Sex As A Weapon
Benatar Pat Lyrics
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You really do know how to act tough (act tough)
Your body's just like a centerfold
A fantasy, (a fantasy), anyone would want to hold
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex as a weapon
You know you're already my obsession
Love is more than a one way reflection
Stop, (stop), using sex as a weapon
With looks that kill and a mind that's twisted (twisted)
I don't know why I can't resist it (resist it)
I tell myself look the other way (other way)
When you want me to (when you want me to)
I, I always stay
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex as a weapon
You know you're already my obsession
Stop, (stop), using sex as a weapon
Love is more than a one way reflection
Stop, (stop), using sex as a weapon
You play with desire like it was a toy (toy)
How much affection can you destroy?
You wrap my heart around your little finger
Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex as a weapon
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex as a weapon
You know you're already my obsession
Stop, (stop), using sex as a weapon
Love is more than a one way reflection
Stop, (stop), using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop using sex
(Stop using sex)
(Stop using sex)
Sex as a weapon, as a weapon
The song "Sex As A Weapon" by Pat Benatar is a commentary on the abuse of sex as a manipulative tool in relationships. The lyrics describe a partner who uses their physical appearance and sexuality to control the singer and keep them hooked, all while neglecting the deeper emotional and intellectual aspects of their connection. The first few lines paint a picture of a partner who is alluring and intimidating at the same time, with a body like a "centerfold" and a tough demeanor. However, the chorus urges them to stop using sex as a weapon and recognize that love is more than a one-sided attraction. The second verse delves deeper into the twisted psychology of the manipulative partner, highlighting their ability to toy with desire and destroy affection. The repeated refrain of "sex as a weapon" drives home the central message of the song: that intimacy should be a mutual expression of love and respect, not a means of control or domination.
Overall, "Sex As A Weapon" is a powerful rejection of the idea that physical attraction is the most important factor in a relationship. Pat Benatar uses her trademark vocal prowess and rock-and-roll energy to deliver a message that is both catchy and thought-provoking. The song remains relevant today, as people continue to struggle with the impact of toxic relationships and the misuse of sexuality.
Line by Line Meaning
You really do know how to strut that stuff (strut that stuff)
You are confident and show off your attractiveness
You really do know how to act tough (act tough)
You project strength and independence
Your body's just like a centerfold
A fantasy, (a fantasy), anyone would want to hold
Your physique is idealized, causing others to desire you
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop manipulating others with the promise of sexual activity
You know you're already my obsession
You know that I am infatuated with you
Stop, (stop), using sex as a weapon
Stop exploiting sexuality to gain power or control
Love is more than a one way reflection
Love involves mutual respect and reciprocity, not just one person's desire for another
With looks that kill and a mind that's twisted (twisted)
Your attractiveness and manipulative tendencies make you dangerous
I don't know why I can't resist it (resist it)
I am compelled to be drawn to you despite knowing the risk
I tell myself look the other way (other way)
When you want me to (when you want me to)
I, I always stay
I try to ignore your attempts to lure me in, but I always give in
You play with desire like it was a toy (toy)
How much affection can you destroy?
You wrap my heart around your little finger
Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex as a weapon
You treat other people's emotions as expendable and use sex to manipulate them, resulting in their heartache
Stop using sex
Stop using sex to harm others
Stop using sex as a weapon
Stop exploiting the sexual desires of others for your own gain
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BILLY STEINBERG, TOM KELLY
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@777zippy777
If you grew up in the '80s... you were SO lucky. Best decade ever.
@paultreadaway102
Excellent Videos are too classy in the 80s when it really started.The greatest decade of all time the GOAT 🐐 for me
@777zippy777
@@paultreadaway102 Obviously we're biased, but come on... the music industry in the '80s was easily the best era ever. You couldn't swing a 12-inch stick without hitting a legendary, huge-name rock star/pop star. And MTV was beyond iconic.
What do they have now? Hip-hop and rap garbage, pro tools, auto-tune, over-produced garbage aimed at Zoomers that don't know any better and only care about downloading the latest soup-of-the-day trend from the latest release by "JayEyeEm Super-Daddy-Z featuring Busta Big Daddy G and Dr. Slappy-Pants P-Funk Jippy-Jammer A.K. Flux-Butt".
@pettifogger0712
Amen to that!!! Born 1971 and raised on radio in the 1980's! 🙂
@mjrybread
Well I don't know about that cuz it did have lots of drugs back there 😢and I did my fair share 😅but dang was it fun
@zaidalsabea2716
Amen brother. Radio was a joy. Albums were a thing. Movies were a delight -even the corny ones-.
@tanya3128
This woman has a KILLER voice!! She is amazing and paved the way for so many others. She 100% deserves her place in the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame! Loved her then, love her now, too. ❤️🥰
@TheSleepingonit
What happened to her?
@darkjedi447
I think this is an underrated song. It's one of her best! Don't get sick of hearing it ever
@RobTheUndertaker
I'm surprised it wasn't a bigger hit myself.