With Pen in Hand
Bobby Goldsboro Lyrics


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With pen in hand
You sign your name
Today at five
I'll be on that train
And you'll be free
And I'll be alone
So alone
If you think
We can't find the love we once knew
If you think
I can't make everything up to you
Then I'll be gone
And you'll be on your own
You'll be on your own

Can you take good care of Jenny
Can you take her to school everyday
Can you teach her how to play
All the games that little girls play
Hear what I say
Can you teach her how to roll up her hair
Can you make sure each night that she says her prayers
Well if you can do all these things
Then maybe she won't miss me
Maybe she won't miss me

And tonight as you laid in that big lonely bed
And you look at that pillow
Where I laid my head
With your heart on fire
Will you have no desire
To kiss me
Or to hold me

And if you can forget
The good times we had
If you don't think
They out weigh the bad
Well then go ahead
Sign your name
And I'll be




On my way
I'll be on my way

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bobby Goldsboro's "With Pen in Hand" present a heart-wrenching tale of a soon-to-be former couple who are seemingly signing the final documents of their divorce. The song is written from the perspective of the man, who is addressing his soon-to-be ex-wife. The first verse reveals that the wife is the one who is signing the divorce papers, as she writes her name with a pen in hand. The man states that he will be leaving on a train at five o'clock, leaving his ex-wife behind, and he will be left feeling lonely. The second verse intensifies the emotions of the first, as he challenges his ex-wife to reconsider their separation. He implores her to believe that the love they had is still there, and that he has the capability of making things right between them. But, if she still feels the same, then he’ll be leaving her for good.


The bridge is the most emotional part of the song; it speaks to the couple’s daughter, Jenny. He asks his ex-wife whether she can take care of Jenny well, from taking her to her school every day to teaching her how to roll her hair and making sure she says her prayers. If she can do all of that, then hopefully their daughter won't miss him too much. The concluding verse speaks to the wife, as he wonders whether, alone in bed that night, she’ll reconsider signing the divorce papers. He asks if she’ll miss him as much as he misses her, but acknowledges that if she has already moved on, then she should go ahead and sign the papers. The song ends with the man departing on a somber note, leaving his wife behind to dwell on what could have been.


Line by Line Meaning

With pen in hand
Using a writing instrument


You sign your name
You add your signature to a document


Today at five
At the current date and time of 5 PM


I'll be on that train
I will leave on the train at that time


And you'll be free
You will not be restricted or tied down


And I'll be alone
I will be without companionship


If you think
If you believe or feel


We can't find the love we once knew
We are unable to rediscover the affection we had before


I can't make everything up to you
I am incapable of compensating for my past mistakes


Then I'll be gone
I will leave


And you'll be on your own
You will be alone and self-sufficient


Can you take good care of Jenny
Can you provide proper care for our child named Jenny


Can you take her to school everyday
Can you transport her to educational institutions daily


Can you teach her how to play
Can you instruct her on how to participate in kid-friendly activities


All the games that little girls play
All of the games that young female children engage in


Hear what I say
Listen to what I am telling you


Can you teach her how to roll up her hair
Can you demonstrate how to style her hair


Can you make sure each night that she says her prayers
Can you ensure that she completes her nightly spiritual rituals


Well if you can do all these things
If you are capable of completing all of these tasks


Then maybe she won't miss me
Perhaps our child will not yearn for my presence


And tonight as you laid in that big lonely bed
As you recline on the large, empty bed this evening


And you look at that pillow
And you observe that cushion


Where I laid my head
Where I rested my cranium


With your heart on fire
With an intense feeling of passionate emotion


Will you have no desire
Will you not feel the need or want


To kiss me
To engage in lip-to-lip contact with me


Or to hold me
Or to grasp me affectionately


And if you can forget
And if you are able to erase from memory


The good times we had
The pleasant experiences we shared


If you don't think
If you do not believe or feel


They out weigh the bad
They surpass the negative occurrences


Well then go ahead
Then, proceed


Sign your name
Add your signature to the document


And I'll be on my way
And I will depart




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BOBBY GOLDSBORO

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Comments from YouTube:

@mikecozzi1040

I met Bobby at a art show many years ago, we talked about his fantastic paintings and music.
He's a Great talented gentleman! We had a wonderful conversation like we knew one another for a long time!

@pietsantana9935

Ooh sometimes we as parents do not think about our future children in the ralationship it's hurt to think about separation, indeed love don't love nobody,heish thank u singers

@DannyR8

Crying to this song right now cause this was my divorced parents favorite song

@ianspencer1585

This song never ages,its still as good today as it was when it first aired.

@jerrybaliang8224

A meaningful song ...

@davejohn9123

nice tear droper.

@pauljames2050

A voice like honey!

@tivatipnaksik2350

smooth and nice song forever

@johncaputo9965

This song saddened me as a teen when it first came out. Little did I know that I would be on that train in 1997. Premonition?

@ernestgodin4025

Very touching

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