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Romantic Infatuation: Falling Into A Pair
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@robotraptor3369
My advice to anyone dealing with the emotional fallout of a breakup.
Feel it all, don't even try to suppress it. If you need to cry, do it, get it out.
If you need to question what went wrong, do it, write those questions down, keep a diary of them.
If you need to feel anger, channel it.
It's absolutely ok to feel all those emotions, if you felt nothing, then that would be the time to worry.
Emotions are healthy, it means your mind is active, all those parts that make you feel are firing just the way they should.
Take all that emotional energy coursing through you and focus it into yourself.
When you fall in love you give someone a huge piece of you, when they leave they take it with them. That's why you feel hollow and incomplete.
Channel all that energy into rebuilding that missing piece, but make it so much more than it was before.
The most powerful thing we have is potential.
Use it.
@machsaga5141
You remind me of my younger self, brother. I recently wrote something to another friend of mine, and I thought you might benefit from it. I'll paste it here.
We can very briefly review the basics. Generally speaking, men and women will have different goals in life. Women generally know what they need to do during the course of their lives - it is their biological mandate to bear children and raise a family. They have a relatively short biological clock, too. Men, on the other hand, have to figure out (usually from scratch) what they need/want to do. We also aren’t limited by the same biological clock, which means we can (and likely should) direct our long term focus on our personal and professional development, creating a legacy, and attaining childbearing “readiness” (becoming financially independent, etc).
It seems to me your focus is flipped - you may have been placing all your eggs in the wrong basket - somehow focusing on your relationship(s) which is more of what women need to do before their eggs dry up. Excuse the pun.
Remember women don’t chase after men - they chase after successful men. Generally, they wait at the finish line to pick up the winners, because successful men are the prize. Ask yourself are you chasing after an imaginary prize, or are you going to develop yourself into being the prize? Chase success, attain it, and you’ll naturally find yourself in the company of high-value women. However, you should be chasing success regardless of whether there are women in the picture. Chase success so you can unlock your own potential for impacting the world. Chase success so you can reach your peak physical, mental, emotional, and financial health. You owe it to yourself, no one else.
Lift, read, pursue your passions and hobbies, develop conscientiousness, network, learn from your relationships, and develop self-esteem independent from your “relationship status”. Only then will the real you begin to surface.
Lastly, take the time to evaluate whether you may have had a type of upbringing that led to your focus on relationships. Too many of my close friends who were from broken homes or were raised by single-parents ended up putting an unhealthy emphasis on their relationships, and to their own detriment no doubt. They lacked familial validation throughout their childhood and subconsciously seek to make up for it in their relationships or by entering a relationship in the first place. Going into anything with emotional baggage is no doubt a receipt for disaster.
Good luck brother.
@jt0094
Deal with it, or it’ll deal with you.
Feel everything and be thankful you feel it, for it only makes you stronger.
There’s always a lesson in the loss, and with the lesson comes the understanding that it was never a loss, but a huge gain.
Understand that those you lose, you lose because you refused to lower your standards. Always honour yourself with the utmost self-respect.
We live, we love, we lose, we learn, we gain. What will be will be and what was, now simply isn’t ;)
Anyone reading this who’s going through it right now, just know you’re not alone and you always reap what you sow, everyone get their karma, good and bad, just stay on the side of good, seek no revenge in anyway.
And if you’re committed to an ex responsibly through a child you both had together, then make sure you’re always there for your bloodline to guide, raise, love and protect! But you owe nothing to your ex except to be a good parent..
Warrior mindset
@richiepoo
I’m going through a break up I think and it’s very very difficult cause my partner and I differ on the one thing I need most. Communication. What Peterson said is spot on true, it’s like I have relationship ptsd from this person coming and going and just disappearing as they please. And since our first problem, it’s all been me not understanding what went wrong why and how that person truly feels.
It’s driving me nuts. Like I can handle being done, I can’t handle someone telling me they love me, feeling it’s unconditional, us committing to long term things, and like a light switch the other person shutting it off and not even telling you why.
It’s like they fell into a coma and I’m talking to myself.
It’s like being stuck in the matrix and you can’t tell what’s real or not.
She’s good at not caring or needing to understand things.
I am not that person. And I just can’t let go that I don’t know for certain what went wrong and why and how I cannot repeat the same mistakes.
It’s truly the worst feeling in the world. It’s worse then them just saying I don’t love you, never did, we are done.
Cause nothing and them coming back randomly it’s like being stuck in purgatory, with bits and pieces of your existence being in heaven or hell.
I rather get the pain over with and know for certain than to wonder for the rest of my life.
I never had this issue before with any other relationship. I knew what went wrong, why, and why we didn’t work.
This one did an number on me. I don’t feel she’s a pathological liar or maybe she is but that not knowing when you love someone….
It’s like being on death row and every day is your execution day but they keep postponing it.
It’s seeping into my work, sleep, everything….
@richiepoo
Fun little update....
Found out most of what she said is just lies and she's a pathological liar.
On the plus side, I said WTF am I doing with my life and have applied to jobs close to my family, doing something for me and my family not someone else that could give a shit.
Got offered a new job opportunity and am relocating away from that area. Carries too much pain.
I got all this done in literally a few days once I found out most of what she said and is was just all lies. So yea if you want something bad enough you'll make it happen.
@robotraptor3369
My advice to anyone dealing with the emotional fallout of a breakup.
Feel it all, don't even try to suppress it. If you need to cry, do it, get it out.
If you need to question what went wrong, do it, write those questions down, keep a diary of them.
If you need to feel anger, channel it.
It's absolutely ok to feel all those emotions, if you felt nothing, then that would be the time to worry.
Emotions are healthy, it means your mind is active, all those parts that make you feel are firing just the way they should.
Take all that emotional energy coursing through you and focus it into yourself.
When you fall in love you give someone a huge piece of you, when they leave they take it with them. That's why you feel hollow and incomplete.
Channel all that energy into rebuilding that missing piece, but make it so much more than it was before.
The most powerful thing we have is potential.
Use it.
@WinWingLP
hugely underrated comment
@beastboyjohnson
Thank you
@Rokz911
Dealing with a long term breakup for a girl that I was saving up to buy a ring for and she blindsided me completely. Never gave me good closure, I ultimately know its for the best. But this comment is spot on, every time I try and suppress the feeling of heartbreak, or try and distract myself, the feeling gets amplified. If the emotions come in, let it in and eventually the feelings will get more numbed and numbed. There is no half measures about a serious breakup, you have to do it the right way and you will come out better for it. There will be bad days, there will be good days and eventually the bad days will come far and in between.
@Holly9473
I completely agree. You have to work to replace and then strengthen. You don’t leave the bowl in pieces; you figuratively put it back together with gold. And it becomes more valuable than it was before. And more worth preserving.
@Holly9473
I started reading an article on grief and when it got to the part where it said, “the best part of you dies,” I stopped reading because I knew, in this case, the best part of me had not died and I was not about to frame it that way. So I picked up my best parts and painstakingly started putting myself back together. I used Evan Marc Katz’ material for the reframing about what I could do better next time and so I’d never make the same mistakes again (which I haven’t) and ... well, it wasn’t fast. But it got done. Tons of writing and meta-analysis, walking and talking and getting grounded. I went to the batting cages daily and bashed the shit out of baseballs, forced myself to eat healthfully even though nothing had flavor. Slept crazy amounts, cried for months. Threw a ton of shit away and wrote out a one step per month month-by-month plan. It took ten months to really pull myself together, all brute force. Then discovered Prozac, which helped me finally get my head above water. But all the stuff he’s saying here... that’s the work. There will be no “fast” about it for some of us. But that’s the work if you don’t want to live the rest of your life broken and jaded and bitter.
@programinc7581
Whoever is reading I hope you get through this because we all gonna make it.
@karthikvnair7621
how you're doing better
@programinc7581
@@karthikvnair7621 yes
@bendadestroyer
..gonna make it to the grave, and then it won't matter.