Frown Song
Ben Folds Lyrics


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Tread slowly from the car to the spa
Like a weary war-torn refugee
Crossing the border with her starving child
It's a struggle just to get to shiatsu
Present the waitress with your allergy card
And tell all of your problems
Leave no tip at all
Down at the shoe store with your friends
Speculate who might be fucking a guru

Rock on, rock on with your fashionable frown
Rock on, rock on. Spread the love around
Rock on, rock on with a fashionable frown
Spread the love around

Hard to remember how we managed before
We could afford real and nervous breakdowns
Or before the anthropology store
Was erected on Indian burial grounds
So really don't you see a little of yourself in the bathroom attendant that you just scowled at?
Or the child who's hiding inside as you wipe the smile off a teenage barista

Rock on, rock on with your fashionable frown
Rock on, rock on. Spread the love around
Rock on, rock on with a fashionable frown
Spread the love around

Spread the love around
Alright

You're gonna be alright, baby
You're gonna be alright, baby

Floating back from the spa to the car
State of bliss, and it wasn't the steam room
Sometimes life's not so bad
Now we know who's been fucking the guru

Rock on, rock on with your fashionable frown
Rock on, rock on. Spread the love around
Rock on, rock on with a fashionable frown
Spread the love around





Smile for us now
Do it upside down

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ben Folds's song "Frown Song" explore the themes of materialism, self-importance, and the human tendency to be unhappy despite living in a world of luxury and convenience. The first verse, with its references to visiting a posh spa, seems to be a commentary on the triviality of modern society's concerns. The singer compares the act of going to the spa to that of a refugee crossing a border, suggesting that people place undue importance on self-care and indulgence. The second stanza delves deeper into the idea of entitlement, as the singer describes a scenario in which a customer presents a detailed allergy card and complains to the waitstaff, only to leave without leaving a tip. The final lines of the verse suggest a kind of ironic detachment from the situation, as the singer's friends engage in a frivolous conversation about who might be "fucking a guru."


The chorus of "Frown Song" is where the title of the song comes into play. The phrase "fashionable frown" suggests the idea that people may try to appear unhappy or discontented as a way of seeming deep or introspective. This is juxtaposed with the lyrics "spread the love around," which seem to be an ironic commentary on the way that people view themselves as isolated individuals rather than part of a larger community.


Line by Line Meaning

Tread slowly from the car to the spa
Moving at a sluggish pace as if you're a tired and exhausted refugee traveling from one place to another


Like a weary war-torn refugee
Traveling from one place to another with the same level of exhaustion and weariness as refugees who have come from war-torn countries


Crossing the border with her starving child
As difficult as crossing a border with a starving child, you struggle to reach the spa


It's a struggle just to get to shiatsu
The process is so challenging that reaching shiatsu seems like a significant obstacle to overcome


Present the waitress with your allergy card
Handing over a card with all of your allergies to the waitress to avoid any issues and problems


And tell all of your problems
Releasing all of your pent up emotions onto the waitress as she listens to your problems


Leave no tip at all
After complaining and burdening the waitress, you leave without giving a tip to your server


Down at the shoe store with your friends
Hanging out with friends in the shoe store


Speculate who might be fucking a guru
Gossiping with friends about who may be having a sexual affair with a guru


Hard to remember how we managed before
It's challenging to think about how we handled life before our breakdowns and the anthropology store were created


We could afford real and nervous breakdowns
When we could genuinely afford stress and breakdowns in our lives


Or before the anthropology store
Before the store that studies human behavior and social customs existed


Was erected on Indian burial grounds
Before the store was built on lands where Native Americans were buried


So really don't you see a little of yourself in the bathroom attendant that you just scowled at?
Do you realize that the bathroom attendant that you just scowled at is very much like you?


Or the child who's hiding inside as you wipe the smile off a teenage barista
Think about the young kid who is hiding inside their shell, as you're taking away the smile from a teenage barista.


Rock on, rock on with your fashionable frown
Continue to pretend that being unhappy is fashionable and trendy.


Rock on, rock on. Spread the love around
Keep spreading love to those around you.


Spread the love around
Share your love and happiness with others.


Alright
Great!


You're gonna be alright, baby
You're going to be okay.


Floating back from the spa to the car
Returning from the spa in a state of serenity and calmness


State of bliss, and it wasn't the steam room
You're feeling euphoric, but it's not because of the steam room


Sometimes life's not so bad
Life isn't always terrible.


Now we know who's been fucking the guru
You finally figured out who's been having sex with the guru.


Smile for us now
Please show us your smile.


Do it upside down
Now, turn your smile upside down.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS

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