Bitch Went Nuts
Ben Folds Lyrics


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(The answer you seek my son only poses more questions.
Ask many women why relationship has failed.
Each woman offer unique reason for demise.
One woman may say, "man could not commit."
Or, "man is douche, and is now free to make love to himself instead."
Another woman may say, "man had changed,"
Or even, "man no longer satisfactory lover."
But my son, ask many men same question all over the world,
"Why has relationship failed?" Each man, each time, will give same, simple answer.)

The bitch went nuts.
She stabbed my basketball.
And the speakers to my stereo.
She called me 'cunt'
But nothing prepared me for
What I found when I came home.
Oh and I made my own bed. I lie in it.
You lie in yours. You lie, you lie, in yours.
But they want more, they're at my door with torches.
Please leave me alone, you know. Just shut it. Just shut it. Just shut it.

The bitch went nuts.
She photoshopped my face
Onto every boy who'd done her wrong.
And as she burned I telepathically into the brains of all her embittered rooms.
Oh, now, now they want more. They're at my door with torches. Scores, and scores, and scores to Settle with themselves.
You would have thought I'd scorned them all.
They've got a doll of me, they're burnin', they're burnin', they're burnin', they're burnin', they're burnin' their own memories.

Why do they all go?
Why do they all go?

The bitch went nuts, y'all.
But everyone said she might.
Holy fucking shit.
Seriously now.
Now they want more. They're at my door with torches.
Scores and scores.
You would have thought I'd scorned them all.
They've got a doll of me, they're burnin'.





Why do they all go?

Overall Meaning

The song "Bitch Went Nuts" by Ben Folds is a humorous take on a failed relationship from the perspective of a man who can't quite understand why his ex-girlfriend went crazy after the breakup. The song begins with a spoken word passage in which a wise old man suggests that asking women why a relationship has failed will result in a variety of unique reasons, while men will always give the same simple answer. The lyrics that follow describe the man's ex-girlfriend's extreme behavior after their breakup. She stabs his basketball and destroys the singers in his stereo, calls him a "cunt," and even photoshops his face onto the bodies of all the men who have wronged her in the past. The man is surprised and bewildered by her behavior but ultimately resigns himself to lying in the bed he made.


The chorus of the song, which repeats the phrase "Why do they all go?" several times, is a commentary on the universality of failed relationships. The man can't understand why his ex-girlfriend went crazy, but he acknowledges that it's a common occurrence and wonders if there's something inherently flawed about relationships that causes them to fail.


Overall, "Bitch Went Nuts" is a tongue-in-cheek exploration of the dynamics of failed relationships and the bizarre ways that people can act when they're heartbroken.


Line by Line Meaning

The bitch went nuts.
My partner went crazy and acted out violently.


She stabbed my basketball.
She damaged my personal belongings.


And the speakers to my stereo.
She damaged my personal belongings further.


She called me 'cunt'
She insulted me using derogatory language.


But nothing prepared me for What I found when I came home.
I was not expecting the full extent of the damage she caused.


Oh and I made my own bed. I lie in it.
I am responsible for my own actions and choices.


You lie in yours. You lie, you lie, in yours.
You are responsible for your own actions and choices.


But they want more, they're at my door with torches.
They (the embittered individuals) want further revenge and are coming after me.


Please leave me alone, you know. Just shut it. Just shut it. Just shut it.
I am pleading with them to stop and leave me alone.


She photoshopped my face Onto every boy who'd done her wrong.
She projected her anger towards me by associating me with past pains caused by other men.


And as she burned I telepathically into the brains of all her embittered rooms.
As she got angrier and more irrational, she projected her thoughts onto the people around her, convincing them to feel the same way.


Oh, now, now they want more. They're at my door with torches. Scores, and scores, and scores to Settle with themselves.
The embittered people want more revenge, feeling like they have scores to settle with themselves.


You would have thought I'd scorned them all.
They are overreacting and blaming me for things that are not my fault.


They've got a doll of me, they're burnin', they're burnin', they're burnin', they're burnin', they're burnin' their own memories.
They are going to extreme lengths to destroy the memory of me in their lives, even if it means destroying their own memories and peace of mind.


Why do they all go?
Why do all my relationships end up failing?




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Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS

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