You Gentle Me
Carole King Lyrics


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When tempers flare to flame
When no one cares to listen
While I'm tryin' to explain
You see the anger rise in me
And you calm me down again

[Chorus]
Like the first spring lilac rain, you gentle me
Like innocence regained, you gentle me
And the feeling that remains grows
Stronger by degree
When you gentle to me

When rumor comes to call
Suspicion's taking over
And I'm back against the wall
You just smile assuringly
And my defenses fall

[Chorus]

When life seems so relentless, you gentle me
When my striving seems so senseless, you gentle me
You lift my spirits, I get higher by degree
When you're gentle to me

When tension's taking shape
When I feel the pressure building and
It's just too much to take
You touch the anxious need in me
With love for lovin''s sake





[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

In Carole King's song "You Gentle Me," the singer recognizes the calming and soothing effect that her partner has on her. The first verse speaks of how anger can build up and explode when no one listens, and how her partner's presence soothes her and helps her regain her composure. The chorus repeats the line "You gentle me" three times, indicating the depth of the singer's gratitude and appreciation for her partner's calming influence. The second verse speaks of how suspicion can lead to walls being put up, but her partner's smile and reassurance is all she needs to break down the walls and feel secure again. The last verse talks about how life can become relentless and how the pressure can be too much to take, but her partner's touch and love can ease her anxiousness.


The song is a beautiful testament to the power of love and how love can calm a person and make them stronger. It is a reminder that sometimes all we need is someone to be there for us and to bring a sense of calm and peace to our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

When tempers flare to flame
When my anger is about to explode


When no one cares to listen
When no one is willing to listen to me


While I'm tryin' to explain
While I'm trying to make others understand my point of view


You see the anger rise in me
You notice that I'm getting angrier


And you calm me down again
And you help me control my anger


[Chorus]
Refrain


Like the first spring lilac rain, you gentle me
You make me feel refreshed and new, like the first rain of spring


Like innocence regained, you gentle me
You make me feel innocent and pure, like I'm getting a second chance


And the feeling that remains grows
And the feeling of being comforted and understood becomes stronger


Stronger by degree
Growing stronger and becoming more intense as time goes by


When you gentle to me
When you are kind and gentle to me


When rumor comes to call
When rumors or gossip start spreading


Suspicion's taking over
When I start becoming suspicious or paranoid


And I'm back against the wall
And I feel trapped or cornered


You just smile assuringly
You give me a reassuring smile


And my defenses fall
And I start to feel more relaxed and let my guard down


[Chorus]
Refrain


When life seems so relentless, you gentle me
When life feels so difficult and unforgiving, you comfort me


When my striving seems so senseless, you gentle me
When I feel like my efforts are meaningless, you give me hope and encouragement


You lift my spirits, I get higher by degree
You make me feel better and more positive, and my mood improves gradually


When you're gentle to me
When you are kind and gentle to me


When tension's taking shape
When tension or stress is building up


When I feel the pressure building and
When I feel overwhelmed and stressed


It's just too much to take
When I feel like I can't handle it anymore


You touch the anxious need in me
You help me deal with my anxiety and discomfort


With love for lovin''s sake
With genuine love and affection


[Chorus]
Refrain




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CAROLE KING, DAVID PALMER

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