Love Is All
Cowboy Junkies Lyrics


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I buried him down by the river
'cause that's where he liked to be
And every night when the moon is high
I go there and weep openly
He and I were married
By this river 'neath this willow tree

And with God and friends witnessing it
He pledged his life to me
To me he was Earth
And I rooted in his soil
I to he was Sky vast and free
Of the burdens from which he toiled

Then one night a terrible fight
Words spoken better left unsaid
With his wedding vows ringing in my ears
He gave his life to me
They say to love is to bury
Those demons from which we all hide




But tonight by this river 'neath this willow tree
Becoming one of Earth and Sky

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Cowboy Junkies' song "To Love Is To Bury" tell a story of a love that was once pure but ultimately fell apart due to underlying demons. The singer of the song describes burying her lover by the river, a place he loved to be, and returns there every night to weep. She recalls their wedding by the same river beneath a willow tree, with God and friends as witnesses. The couple seemed to have found their place in the world - she saw him as the Earth to her roots, and she was the Sky to his free spirit. However, a terrible fight broke them apart, and he ultimately lost his life. Despite the tragedy, the singer finds solace in being one with the Earth and Sky by the river where her lover is buried.


The lyrics are incredibly poetic, with the use of nature and religion as recurring motifs. It seems as though the river, willow tree, and sky represent a sort of heaven in the singer's mind. The importance of the natural world to both the singer and her lover is evident, with references to Earth and Sky being common throughout the song. The use of these natural elements helps to convey the feeling that the couple's love was pure and honest, truly grounded in something deeper than just physical attraction. However, the fall from grace and the loss of life are also central themes, reminding listeners that even the strongest relationships can crumble under the pressures of anxiety, depression, and other internal struggles.


Line by Line Meaning

I buried him down by the river
I laid him to eternal rest by the river


'cause that's where he liked to be
because that was his favourite place


And every night when the moon is high
At every night with the full moon shining


I go there and weep openly
I visit his grave and cry freely


He and I were married
We were married to each other


By this river 'neath this willow tree
By the river, under the willow tree


And with God and friends witnessing it
God and our friends were present to witness it


He pledged his life to me
He promised to spend his entire life with me


To me he was Earth
For me, he represented the Earth


And I rooted in his soil
I made my home in his arms


I to he was Sky vast and free
I represented the boundless, free sky to him


Of the burdens from which he toiled
I eased the burdens he carried each day


Then one night a terrible fight
But one night we had a terrible argument


Words spoken better left unsaid
We said things that should have gone unsaid


With his wedding vows ringing in my ears
His marriage vows echoed in my ears


He gave his life to me
He sacrificed himself for me


They say to love is to bury
People say that to truly love someone is to bury certain emotions


Those demons from which we all hide
The negative thoughts that everyone tries to hide


But tonight by this river 'neath this willow tree
But tonight, under the willow tree by the river


Becoming one of Earth and Sky
We became one with the Earth and the Sky




Lyrics © PAZ JUNK MUSIC INC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Margo Timmins, Michael Edward Timmins

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@koiwa24

I buried him down by the river
'cause that's where he liked to be
And every night when the moon is high
I go there and weep openly

He and I were married
By this river 'neath this willow tree
And with God and friends witnessing it
He pledged his life to me

To me he was Earth
And I rooted in his soil
I to he was Sky vast and free
Of the burdens from which he toiled

Then one night a terrible fight
Words spoken better left unsaid
With his wedding vows ringing in my ears
He gave his life to me

They say to love is to bury
Those demons from which we all hide
But tonight by this river 'neath this willow tree
Becoming one of Earth and Sky



All comments from YouTube:

@francismcnulty6847

Every time I listen to it, it is the first time listening to it.

@anoldmannameddave7455

This is my favorite‘musical’ song. The instruments are fantastic. Margo’s voice is angelic! ❤️❤️❤️❤️✌️

@glynmassam2196

Loved this album for sooo long esp this track

@moonlit6311

This album has stayed with me since it was released. It is a real treasure.

@Soldierboy54b

Me too. It's haunting.

@erinelliot4731

Beautiful song. I truly love your music.

@blackcrow7049

This was my first Cowboy Junkies record . I still remember a long time ago when i was surprised for their music at Zero Records , a second hand store where the owner had this record on . Here are the four brothers Timmings - Margo , Michael , Peter and John - plus Alan Anton , bass guitar and other musicians inside Toronto's Church of The Holy Trinitry , with the band circled around a single microphone to recording this marvellous work . It was november 1987 ;  years later they re-recording a new álbum versión at the same church but this time with guest friends as Natalie Merchant , Vic Chesnutt and Ryan Adams . It called ''All Tomorrow's Parties Don't Look Back'' .

@djbarton5523

Astonishing how brother Margo sounds like a chick.

@monicaharsmanka991

This song is so beautiful very deep meaning for me God and my husband

@LiLaCnSpRiNg

Never void… tremendous music‼️

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