I Must Have That Man!
Billie Holiday Lyrics


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Don't want my mammy
I don't need a friend
My heart is broken
It won't ever mend
I ain't much carin'
Just where I will end
I must have that man
I'm like an oven
That's cryin' for heat
He treats me awful
Each time that we meet
It's just unlawful
How that boy can cheat
But I must have that man

He's hot as Hades
A lady's not safe in his arms
When she's kissed
But I'm afraid that he's cooled off
And maybe I'm ruled off his list
I'll never be missed

I need that person much worse'n just bad
I'm falf alive and it's drivin' me mad
He's only human if he's to be had
I must have that man
Don't want my mammy
I don't need a friend
My heart is broken
It won't ever mend
I ain't much carin'
Just where I will end
I must have that man

I'm like an oven
That's cryin' for heat
He treats me awful
Each time that we meet
It's just unlawful
How that boy can cheat
But I must have that man

He's hot as Hades
A lady's not safe in his arms
When she's kissed
But I'm afraid that he's cooled off
And maybe I'm ruled off his list
I'll never be missed

I need that person much worse'n just bad
I'm half alive and it's drivin' me mad




He's only human if he's to be had
I must have that man

Overall Meaning

The song "I Must Have That Man" by Billie Holiday is a passionate and emotional plea for a man who is no good for her. The lyrics describe a woman who is so desperate for love and affection that she will go to any lengths to have the man who treats her badly. The first stanza is particularly poignant, as it describes how the singer is not interested in the love and support of her mother or friends, because her heart is so broken that it can never be mended. This is a powerful statement about the depths of her despair and how she is unable to find solace in the usual sources of comfort.


The second stanza continues the metaphor of the singer as an oven that is crying out for heat, implying that she is so starved for love and intimacy that she is willing to endure mistreatment from this man. The line "It's just unlawful / How that boy can cheat" suggests that the man is unfaithful to her, yet she is still drawn to him despite his flaws. The imagery of him being "hot as Hades" reinforces the idea that he is dangerously attractive and alluring, despite being bad for her.


The final stanza repeats the lines from earlier, emphasizing how strong the singer's desire is for this man. The line "He's only human if he's to be had" suggests that she sees him as a commodity rather than a person, something to be obtained rather than someone to love for who he is. Overall, the song is a complex exploration of the psychology of desire, and the ways in which we are drawn to people who are no good for us.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't want my mammy
I don't want comfort from my mother


I don't need a friend
I don't need someone to talk to or confide in


My heart is broken
I am deeply hurting emotionally


It won't ever mend
I don't think my heart will ever heal


I ain't much carin'
I don't care much about anything else


Just where I will end
I don't know what will become of me


I must have that man
I desperately need the man I'm thinking of


I'm like an oven
I am craving something intensely


That's cryin' for heat
That I need to be filled with love and affection


He treats me awful
He treats me terribly and disrespectfully


Each time that we meet
Every time we see each other


It's just unlawful
It's entirely wrong and immoral


How that boy can cheat
I'm amazed at how easily he can be unfaithful


But I must have that man
Despite all of that, I still need him desperately


He's hot as Hades
He's incredibly attractive and desirable


A lady's not safe in his arms
Being with him is dangerous and risky


When she's kissed
When he shows physical affection


But I'm afraid that he's cooled off
I'm worried that he's lost interest in me


And maybe I'm ruled off his list
Maybe I'm no longer on his radar


I'll never be missed
He won't care if I disappear from his life


I need that person much worse'n just bad
I need him more than anything else in the world


I'm half alive and it's drivin' me mad
I'm barely functioning and it's affecting me mentally


He's only human if he's to be had
He's not perfect or unattainable


I must have that man
I need him, no matter what




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DOROTHY FIELDS, JIMMY MC HUGH

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@0otee

I can imagine ‘I must have that Man’❣️❤️❣️❤️❣️❤️🌞👌Thank you always Billie🌺 LYRICS: ‘I Must Have That Man’
Don't want my mammy
I don't need a friend
My heart is broken
It won't ever mend
I ain't much carin'
Just where I will end
I must have that man

I'm like an oven
That's cryin' for heat
He treats me awful
Each time that we meet
It's just unlawful
How that boy can cheat
But I must have that man

He's hot as Hades
A lady's not safe in his arms
When she's kissed
But I'm afraid that he's cooled off
And maybe I'm ruled off his list
I'll never be missed

I need that person much worse'n just bad
I'm falf alive and it's drivin' me mad
He's only human if he's to be had
I must have that man
Don't want my mammy
I don't need a friend
My heart is broken
It won't ever mend
I ain't much carin'
Just where I will end
I must have that man

I'm like an oven
That's cryin' for heat
He treats me awful
Each time that we meet
It's just unlawful
How that boy can cheat
But I must have that man

He's hot as Hades
A lady's not safe in his arms
When she's kissed
But I'm afraid that he's cooled off
And maybe I'm ruled off his list
I'll never be missed

I need that person much worse'n just bad
I'm half alive and it's drivin' me mad
He's only human if he's to be had
I must have that man



@rosachavez3862

Si recuerdo su trajica vida y fue en tiempos de la sejregacioion
Racista vi su historia la conoci
Atraves de la gran estrella y cantante amiga de michel Jakson.
Ka de ojis grandes buena actuacion sali enferma y muy triste
De ver esa movie ellaes Diana carrol. BILLIE HOLIDAY FUE UNA
VICTIMA DE LA SEJREGACION
RACISTA. NO LO PUEDO OLVIDAR
DIOS 0ERDONE LAS PRUEBAS DE
LAS INJUSTICIAS DEL HOMBRE X
EL HOMBRE GRACIAS. Descance en 9az La gran billie holliday



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@jahnaenelson7606

The day I discovered Ms. Holiday was the day my aesthetics changed for the better and my outlook in life became more fruitful. She does it for me. Peace nd Love everyone✊🏿

@JSGaming0327

That is wonderful. I’m 19 and I discovered 1930’s, 40’s and 50’s music when I was 13, and I love this kind of music so much. It’s so beautiful. Peace and Love to you my friend. 👍🏼😄😎💖💖💕💕

@delboymartin7465

Welcome to our club 🎵

@YoungGunneR84

Thank you for the upload. I desperately needed to satisfy my old soul. This is one of the best Billie Holiday collections I have heard. Every song takes you back in time. Let's get together and change the world

@ruthdixon7807

lester "nijinsky of the saxophone" young's solo is one of my favourite moments in music.

@lesterwyoung

Displaying your superb good taste!

@angelacardill5234

Nobody before or since can match this Lady ❤

@Aristipp-ng5fu

a bit doctrinaire, isn ˋ t it? reminds me of the Mick Taylor Warriors

@ferromo4928

I love Billie Holiday 😍😍😍

@ajilla1960

Simply amazing, that lady

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