeling for a girl ( I’m a girl ) and I am still a bit confused ab it but… I ended up kissing her yesterday when she came over… and she didn’t seem to mind… she told me that she’s happy for me… that I am finally trying to figure out… and that… really hit me hard… :’)

Paizriel

2y↑38

Wait I'm not bisexual????
I'm bi-curious?
Makes more sense now YAY

Yup I'm Bisexual y'all, I've confirmed it twice now I just had a bit of a crisis

Paizriel

@Jaz aah okay thanks for explaining

Jaz

2y↑1

Bi-curious isn’t a label/sexuality. It literally just means you’re questioning/unlabeled. A temporary place. I just think you’re bi if you think you hold these feelings in the video consistently enough to try and label yourself something that’s not even an identity lol

David Burns

95% of the time, I am attracted to women, but sometimes I feel attracted to guys even though I likely wouldn't ever have sex with a guy. I also don't really feel sexual attraction towards people and mainly just feel emotional attraction because of their personality. I'm trying to figure out what terms best identify how I feel.

Agustin Goicoechea

The best thing you can do id to throw away all tags and just do what you feel. Sometimes tags are necesary for oneself but, sometimes, they just are a burden.

cinderelliz

2y↑1

to be honest, i came to youtube because i'm having trouble figuring out something in myself, and i found this! recently, i think i'm having a crush on someone which is the same sex as mine. it maybe is because there's something in her/them that i find interesting and i'm becoming curious about, i think i wanna know them. though naturally, i'm into the opposite sex, and i always think i'm actually always straight. but suddenly it makes me confused for i don't know reason. maybe, this is just what i need to figure out something. thanks for this, i really needed it.

Cursed Ragdoll

2y↑1

Shinobi

i know i am and i am not confuced :)
Beautiful video :)

Daisy Haigh

Could you do one for helping people who wonder if they're trans/ want to be trans?

χΧЅℓєαzуχЅυανι¢ιтσχ420Χχ

I love that I can be 'bi-curious'.

No one does/did Masc4masc better than I did. I would even refuse any role than 'Power Top'.

Now, I've chilled out.. it's like, it's okay. I do honestly enjoy bottoming.

Damian! Emerys!

2y↑4

My parents still think it’s a phase 17 years later.

owlore

Here's a question, my parents don't believe that im actually bisexual and if I was I shouldn't be labeling myself that and they also think that I'm just saying that because of social/peer pressure, what do I do?

sup ○_●

2y↑1

hello pshy i wanted to ask something can you do a video explaining the signs of trust issues because i am very very worried about a friend of mine so a video of yours would help a lot

day: 2 of asking

Tum

2y↑11

To be honest, as someone who is bisexual, I don’t like that the term is “bi-curious”. You’re simply curious and experimenting/exploring. The fact that you’re not sure what your sexuality is exactly does not make that it’s own sexuality. It kind of insinuates that bisexuality is experimental and that just makes it harder for people who aren’t bisexual to understand. That’s just my opinion though. I’m open to have a conversation about it and see this in a different light potentially, but that’s how I feel in this moment.

LucidMoth102

2y↑2

I mean personally, I've never thought of the label as, "It's own sexuality" I tend to think of it as a short hand for explaining how I'm feeling. More like a, "I might be bisexual but I'm not sure. " Except shorter. I also think it's silly to make it it's own sexuality.

The Flyfly

2y↑1

im not bisexual, but i agree that it doesn't make sense to count it as a sexuality.

maybe it's comforting for some bi-curious people to have a sexuality label, even though they aren't sure yet of what sexuality they have

(i may be completely missing the point of the bi-curious label, so sorry if my view doesn't make sense)

Deputy Rook

2y↑8

how do you call not knowing your sexuality but not experimenting because you don't have time or you're just not really interested in knowing?

Deputy Rook

2y↑3

@Kawaii C that part of me is one that i've always treated in a "i'll figure it out when i get to it" way.

Kawaii C

2y↑1

You can be bicurious and just do nothing about it. You don't have to act on any of your personal feelings. It's just nice to truly know what you're feeling.

Dird

2y↑5

Can you do something for trans visibility day pls :)

SHARINGAN AMV's

At first I thought being LGBT was weak and pathetic but then I'm a big fan of anime and one day a female classmate whom I was close to was watching a BL hentai series on the footpath across the school campus and I when I went close to her to ask what's she watching I accidentally got a glimpse of that but I said silent and thought wtf was as it looked disgusting to me at first cause of the page I just saw but stayed silent for a while after a few days I asked her about it and she was confused and shy about it at first but after a while she asked me to try it too I declined but then at the same night searched it up 😅 and didn't seem to feel weird of most of what I saw and then I realized that it was preference as it turned out that I'm attracted to femboys and bottoms so I kept reading BL mangas and some even hentai yaoi stuff 😅 after that I just noticed that many guys in my class have feminine looks too not that I'm particularly attracted to a single person but I still have interest in girls too so I guess I'm a Bi curious or sexual probably cause I like koks and balls but tits too I guess 😅

Anushka Singh

2y↑11

I just give up. People around me told me that I am straight with certain basis however I don't know. The reason they give are correct, it's just that I am not willing to accept it cause I agree with them but not 100%. Now I am only depending on the future what it holds 😟

Anushka Singh

2y↑1

@Kawaii C thank you u are the very first person to say something like this to me. Means a lot

Kawaii C

2y↑11

You know yourself better than anyone else. Your sexuality is your own business. If you disagree with what people say about you then they're wrong. There are many things you could be. Bisexual, Pansexual, Omnisexual, etc. The list goes on. You can even be a bit more complicated like bisexual heteroromantic. Whatever you end up identifying as is you're business, and I hope you figure out what words make you feel comfortable with yourself.

malu

2y↑1

I have a question.. is bisexuality just restricted to liking men and women? I think I’m bicurious. I’ve never thought of girls that way (I’m a cis girl) but I know that I’m attracted to guys and non-binary people. Would I be valid to identify as bisexual? I don’t want to force my way into the community if I’m only straight.

malu

2y↑1

I know I don’t have to have a label but I want to have one. Labeling myself as straight doesn’t feel necessarily wrong but I feel like there could be a better term to my sexuality. Thanks for any help :)

malu

2y↑1

I’ve asked my bisexual friends and they said I can identify as bisexual. While two of them said that I can’t because I don’t like girls. I asked on Reddit(r/BisexualTeens)
and most comments said yes but one comment said that I’m straight bc everyone likes non binary people or bi-ish.
I’m sooo confused

Hicham Lorenzo

I love the budding pop animation ❤️

mx. enby in black🖤☠️

2y↑2

I'm bisexual and genderfluid and proud! It's also my birthday! April 1st! Sweet sixteen. I'm sorry I've been commenting on your videos. I've been playing the guitar a lot.

🌟 Mahdude

2y↑1

I’m late, but I’m typing this out because I need to say it for my mental health.
I don’t know if I am bi-sexual. I find both girls and boys appealing to look at, but I also don’t like people based off of appearance. I like people based off of personality, but my religious beliefs say that marriage is between a man and a woman, and if this is the case, my future partner is the opposite gender, so I should be trying to date the opposite gender. But gay people get married and still love each other the way straight people do. So I’m confused sexually and religiously. If you read all the way down here, pat yourself on the back. You listened to my stuff. What do you have to say that you can’t tell people around you?

Emily Ko

Heartstopper actually made me question my sexuality a little lol that’s why I came here

lucky

I'm curious now and not confused Dr sam says,he is a spiritual man,that has saved my soul from many problem

No more jelly bean flower

2y↑1

This is so stinking cute

Michael

I am a 12 year old boy this is helping me, I have been thinking about this for a while thank you for helping me.

Reina Mizuki🧿🪬

I'm straight even tho I had that LGBT phase identity crisis in 2020 but at the time I did not know the meaning of those words or what LGBT exactly was. But now I've learnt more. For religious reasons, I can't be LGBTQ. But again love is love, ur sexuality sometimes isn't ur choice. I'm straight but I've had rumours of me being gay, I've had people telling me be gay and I've had people come out to me even if they're religion doesn't allow it. I'm not tryna fit in with anyone, I'm not desperate for a guy, I don't need to have a man to make me happy or even be dating at all. I just wanna get to know myself but again I'm a kid, let's talk about it when I'm older. I'm straight and I don't think I'll ever change that anytime soon but I'm curious. Idk. I don't know if I feel comfortable saying this but yeah. In conclusion, I'm straight but curious as well. I'm mostly straight.

cantalou

2y↑2

But guys I have a question.. is it possible to be bicurious like, all your life? Me it makes years that I’m straight but sometimes curious and open to be with a girl. Honestly, I’m not sure it will change.. so yeah

But at the same time, i never feel the same way with a guy and a girl. I don’t think I could have feelings for a girl, it just don’t feel right.

Tbh, its like if I’m sexually attracted to both, but just romanticly attracted to one gender. Is there a sexuality for that?

xX strawberry Xx

2y↑1

I have no idea I am lost about what iam

Raj Lakshmi

If you are free help me out:
Its been quite some time since I'm confused about my preferences ..... I have always been attracted to boys.... but in girl's case I'm specifically attracted to tomboy girls only..... I wonder is that just because tomboys look like boys and have masculine energy or am I actually attracted to girls... cause also I am not attracted to feminine girls at all.
I'm so confused.... anyone of you got some advise to overcome this confusion?

Psiren

2y↑2

I'm kind of surprised to see this channel using non-inclusive language (specifically the statement about being "attracted to both genders") but I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt considering how otherwise inclusive this video and channel has always strived to be. Other than that line, which threw me off (and I'm normally not the type to get caught up on that stuff), this was a great, informative, non-judgmental video a younger me would absolutely have appreciated having access to. I appreciate it now and I appreciate that it exists for people dealing with the same insecurities and curiousity that I struggled with understanding a decade ago.

One other thing that comes to mind, that I think is worth mentioning, is that these preferences can continue to change and evolve as we get older. Bi-curiousity is often the first step, but it's not abnormal or wrong for preferences to change and for us to re-evaluate ourselves as we get older.

Anyway, thanks for the video. I don't usually comment, but I just want to know that I appreciate you for this.

Troy Jollimore

Your 'younger self' is exactly who this would be targeted at, hence the 'language', and your being triggered... :P

Help me reach 44k subs without any Videos

2y↑9

These videos makes our days better

SilentDay

2y↑1

There's bisexual and bicurious, but I am biFURIOUS

asasial1977

2y↑4

The way teens especially are pressed to be bi, is just wrong no other way about it.
Be whatever you want to or feel like.
But kids these days are pretty much told, if they aren’t at least Bi they are wrong and a bad person.
I do not care how you justify it
That IS WRONG!!

Slime Tank

2y↑2

@asasial1977 also how do you know that other person's age, lol

Slime Tank

2y↑2

Lmao where, and how can i go there?

asasial1977

@Shadow Cat I have kids your age I have seen and heard it first hand

Shadow Cat

2y↑3

No one is being pressured to be bi... It is celebrated when someone comes to terms with their sexuality. Some people are still bullied for it though. But trust me - I am one of those "kids these days" - no one is treated as a "bad" person for being straight.

Jada Onye

2y↑1

I’m definitely bi-curious, I even took sexuality quizzes on google and I got bi-curious

jack

1y↑1

@Jada Onye nah I'm good I'm not that religious I just will keep hiding it but I'm a boy and respect you as a bi I thought it was a mental issue but now I understand how wrong I was

Jada Onye

@jack I'm glad that you are now happy with it and accepting it as part of you. I would say try not to give urself a hard time about it. Idk if u mean fate in a religious way or...

jack

1y↑1

@Jada Onye yeah I keep keeping it a secret the only difference is now I accept it that I'm bi and I'm happy with that even if it's a secret I am still like that can't Change myself or fool myself I even used to be homophobic in order to lie to myself but I can't escape from my own fate

Jada Onye

@jack I’m sorry that u were in that situation and feel that way, sexuality can be very hard to be open about because of what people think of it. Just know that ur not alone and so many people feel that way including myself, I kinda always pushed the thought away of liking girls, and I’ve never really came to terms of my sexuality yet. I also want you to remember that you don’t have to tell ppl about ur sexuality it’s not something that you should feel forced to say and talk about. It’s something that could be very personal

jack

1y↑1

Same i found out that I'm bi years ago when my cousin did it I liked it but my people made me hate it now many of us are secretly bi but scared of saying so

Who?? Tao

This isn't apart if the video, but how do I calmly confront my father that I hate him and he should just make an attempt to try and make me love him semi? I know he grew up without any sort of female (not even his mom because his mom was bsuy with work) so he doesn't know how to handle him, but idk how to confront him and say what he is doing is wrong when he knows I hate him, I'm a 9 yr old girl who doesn't like her father

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