Stranger
Billy Joel Lyrics


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Well, we all have a face
That we hide away forever
And we take them out
And show ourselves when everyone has gone
Some are satin, some are steel
Some are silk and some are leather
They're the faces of a stranger
But we'd love to try them on

Well, we all fall in love
But we disregard the danger
Though we share so many secrets
There are some we never tell
Why were you so surprised
That you never saw the stranger?
Did you ever let your lover
See the stranger in yourself?

Don't be afraid to try again
Everyone goes south every now and then, ooh
You've done it
Why can't someone else?
You should know by now
You've been there yourself

Once I used to believe
I was such a great romancer
Then I came home to a woman
That I could not recognize
When I pressed her for a reason
She refused to even answer
It was then I felt the stranger
Kick me right between the eyes

Well, we all fall in love
But we disregard the danger
Though we share so many secrets
There are some we never tell
Why were you so surprised
That you never saw the stranger?
Did you ever let your lover
See the stranger in yourself?

Don't be afraid to try again
Everyone goes south every now and then, ooh
You've done it
Why can't someone else
You should know by now
You've been there yourself

You may never understand
How the stranger is inspired
But he isn't always evil
And he is not always wrong
Though you drown in good intentions
You will never quench the fire




You'll give in to your desire
When the stranger comes along

Overall Meaning

"The Stranger" by Billy Joel is a song about the different faces we all present to the world and the struggles that come with hiding who we truly are. In the first verse, Joel sings about the different types of faces we all have, some being satin or steel, silk or leather. These faces represent the different ways we present ourselves to others, and we often don't reveal our true selves until we are alone. Joel then asks the listener whether they have ever let a lover see the "stranger" in themselves, the parts of ourselves that we keep hidden.


The chorus repeats the danger that comes with falling in love and keeping secrets, and the surprise when we don't see the true selves of those we love. In the second verse, Joel uses personal experience to illustrate the theme of the song. He talks about how he used to believe he was a great lover, but he came home and couldn't recognize his own wife. When he asked her what was wrong, she refused to answer, and he felt like a stranger in his own home. The song ends with a warning that we can never fully understand what inspires the stranger in ourselves, and that ultimately, we will give in to our desire when the stranger comes along.


Overall, "The Stranger" is a commentary on the human experience of hiding who we are and the dangers that come with it. Joel acknowledges that we all have a "stranger" inside of us, and that it's important to be honest with ourselves and our loved ones about who we truly are.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, we all have a face
Everyone has a side of themselves that they keep hidden from others


That we hide away forever
This side of ourselves is kept hidden and rarely if ever shown to anyone


And we take them out
However, sometimes we do reveal this side of ourselves


And show ourselves when everyone has gone
But we wait until we are sure no one is watching


Some are satin, some are steel
These hidden sides can take on many forms


Some are silk and some are leather
They can be delicate and soft or tough and durable


They're the faces of a stranger
These hidden sides of ourselves can make us seem like strangers to others


But we'd love to try them on
Despite this, we still have a desire to explore and express these hidden sides of ourselves


Well, we all fall in love
Many of us fall in love at some point in our lives


But we disregard the danger
Often, we fall in love without truly understanding or considering the potential risks and consequences


Though we share so many secrets
Even in intimate relationships, we may not share every aspect of ourselves


There are some we never tell
Some parts of ourselves we may never be comfortable sharing with others


Why were you so surprised
The singer is asking this question to someone who was caught off guard by a hidden aspect of their partner


That you never saw the stranger?
These hidden aspects of ourselves can go unnoticed, even by those closest to us


Did you ever let your lover
The singer is asking if the person ever showed their own hidden side of themselves to their partner


See the stranger in yourself?
The artist is encouraging the listener to share their true self with their partner


Don't be afraid to try again
The artist is encouraging the listener to take another chance on love despite past failures


Everyone goes south every now and then, ooh
Everyone experiences setbacks and failures at times


You've done it
The singer is pointing out that the listener has experienced failure at some point as well


Why can't someone else?
The artist is questioning why the listener is hesitant to try again when others are able to do so


You should know by now
The artist is suggesting that the listener should understand this concept by now


Once I used to believe
The artist is reflecting on a past belief or idea that they held


I was such a great romancer
The singer believed that they were skilled in the art of romance


Then I came home to a woman
The artist is describing a specific event that happened to them


That I could not recognize
The person they came home to was not who they thought they were


When I pressed her for a reason
The singer is describing their attempt to understand why their partner had changed


She refused to even answer
However, their partner was not willing to give an explanation


It was then I felt the stranger
The artist began to feel like a stranger in his own relationship


Kick me right between the eyes
This feeling was sudden and shocking, like a physical blow to the face


You may never understand
The singer is acknowledging that some things are difficult to comprehend


How the stranger is inspired
The singer is questioning what causes these hidden sides of ourselves to come out


But he isn't always evil
The artist is noting that these hidden sides of ourselves are not always negative or harmful


And he is not always wrong
In the same way, these hidden aspects of ourselves can be positive or beneficial


Though you drown in good intentions
Even when we have the best of intentions, sometimes we still make mistakes or do the wrong thing


You will never quench the fire
The singer is acknowledging that these hidden aspects of ourselves can be difficult to control or contain


You'll give into your desire
Even when we try to resist, sometimes our hidden desires or impulses can take over


When the stranger comes along
These hidden aspects of ourselves can come to the surface unexpectedly, like when we encounter a new situation or person




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Billy Joel

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@kurf4376

Well we all have a face
That we hide away forever
And we take them out
And show ourselves
When everyone has gone
Some are satin some are steel
Some are silk and some are leather
They're the faces of the stranger
But we love to try them on
Well we all fall in love
But we disregard the danger
Though we share so many secrets
There are some we never tell
Why were you so surprised
That you never saw the stranger?
Did you ever let your lover see
The stranger in yourself?
Don't be afraid to try again
Everyone goes south
Every now and then
Ooh, Ooh
You've done it, why can't someone else?
You should know by now
You've been there yourself
Once I used to believe
I was such a great romancer
Then I came home to a woman
That I could not recognize
When I pressed her for a reason
She refused to even answer
It was then I felt the stranger
Kick me right between the eyes
Well we all fall in love
But we disregard the danger
Though we share so many secrets
There are some we never tell
Why were you so surprised
That you never saw the stranger?
Did you ever let your lover see
The stranger in yourself?
Don't be afraid to try again
Everyone goes south
Every now and then
Ooh, ooh
You've done it, why can't someone else?
You should know by now
You've been there yourself
You may never understand
How the stranger is inspired
But he isn't always evil
And he is not always wrong
Though you drown in good intentions
You will never quench the fire
You'll give in to your desire
When the stranger comes along
Ooh, Ooh
Ooh, Ooh



@spvillano

@@Howie875 yeah, was a big hit during the war. Understandably, for those who left loved ones behind.

My father died back in 2015, I came back from the war, previously joking about his fighting the Battle of Fort Dix, as he had earlier lied about his age to join the Marines and just before ship-out, my grandmother arrived and told the Corps she never signed him in and he was under age. So, he had to wait to be of age to join the Army, waivered in and went 82nd Airborne. By the time he finished training, the war was over and he was assigned to Fort Dix.
Came back from our recent wars and told him, with "The Stranger" eyes, "You didn't miss anything fun or especially worthy". He never asked about my experiences, which I only ever told my wife some of the worst.

My wife got to see The Stranger once, a violent crime was being attempted against us and I reacted to counter and end the threat. She was literally the only person on this planet that could stop me from killing the bastard.
Suffice it to say, the ne'er-do-well won't attempt to do ill violently again, but the last time I looked, still is alive and doing better. Just with one limb not working at all and another working not exceptionally well.
Living in a rather, erm, colorfully interesting neighborhood (not racial, but, well mixed and with a thriving criminal element due to inner city politics and policing insanity (we literally were the disciplinary district, all fuck-ups got assigned to us, as well as corrupt cops that are about to be either fired or prosecuted successfully), a few neighbors got to see that side of me. After seeing The Stranger, they avoided me.
Pity, I missed babysitting their kids.
My usual name for that side is, The Monster. Rules of engagement, end the fight right now, as ugly as possible and there are no rules.
But then, I was dealing with terrorists, who didn't sign the Geneva or Hague Conventions. So, I literally terrorized actual terrorists.
My preferred interaction, enter village, conduct a recipe exchange. Find common ground is the 101 of early contact, build upon that and well, we all eat and enjoy new tasty foods. Being a reformed chef, that's second nature to me anyway.
Being of Sicilian familial stock, spices and me are ancient friends. As well as a fairly well intermixed cultural exchange from Islamic occupation of the island.

Jesus, this is the most I've said about the general experience in around a decade. Must be getting soft in my elderhood.



All comments from YouTube:

@adelineschuyler4842

i love how the beginning and the end of the song have a whole different feel to the music in between, just as if the song itself is a representation of the "stranger" inside of you

@lukemelo1497

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@petergagnon7544

wow that is amazing i didnt think of that

@willbrinkley9297

Now you get it!🥴

@kiwi2x474

It has the feel of a smoky bar lounge.

@Justy8111

oh damn

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@ricardovelasco3976

Billy Joel revealed in an interview that he no longer performs the "The Stranger" Song in Concert, and hasn't done for Years.  He states that the reason is that his Band Musicians always pull funny faces, put on silly masks or hats and do whatever it takes to make him laugh.  As a result, he is incapable of whistling the Introduction to this Song because they always make him crack up.

@TheBebelehaut

+Rebecca Alceus wt-?

@ezrablock3218

+Tomas It's a bot.

@ricardovelasco3976

+Pedro Serra e Silva It was an Interview Billy Joel gave to James Lipton in "Inside the Actor's Studio".

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