Love and Attraction
Darren Hayes Lyrics


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I do not want anyone
Anyone who really wants me
Every one that I desire wants to be with someone else
I find it so amusing
Isn't that the way it goes
I'm a blip on someone's radar
They don't even catch my eye
I want what I haven't got
Even if it kills me trying

I want her she wants him
He wants me I give in
I want her
I want him I don't want anything
I started questioning the rules of coupling
This strip is Mobius it's never ending

Love and attraction
It's like sex and passion
It's two ends of a spectrum
Are you a friend or a lover
Now pick one or the other

It's not easy to find
Anyone who captivates me
Anyone deserving time must have somehow passed me by
Looking in the wrong direction

She wants him he wants me
I don't want anybody
And everyone at once
It's so amusing

Love and attraction
It's like sex and passion
It's two ends of a spectrum
Are you a friend or lover
Now pick one or the other

Everybody wants someone to hold
Everybody wants to choose a role
Ain't nobody willing to break a mold
No hint of bravery
Everybody chasing some ideal
None of it obtainable none of it real
Everything falls between the cracks of
Love and attraction

Love and attraction
It's like sex and passion
It's two ends of a spectrum
Are you a friend or lover
Now pick one or the other

Love and attraction
It's like joy and sadness
It's like peace and conflict
You can chase them forever are they ever together?

Love and attraction
Love and attraction
Love and attraction
You can chase them forever are they ever together?

Everybody wants someone to hold
Everybody wants to choose a role
Ain't nobody willing to break a mold
No hint of bravery
Everybody chasing some ideal
None of it obtainable none of it real
Everything falls between the cracks of
Love and attraction

Love and attraction
Love and attraction
Love and attraction




You can chase them forever
Are they ever together?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Darren Hayes's song "Love and Attraction" express the singer's frustration with the confusing and sometimes contradictory experience of seeking love and romance. He declares that he doesn't want anyone who wants him too much, but the people he desires are always interested in someone else. He finds this situation amusing, but it's clear that he feels stuck in a cycle of unrequited attraction. He questions the rules of coupling, suggesting that the process of looking for a partner is never-ending and ultimately unsatisfying.


The chorus of the song describes love and attraction as two ends of a spectrum, like sex and passion. The singer is unsure whether he wants a friend or a lover, and it seems that he's constantly struggling to choose between the two. The bridge of the song laments the fact that everyone is seeking an ideal that is unattainable and unreal, and that the pursuit of love and attraction always falls between the cracks.


Overall, "Love and Attraction" is a song about the complexities of human relationships and the paradoxical nature of desire. It suggests that even though everyone wants someone to hold and to love, the process of finding that person is full of challenges and uncertainties.


Line by Line Meaning

I do not want anyone
I don't want just anyone to be with me


Anyone who really wants me
I want someone who really wants to be with me


Every one that I desire wants to be with someone else
The people I want are always taken or interested in someone else


I find it so amusing
I find it funny or ironic


Isn't that the way it goes
That's just how things seem to work out


I'm a blip on someone's radar
I'm not someone people pay attention to


They don't even catch my eye
I'm not interested in the people who are interested in me


I want what I haven't got
I want the things I can't have


Even if it kills me trying
I'll keep trying even if it's painful or difficult


I want her she wants him
I want someone who wants someone else


He wants me I give in
I'll pursue someone who wants me even if I'm not interested


I want him I don't want anything
I only want the person I can't have


I started questioning the rules of coupling
I'm starting to think differently about how relationships work


This strip is Mobius it's never ending
This pattern or cycle of love and attraction seems to be infinite


It's like sex and passion
Love and attraction are similar to feelings of sexual desire and excitement


It's two ends of a spectrum
Love and attraction are opposite ends of the same scale


Are you a friend or a lover
Do we have a platonic or romantic relationship?


Now pick one or the other
We have to choose a label or category for our relationship


It's not easy to find
It's difficult to find someone I'm truly interested in


Anyone who captivates me
Someone who interests me and holds my attention


Anyone deserving time must have somehow passed me by
The people I should be with probably slipped away unnoticed


Looking in the wrong direction
I'm searching in the wrong places or for the wrong qualities


And everyone at once
There are too many people vying for my attention


Love and attraction
The concept of love and attraction


It's like joy and sadness
Love and attraction are similar to feelings of happiness and sorrow


It's like peace and conflict
Love and attraction can create both harmony and strife


You can chase them forever are they ever together?
Love and attraction may never coincide or work together


Everybody wants someone to hold
Everyone desires a physical or emotional connection


Everybody wants to choose a role
We all have certain expectations or ideas about how relationships should be


Ain't nobody willing to break a mold
People are resistant to change or doing something unexpected


No hint of bravery
People are not courageous enough to take a risk or act boldly


Everybody chasing some ideal
Everyone has an idealized version of what love should be like


None of it obtainable none of it real
These ideals are unrealistic and unattainable


Everything falls between the cracks of
It's impossible to find a perfect or complete version of


Love and attraction
Love and attraction itself


You can chase them forever
The pursuit of love and attraction can be endless


Love and attraction
The concept of love and attraction


You can chase them forever are they ever together?
Will love and attraction ever be compatible or happen at the same time?




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