Family Man
Black Flag Lyrics


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Do you want the family man or do you want the swingin' man?

Family man

You get the family man
Family man
Family man
With your glances my way, takin' no chance on the new day
Family man,with your life all planned;
Your little sand castle built, smilin' through your guilt, family man
Here I come
Here I come family man
I come to infect; I come to rape your women;
I come to take your children into the street;
I come for YOU family man, with your Christmas lights already up,
Your such a man when your puttin' up your Christmas lights,
First on the block;
Family man
I want to crucify you to your front door with the nails
From your well stocked garage family man;
Family man
Family man




Saint dad! father on fire! I've come to incinerate you
I've come home

Overall Meaning

Black Flag's song "Family Man" tells the story of a man who perfectly fits the mold of society's expectations. He is the "family man" with his life all planned out and a neat little sandcastle built. He is someone who appears to have everything under control, smiling through the guilt of his conformist lifestyle. However, the singer of the song is not impressed with this man's way of life. He is the "swingin' man," and he has come to infect, rape women, take children into the street, and crucify the "family man" to his front door with nails from his well-stocked garage.


The song is a commentary on societal expectations and the pressure to conform to the norms of a suburban lifestyle. Black Flag is criticizing those who get stuck in a cycle of conformity and don't question whether this is how they really want to live their lives. The contrast between the "family man" and the "swingin' man" highlights the tension between societal expectations and individual desires. The singer of the song is clearly rejecting the former and embracing the latter, even if it means being seen as a dangerous outsider.


From an analytical standpoint, the repetition of the phrase "Family man" serves to evoke a sense of monotony and predictability, which is exactly what the song is rebelling against. The song is known for its catchy chorus and driving guitar riffs, and it has become a punk rock classic over the years.


Line by Line Meaning

Do you want the family man or do you want the swingin' man?
Do you desire a settled, domesticated man or a carefree, player-type man?


You get the family man
You have chosen the settled man


Family man
Addressing the chosen man, a family-oriented individual


With your glances my way, takin' no chance on the new day
You are cautious, with no interest in trying something new or exciting


Family man, with your life all planned;
As a family man, you have a predetermined life plan


Your little sand castle built, smilin' through your guilt, family man
Your life may seem perfect but there are underlying feelings of guilt and dissatisfaction


Here I come
The singer is now approaching the family man


Here I come family man
The artist is addressing the family man specifically


I come to infect; I come to rape your women;
The artist has malicious intentions towards the family man and his loved ones


I come to take your children into the street;
The artist has intentions of causing chaos and harm


I come for YOU family man, with your Christmas lights already up,
The singer is targeting the family man specifically and is aware of his daily routines


Your such a man when your puttin' up your Christmas lights, first on the block;
The family man takes pride in being the first on the block to put up Christmas lights


Family man, I want to crucify you to your front door with the nails from your well stocked garage family man;
The singer has violent intentions towards the family man and wants to use his own tools against him


Family man
Reiterating the previous address towards the chosen man and his lifestyle


Saint dad! father on fire! I've come to incinerate you
The singer is mocking the family man and his role as a father figure


I've come home
The artist has arrived at the family man's residence




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