16
Ben Lee Lyrics


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I feel had
Where's the reckless spirit I'm supposed to have
That was crap
Your world's joke making me choke

I'm so mad
I thought my life would be like a John Hughes film
I feel had
Don't tell me at sixteen you were stoked
Cause I'm a man and I'm a joke

You told me 16 had a girl
16 had a car
16 made me wise
But now I'm 16 and I see that's all wrong
But now I'm 16 and I see that's all wrong
At 16 I'm just lucky to be alive

What's the cost
I can't move why do I feel lost
Piss me off
Time is my schedule, school's my boss
There's no love lost
Because there is no love got

Piss me off
Don't tell me being 16 was a joy
Cause I'm a man and I'm a boy

You told me 16 had a girl
16 had a car
16 made me wise
But now I'm 16 and I see that's all wrong
But now I'm 16 and I see that's all wrong
At 16 I'm just lucky to be alive

Where's my girl
Where's my car
Where's my record deal
Make me a star
Where's my spirit
Where's my team
I can't be jaded yet cause I'm only 16
I can't be jaded yet cause I'm only 16




I can't have seen it all I'm only 16
I can't have seen it all I'm only 16

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ben Lee's song, "16," convey feelings of disappointment and anger towards the world and society's perception of what it means to be 16. The singer feels cheated out of the supposed "reckless spirit" and excitement that should come with being a teenager, instead feeling trapped in the monotony of school and the pressures of society. The line "Your world's joke making me choke" represents the frustration and suffocation felt by the singer in a world that doesn't seem to understand or care about them. They also question the supposed joys of being 16, feeling like they are missing out on the experiences that were promised to them.


The chorus of the song repeats the lines, "You told me 16 had a girl, 16 had a car, 16 made me wise, but now I'm 16 and I see that's all wrong," emphasizing the singer's disillusionment with the expectations placed upon them at this age. The final line, "At 16 I'm just lucky to be alive," suggests a feeling of helplessness, as the singer realizes that they are at the mercy of the world around them and must simply be grateful to still be alive.


Overall, the song speaks to the universal experience of feeling let down by society's expectations and grappling with the pressures of growing up.


Line by Line Meaning

I feel had
I feel deceived or cheated


Where's the reckless spirit I'm supposed to have
I don't feel as bold or daring as I'm expected to be


That was crap
That was terrible or worthless


Your world's joke making me choke
The pressures and expectations of the world are suffocating me


I'm so mad
I am extremely angry


I thought my life would be like a John Hughes film
I expected my life to be like a classic teenage movie filled with excitement and adventure


Don't tell me at sixteen you were stoked
Don't tell me that being sixteen was exciting and exhilarating for you


Cause I'm a man and I'm a joke
I'm expected to act like an adult, but I still feel like a fool or a failure


What's the cost
What is the price I have to pay?


I can't move why do I feel lost
I feel paralyzed or stuck and I'm not sure what to do next


Piss me off
I'm extremely angry


Time is my schedule, school's my boss
My life is dominated by the demands of school and other outside forces


There's no love lost
There was no love to begin with


Don't tell me being 16 was a joy
Don't tell me that being sixteen was fun or enjoyable


Where's my girl
Where is the love interest I was supposed to have?


Where's my car
Where is the freedom and independence I was supposed to have?


Where's my record deal
Where is the fame and success that I was hoping for?


Make me a star
Help me become a famous and respected figure


Where's my spirit
Where is the passion and drive that I was supposed to have?


Where's my team
Where are the supportive and loyal friends I was hoping for?


I can't be jaded yet cause I'm only 16
I can't be cynical and world-weary yet because I'm still young and inexperienced


I can't have seen it all I'm only 16
I haven't experienced everything yet because I'm still young


At 16 I'm just lucky to be alive
At sixteen, I am fortunate just to be alive and have the opportunities that I do


You told me 16 had a girl
People said that at sixteen, I would have a romantic partner


16 had a car
People said that at sixteen, I would have a car and the freedom it brings


16 made me wise
People said that being sixteen would bring newfound wisdom and knowledge


But now I'm 16 and I see that's all wrong
But now that I am actually sixteen, I see that these expectations were misguided




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@christinjsmith7536

I thought my life was gonna be like a john Hughes movie

@notsusan

oh my GOD this takes me back! I was about 14 when I saw it on 120 Minutes and it was just perfect. John Hughes tricked a lot of us, I think...

@Thrash_ranch

Saw them featured in mtv 120
Minutes way back when Dave kendall was hosting it 1993 I think it was

@mmccormick1065

I'm big into the Beastie Boys.....Grand Royal Records cd I bought...had these Guy's on......Top Tune...Worth a look...various artists Ben Lee Lucious Jackson etc etc class %))

@hobocakes

Such a great band and a great album. Saw them live at the Fireside Bowl in Chicago. It was amazing!

@ZackVitus

I love this album so much!

@markfurru3368

Fucking love this, always have!

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Thank Anthony Fantano

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