Cool About It
Boygenius Lyrics


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Met you at the dive bar to go shoot some pool
And make fun of the cowboys with the neck tattoos
Ask you easy questions about work and school

I'm trying to be cool about it
Feelin' like an absolute fool about it
Wishin' you were kind enough to be cruel about it
Tellin' myself I can always do without it
Knowin' that it probably isn't true

I came prepared for absolution, if you'd only ask
So I take some offense when you say, "No regrets"
I remember it's impossible to pass your test

But I'm trying to forget about it
Feelin' like I'm breaking a sweat about it
Wishin' you would kindly get out of my head about it
Tellin' myself one day I'll forget about it
Knowin' that it probably isn't true

Once, I took your medication to know what it's like
And now I have to act like I can't read your mind
I ask you how you're doing and I let you lie

But we don't have to talk about it
I can walk you home and practice method acting
I'll pretend being with you doesn't feel like drowning




Tellin' you it's nice to see how good you're doing
Even though we know it isn't true

Overall Meaning

The Boygenius song "Cool About It" is about trying to maintain a facade of nonchalance and composure, even though the singer is deeply affected by their feelings for someone else. The lyrics state that the singer and this person met at a dive bar to shoot pool and make fun of the cowboy types with tattoos. The singer is asking the other person about themselves, trying to appear easygoing and nonchalant. However, the singer feels foolish and wishes the other person had been harsher or more dismissive of them, which would have been easier to accept than being ignored or brushed off.


The singer is trying to forget about their feelings for the other person, but they are finding it challenging and feel like they are "breaking a sweat" over it. The two have a history; the singer took the other person's medication to see what it was like, and now they have to pretend not to know what's going on in their mind. Despite that, the singer asks them how they are and willingly accepts their lies. In the end, they express that they could walk the other person home and act as though they are fine, even though being around them feels like they are drowning. The singer tells the other person how nice it is to see that they are doing well, even when they both know it is not accurate.


The lyrics illustrate the pain of feeling strongly for someone who does not seem to reciprocate those feelings while trying to navigate social norms and maintaining an illusion of calm. The song captures the experience of falling for someone and feeling out of control but not wanting to appear vulnerable.


Line by Line Meaning

Met you at the dive bar to go shoot some pool
I met you at a dive bar to go play a game of pool


And make fun of the cowboys with the neck tattoos
We laughed at the cowboys with neck tattoos


Ask you easy questions about work and school
I asked you easy questions about your work and school


I'm trying to be cool about it
I'm trying to play it cool


Feelin' like an absolute fool about it
I feel like a complete idiot


Wishin' you were kind enough to be cruel about it
I wish you would be cruel to me instead of being kind


Tellin' myself I can always do without it
I'm telling myself I don't need this


Knowin' that it probably isn't true
I know deep down that it's not true


I came prepared for absolution, if you'd only ask
I came ready to apologize if you would only give me the chance


So I take some offense when you say, "No regrets"
I feel a little hurt when you say that you regret nothing


I remember it's impossible to pass your test
I know that I can never please you


But I'm trying to forget about it
I'm trying my best to forget about everything


Feelin' like I'm breaking a sweat about it
I'm feeling incredibly anxious and stressed about everything


Wishin' you would kindly get out of my head about it
I wish I could forget about you and move on


Tellin' myself one day I'll forget about it
I'm telling myself that I'll eventually forget about all of this


Knowin' that it probably isn't true
But I know deep down that it's not very likely


Once, I took your medication to know what it's like
I once took some of your medication just to experience what it's like


And now I have to act like I can't read your mind
And now I have to pretend like I don't know what's going on inside your head


I ask you how you're doing and I let you lie
I ask you how you are, but I know you're lying


But we don't have to talk about it
Let's just not talk about it


I can walk you home and practice method acting
I'll walk you home and pretend to be happy


I'll pretend being with you doesn't feel like drowning
I'll pretend that being with you isn't suffocating me


Tellin' you it's nice to see how good you're doing
I'll tell you that it's nice to see you doing well


Even though we know it isn't true
Even though we both know that it's not completely true




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Julien Baker, Lucy Elizabeth Dacus, Paul Simon, Phoebe Lucille Bridgers

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@adamogilvie9382

[VERSE 1: BAKER]
Met you at the dive bar to go shoot some pool
And make fun of the cowboys with the neck tattoos
Ask you easy questions about work and school

[CHORUS: BAKER]
I'm trying to be cool about it
feeling like an absolute fool about it
Wishing you were kind enough to be cruel about it
Telling myself I can always do without it
Knowing that it probably isn't true

[VERSE 2: DACUS]
I came prepared for absolution if you'd only ask
So I take some offense when you say, "No regrets"
I remember it's impossible to pass your test

[CHORUS: ALL]
But I'm trying to forget about it
Feeling like I'm breaking a sweat about it
Wishing you would kindly get out of my head about it
Telling myself one day I'll forget about it
Knowing that it probably isn't true

[VERSE 3: BRIDGERS]
Once I took your medication to know what it's like
And now I have to act like I can't read your mind
I ask you how you're doing and I let you lie

[CHORUS 2: ALL
But we don't have to talk about it
I can walk you home and practice method acting
I'll pretend being with you doesn't feel like drowning
Telling you it's nice to see how good you're doing
Even though we know it isn't true



All comments from YouTube:

@fairyskullz_

phoebe’s verse had no reason to leave such a gaping hole in my chest. like ??? unwrite these lyrics PLEASE

@wassk9715

It’s like a punch like ouchhhhh

@everaced

Phoebe's lyrics tied me to a cutting board and eviscerated the flesh from each and every bone

@dingleworm4968

Which??

@juicy1936

@@dingleworm4968the last verse! 2:02

@wilfredomartinluceromendez8525

La amo cada dĂ­a mas

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@briannadelatorre507

i fear i’ll never be cool about it

@sillyveemo

real đŸ«Ą

@KP-in4ql

took me 6 months to be cool about it.

@uvp5000

That just means you were cursed at birth with the caring gene activated.

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