Your Mother's Son in Law
Billie Holiday Lyrics


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You don't have to have a hanker
To be a broker or a banker
No siree, just simply be
My mother's son-in-law.
Needn't even think of tryin'
To be a mighty social lion
Sipping tea, if you'll be
My mother's son-in-law,
Ain't got the least desire
To set the world on fire
Just wish you'd make it proper
To call my old man papa
You don't have to sing like Bledsoe
You can tell the world I said so
Can't you see you've got to be
My mother's son-in-law.

You don't have to sing like Jessel
You can tell the world I said so




Can't you see, you've got to be
My mother's son-in-law.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Billie Holiday's "Your Mother's Son-In-Law" are a playful and sarcastic jab at societal expectations and gender roles surrounding marriage and family dynamics. The first verse sets the tone by stating that one doesn't need to have a traditional or high-paying job to be considered worthy of marrying the singer, as long as they are simply her mother's son-in-law. The second verse continues this trend by mocking the idea of social status and etiquette, suggesting that as long as the potential partner is respectful to her family and doesn't try to be someone they're not, they'll be good enough.


The final verse includes specific references to popular singers of the time, urging the potential partner to not feel pressure to have a beautiful singing voice like Bledsoe or Jessel but rather just be himself. The repetition of the line "Can't you see you've got to be my mother's son-in-law" emphasizes the singer's playfulness and insistence that these societal expectations are ultimately silly and irrelevant in the grand scheme of things.


Overall, "Your Mother's Son-In-Law" is a lighthearted commentary on the pressure and unrealistic expectations placed on people when it comes to relationships and marriage. It showcases Billie Holiday's wit and humor while also highlighting the societal norms and pressures of the era.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't have to have a hanker
You don't need to have a specific aspiration


To be a broker or a banker
In terms of career, it doesn't matter what you do


No siree, just simply be
All you have to do is exist and be yourself


My mother's son-in-law.
As long as you are married to her daughter, everything is fine


Needn't even think of tryin'
You don't have to attempt anything extraordinary


To be a mighty social lion
You don't have to be the life of the party


Sipping tea, if you'll be
Even if you're just sitting there drinking tea


My mother's son-in-law,
As long as you are married to her daughter, everything is fine


Ain't got the least desire
I don't have the slightest ambition


To set the world on fire
I don't want to change the world


Just wish you'd make it proper
I just want you to show respect


To call my old man papa
To address my father as "Papa"


You don't have to sing like Bledsoe
You don't need to have a great voice like Bledsoe


You can tell the world I said so
You are free to tell anyone what I said


Can't you see you've got to be
Don't you understand that you just need to be


My mother's son-in-law.
As long as you are married to her daughter, everything is fine




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: SALLY BLOOMER, MANN HOLINER, JUDE S NEWSHAM, ALBERTA NICHOLS

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Jack Teagarden, trombone
Charlie Teagarden, trumpet
Shirley Clay, trumpet
Art Karle, tenor sax
Joe Sullivan, piano
Dick McDonough, guitar
Artie Bernstein, string bass
Gene Krupa, drums



All comments from YouTube:

jessica sheldon

Billie is my favorite singer of all time. Nobody can sing the blues like Billie.

David Lasson

No blues here: this is straight-ahead jazz.

Ralph Rotten

It's never not a good time for some Billie Holiday.

Chris Chanin

Billie was 17 when she recorded this, I believe, right before her 18th birthday (April 7, 1915 she was born). Whether she was 17 or 18 does it matter? The beginning of one of the most extraordinary musicians of the 20th century

Gearld Moore

Lady Day, what a GREAT singer. Backed by the best jazz players of the time, makes her tracks winners.

direfranchement

What always stunned me about this first record of Billie's is how much she sounded like Ethel Waters, perhaps the most popular Black singer in the country at that time. This was recorded before her distinctive style was fully developed.

K. M.H

direfranchement I think she liked Ethel Waters before that incident in philidephia

August Aesthetics

@K. M.H what incident?

luisanne

ethel waters was actually in the studio with her!

David Lasson

This is a thrilling side by any standard one cares to apply. Although Billy Holiday is not known primarily as a jazz singer, she more than holds her own with the masters on this recording. Indeed, I think her presence and artistry drove them to even greater heights--and that's saying something!

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