Hell Is For Children
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They cry in the dark
So you can't see their tears
They hide in the light
So you can't see their fears
Forgive and forget
All the while
Love and pain become one and the same
In the eyes of a wounded child

Because hell, hell is for children
And you know that their little lives can become such a mess
Hell, hell is for children
And you shouldn't have to pay for your love
With your bones and your flesh

It's all so confusing this brutal abusing
They blacken your eyes and then apologize
Be daddy's good girl, and don't tell mommy a thing
Be a good little boy, and you'll get a new toy
Tell grandma you fell from the swing

Because hell, hell is for children
And you know that their little lives can become such a mess
Hell, hell is for children
And you shouldn't have to pay for your love
With your bones and your flesh

No, hell is for children

Hell, hell is for hell
Hell is for hell
Hell is for children

Hell, hell is for hell
Hell is for hell
Hell is for children

Hell, hell is for hell
Hell is for hell
Hell is for children





Hell is for children
Hell is for children

Overall Meaning

Pat Benatar's song "Hell Is For Children" speaks to the abuse of children and the pain they endure, both physically and emotionally. The lyrics talk about children crying in the dark and hiding in the light, trying to conceal their tears and fears. The song sheds light on how children are vulnerable and helpless in situations of abuse, often becoming pawns in the power play between adults. The abusers offer apologies and gifts, asking the children to keep quiet, making them believe that what they are doing is acceptable.


The chorus speaks to the gravity of the situation, saying that hell is for children. It speaks to how children's lives can become a mess due to abuse, causing them tremendous pain and suffering. Benatar questions why children have to pay for love with their flesh and bones, and it is a powerful reminder that the abuse can leave scars that may never heal.


The song emphasizes that abuse should never be taken lightly, and we should all be aware of the signs and symptoms that could indicate abuse. It encourages people to speak out and take action to protect vulnerable children and prevent abuse from happening. The song's powerful lyrics strike a chord with people who have survived abuse, know someone who has been a victim of abuse, or are passionate about creating awareness around this issue.


Line by Line Meaning

They cry in the dark
Children cry in secret, behind the curtains of silence.


So you can't see their tears
Their tears are kept hidden, and their pain is not adequately acknowledged.


They hide in the light
Children may appear happy and carefree outwardly.


So you can't see their fears
But inwardly they live in constant fear and anxiety, often unable to express their true feelings.


Forgive and forget
The victims of abuse often feel pressured to forgive the abuser and move on from the past.


All the while
Despite the horrors they have faced, these children must carry on with their lives somehow.


Love and pain become one and the same
For children who have experienced abuse, love and pain may become intertwined and difficult to distinguish.


In the eyes of a wounded child
The terrible reality of abuse is etched into this child's face and their gaze.


Because hell, hell is for children
The suffering that children endure is akin to hell on earth.


And you know that their little lives can become such a mess
The abuse and trauma that children endure can deeply impact their physical, emotional, and psychological well-being.


And you shouldn't have to pay for your love
Children should not have to endure horrific abuse and mistreatment in exchange for love and care from their parents or guardians.


With your bones and your flesh
The toll of abuse can manifest physically and leave lasting scars on the body and mind.


It's all so confusing this brutal abusing
The abuse that children endure is often senseless and bewildering.


They blacken your eyes and then apologize
Abusers often alternate between extreme violence and profuse apologies and affection.


Be daddy's good girl, and don't tell mommy a thing
Abusers may use manipulation and coercion to silence their victims and maintain control over them.


Be a good little boy, and you'll get a new toy
Abusers may also use rewards and incentives to induce good behavior and obedience from the child.


Tell grandma you fell from the swing
Abuse may be hidden and lied about, even to family members and loved ones who could otherwise intervene.


No, hell is for children
This line is repeated to underscore the message that children should never have to experience such traumatic ordeals.


Hell, hell is for hell
A plea to those in powerful positions to take action against child abuse, and hold perpetrators accountable to prevent future atrocities.


Hell, hell is for children
A call to remember that the most vulnerable and defenseless members of our society deserve protection and justice more than anyone.




Lyrics © BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: NEIL GIRALDO, PATRICIA BENATAR, ROGER CAPPS

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