Replaced
Christine Lavin Lyrics


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I have been replaced in your life
Why am I surprised
I'm the one who walked away
You're the one who cried
Now I hear that you've recovered
I should be relieved

Instead I hide under the covers at night
I dream in black and white
Second guess my every move
Try not to think of you, because

I have been replaced in your life
A blow to my pride
It's been just a couple of months
Since we were side by side
Now I see that you go strolling by
With someone else

While I continue on alone
Heading for parts unknown
Making solitary plans
Braving the storms the best I can

If it's true that women mourn
While men replace
Who's the stronger
Who's the weaker
Why should it matter in any case

I have been replaced in your life
The turning of the tides
Has washed away your heartache
Opened mine up wide
Now I feel an old familiar hurt
From years ago

And I know I've gone through this before
A different battle, a distant war
When the odd man out evens the score
It leaves you craving just a little bit more

I have been replaced
I have been replaced
I have been replaced
In your life





I have been replaced in your life

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Christine Lavin's song "Replaced" explore the complex emotions that come with realizing that your ex-partner has moved on from the relationship. The singer admits that she was the one who walked away, but now finds herself surprised and hurt to hear that her ex has already recovered and found someone new. The lyrics also touch on gender stereotypes regarding how men and women handle breakups differently.


Despite being the one to end the relationship, the singer struggles to move on and second-guesses her every move. She is haunted by dreams and finds solace in hiding under the covers at night. As she watches her ex stroll by with someone new, she is forced to confront the pain of being replaced and the familiar hurt of past relationships.


The song's lyrics highlight the pain, confusion, and vulnerability that often come with the end of a relationship. It offers a raw and honest portrayal of heartbreak and the challenges of moving on.


Line by Line Meaning

I have been replaced in your life
I am no longer a part of your life


Why am I surprised
I should have expected this


I'm the one who walked away
I left the relationship


You're the one who cried
You were hurt by the breakup


Now I hear that you've recovered
I've heard that you've moved on


I should be relieved
I should feel happy for you


Instead I hide under the covers at night
I am unhappy and trying to avoid reality


I dream in black and white
My dreams lack color and excitement


Second guess my every move
I'm questioning everything I do


Try not to think of you, because
I'm attempting to move on and not dwell on our past


A blow to my pride
It hurts my ego to have been replaced


It's been just a couple of months
It hasn't been long since we broke up


Since we were side by side
Since we were together


Now I see that you go strolling by
I've seen you with someone else


With someone else
You've moved on to another person


While I continue on alone
I'm still single


Heading for parts unknown
I'm unsure of where I'm headed next


Making solitary plans
I'm planning things to do by myself


Braving the storms the best I can
I'm trying to persevere through difficult times


If it's true that women mourn, while men replace
There's a stereotype that women take longer to move on, while men find someone new quickly


Who's the stronger
Who is better off in this situation


Who's the weaker
Who is worse off in this situation


Why should it matter in any case
It doesn't really matter who is stronger or weaker


The turning of the tides
Things have changed


Has washed away your heartache
You've moved on from your pain


Opened mine up wide
I'm feeling a lot of emotions now


Now I feel an old familiar hurt
I'm experiencing a similar pain from a past relationship


From years ago
This hurt is from a long time ago


And I know I've gone through this before
I've experienced this before


A different battle, a distant war
A similar but not identical struggle


When the odd man out evens the score
When the one left behind finds happiness


It leaves you craving just a little bit more
It makes you want more for yourself




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Written by: CHRISTINE LAVIN

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