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The Dynamics Of Sexual Polarity
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Mai

2y↑78

Let me just say to everyone. If you are attracting a partner that has a wounded masculine or feminine, THAT IS YOUR MIRROR. it IS WHAT YOU Need TO HEAL within yourself. The person is not the problem. YOU have to heal these parts of yourself !
ALSO you can’t do “less or more “ of either energy. It is a balance of energies.
Wether you are a WOMAN or MEN.
You need to BALANCE these two energies.
Look in the mirror there are two sides of you. Say hi it’s both your MASC AND FEM side.
ANYWAY.
If the man you are attracting is too “controlling “It is because your Devine masculine is WOUNDED.
Same goes for feminine.
You are your own Devine counter part. Heal yourself and you will attract the balance you seek within you & then outside of you. ☯️☯️
All is a mirror. As within so without. As above so below.

All comments from YouTube:

Clark Kegley

3y↑351

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Mega Mijit

3y↑3

this is exactly why i unsubbed from you. energy manifest BS. very little actual value anymore. just mumbo jumbo

TheLaw 305

3y↑3

Great video but next time spellcheck it’s spelled balance………

Sasha Fardell

3y↑1

So true!! 💕💕

Tapas Ranjan Muna

3y↑1

David Deida The Way of the Superior Man 👍🏻 😎 Reviewed🙏🏻

Ojasvi Rathi

Hey can you please tell me wgat inner work and waht it includes and how to do it ?
God bless you😇🤍🧿

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Giulia Burrascano

3y↑750

I am very feminine in my looks and the way I present myself, but I have a very masculine demeanor. My partner looks very masculine but has a more soft, gentle energy to him. I am very business orientated (work in sales) he’s a creative and a free spirit. We balance each other out perfectly even if not in the traditional way

࿆Rycroft࿐ Philostratem

2y↑20

That's so me lol. People always presume I'm frivolous, spoiled and weak when they first see me. But as soon as they get to know me they kinda get scared, i know how to be feminine but most of the time I'm blasting masculine energy.

Rashad Bethune

2y↑12

It’s all about balance, wish more ppl understood this!

Valeria Yáñez Chaura

Sameee

Anthony 0000

2y↑5

No one asked

Valeria Yáñez Chaura

???

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BezIsClutch

2y↑362

“Change her mood not her mind” is a great quote. Didn’t even think about that but once you say it out loud you realize how accurate that is

lydieuhh

3y↑200

Women who have been through trauma or didn’t have a nurturing mother growing up have learned more masculine behaviors. Ex: staying stuck in defense mode, fighting for power/control, having trouble submitting to authority, etc. it’s a defense mechanism and if a woman becomes loved and nurtured the right way (feeling safe esp) she will naturally evolve into her authentic self.

Wok n Werk

3y↑3

what happens to men growing up without a father and more feminine?

Alex

2y↑8

This holds true to having an inconsistent father or no father as well. Especially if their mother had to be both

Mickey

1y↑7

soooooooooooooooo true! I didnt have a nuturing mother and I never knew until the last two years that I was acting in a wounded masculine and wounded feminine energy. My ex husband was in a wounded masculine state so I had to pick up his slack by being the masculine energy in our relationship. It was doomed to fail because of that

nate vazquez

Perfectly said

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tashball

3y↑823

A long time ago, my mom told me “the things that first attract you to someone will often be the things that you can’t stand later on” ...she was so right!! I have seen it time and time again too with friends.

Its_magic

3y↑62

I'm not agree with it. The sense of humor of my partner attracts me a lot because I have the same sense of humor. This would never be unattractive for me

T Anthony Thomas

3y↑37

What first attracted me was looks and she is still good looking, the second was her touch and I still like her touch.
So I dunno that I agree

Krystal

3y↑3

I really do agree with it.

StickyBucket

2y↑9

Sense of humor? Beauty? Intelligence?

Mai

2y↑32

Maybe because these are things you seem to THINK you lack within yourself so you attract what you think you’re lacking and you start hating because you think you don’t have these parts of yourself within you !
> THAT I agree , but this is why.
I fell in love with how sensitive and “ connected “to his emotions my ex was and then it start pissing me bc he would manipulate me this way. Anyway this was before my healing journey) but yea this could be why. But I realized I’m as caring and nurturing 💟☮️☯️. I wasn’t seeking him I was seeking me IN him.
I already had these parts just didn’t notice or acknowledge bc my self hate.

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Cody Morgan

3y↑677

“With your women, don’t try to fix, change how she feels.” Now that is life changing my good sir

The Malt-Tones (Band) North of 8 Mile, MI

3y↑13

Yup, may even save you the cost of a divorce lawyer.....

D S

2y↑3

I shouldve heard this earlier, mindblowing.

dasein

2y↑1

Cody, why?

Aditi

I agree 💯% being feminine mostly

Oosa

I hear this, but what if the issue keeps coming up? How can you actually “fix” it instead of ignoring it

That Earthy Chic

3y↑182

Wow, I just realized how crazy accurate this is. The last relationship I was in the guy had a very feminine energy as do I. So we both butted heads all the time.. now I am with a man with a very high masculine energy & we just flow so well together. I am also trying to unlearn all the masculine energy that I had to learn in that relationship that didn’t serve me well.

irmalair1

3y↑12

Hey 🤗 any examples of how you brought back and practiced the feminine?

Williams James

33w

It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing

aale10

3y↑556

I’m a woman with more masculine energy but I am not attracted to males with more feminine energy. It’s a turn off and I feel like I can walk all over them. I feel most attracted to males with high masculine energy even though we do tend to butt heads but if they’re more masculine than me it works out because I tend to not fight back as much.

SHILOH BUCKS

3y↑117

so in your relationship you may project more feminime energy

Dayton Wilson

3y↑79

You may give off more feminine energy in your relationships than you think!

Darrian Mcneil

3y↑137

That's not your true nature you have a wounded feminine core so your Feminine wounded core feed wounded Masculine as a survival mechanism to keep from getting hurt but it's Imbalanced

Dabria Tulak

3y↑41

I am the same way! I'm not as emotional and "feeling" as other women I know. I can be nurturing, but it's kind of fend for yourself as well sort of thing, lol. I really can't stand men with lots of feminine energy, I tolerate them. I need them to stand up for themselves and be a protector etc... can't have a shy guy with no backbone!

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Ava

2y↑55

As a woman, this is one of the best videos I’ve seen on masculine and feminine energies as well as relationship advice. So many channels project this insane hyper-masculine solution as the way to “get girls” without ever really even trying to understand us.

I think it would be beneficial for both genders to communicate with one another and listen to figure out where the miscommunication is stemming from. Most of the time we have good intentions for one another, but are approaching the situation in an unhelpful way due to our lack of understanding of the other person. For example men trying to fix women’s issues when we just want them to listen or women trying to communicate passive aggressively which men don’t understand as well.

Open, vulnerable communication is hard for both genders, but extremely necessary. Great video

QuickNotes Media

48w↑11

Yin and Yang ☯️ Polarity is important. I am a business owner and so is my boyfriend. Being a boss and having the responsibility to make decisions and actions necessary to get results, but my boyfriend’s masculinity makes me feel comfortable and confident to allow him to lead our relationship. So, I love being feminine with him. It’s so much fun to be feminine. He loves it and my spirit is free to express. It’s an awesome connection. However, I had to wait to attract the right masculine guy. I was not going to change and lower my standards. The right energy will work. He proves that he can be alpha in the relationship. I get to chill and watch him lead. ❤

Williams James

33w

It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing

Andrew Montella

3y↑334

You attract your person by simply being you. Remember this always. Many change themselves for a brief period of time to impress/ obtain a love interest. Those relationships never work. If they do, there ends up being a ton of secrets with toxic energy transmitting to both people. Stay you, Boo!

Faith Ares

2y↑1

Yes. Thank you!

Erin Bathie-Moore

This made me tear up. Thank you 💖

SKG

2y↑2

Absof******lutely 👏👏

Luis

2y↑3

very true, however is important to know this, just like the video says... sometimes to please your partner you will stop being yourself, and this video explains how and why

Hennis Doffman

2y↑1

Best Advice

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Hannah Bamberg

2y↑23

Honestly before marriage I would have totally disagreed, but after 4 years of marriage I can tell you that this is KEY for a happy marriage and is really true!!

Mai

2y↑78

She Me Her

2y↑6

I would love for you elaborate more on this with other examples 🥰

Ayushmita Chakraborty

2y↑1

Wow thank you so much for this!

Maghfirah Rifaad

this is so good , you're right.
thank you

Jonny Levy

What if I don’t attract anybody?

Jonny Levy

1y↑2

But seriously thanks for this

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secret2mistakes

2y↑53

The feminine energy of being present and the masculine energy of focusing on the future is interesting. Never thought of it like that

DaBossChic

39w↑1

I really liked how you said, “Change her mood, not her mind” This is so important and makes a lot of sense 😍😎

Harris Kray

3y↑164

I was in a year long relationship whereby the first six months i was emotionally unavailable (and very masculine) - she wanted me to be more open - and once she started pulling away towards the end I clung on (freaked out) started crying, being emotional, showing i did love her - I think I did what you said around minute 11 where I was trying to open up and be vulnerable, but went overboard and freaked her out causing emotional detachment. It’s been two months, 1 month since we spoke last just working on myself. Whether it’s her or someone else, I’ve learnt many valuable lessons for my next relationship and you helped flesh that out here. Thank you!

Shanon Brown

3y↑5

Good awareness. I wish you well.

ChocoChipMint

Goodluck man

Mai

2y↑6

The reason why you started to freak out was because your abandonment issues. You were scared that she no longer wanted to be there so you started freaking out and doing everything in your power to be more vulnerable and showing her that you truly were “changing “
I went through the same thing with my ex. 🤕. So talking out of experience)

Space Bar

2y↑1

Omg this is happy and sad. You actually learned from it and that’s really admirable.

Ashlin Vazquez

2y↑3

Wow I went thru the same thing. I can relate so much. Happy for your change in perception and transition. Hopefully she sees your change and that you could be great for you in this newer version. Good luck man !!!

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Viv Obando Kadbi

3y↑157

I totally had a shift from feminine to masculine energy when I became an entrepreneur but never understood that until now. Amazing video!

Sasha Fardell

3y↑9

I feel that!! ive had to really intentionally practice bringing feminine energy back in!

Jennifer M

3y↑5

I can relate to this. Entrepreneur and STEM (nontraditional) College student. It's strange to realize.

Kayla Austin

3y↑2

My friend and feminine energy coash Jessica Scott talks about this often. She's an alpha and leaning into femininity

Kayla Austin

3y↑1

Parenting is also incredibly masculine but husband wife relationships shouldn't be

N Gabriel

Working and running businesses does that! Even when you’re a stay at home parent; organising, teaching, cleaning, day in day out, that changes your energy even tho the nurturing parts of you will come through from time to time.

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Jodie

1y↑4

This explains perfectly why I'm so attracted to the guy I'm currently dating - he's very work oriented, focused, driven, always decisive and in charge. It makes me feel like I can let my guard down and let him take the lead, and I like it. I am the eldest in my family so I previously had to be in charge and solve a lot of problems at home - constantly being in masculine energy mode was exhausting. But now I'm so in my feminine energy around him and its the most wonderful feeling.

mrcookins

2y↑33

A relationship is a place you go to to give, not a place you go to get ~ I'm gonna remember that.

Valerie Cisneros

this sounds good

The Courage Coach for Executives

3y↑62

My wife and I help our clients (entrepreneurial couples) see these crucial differences: the masculine asks “What am I made of?” while the feminine asks “Who am I?” Basically the same question, but not!

Shelby P

3y↑6

Yeah the masculine journey is outward, like the odyssey. The feminine journey is inward. Different but the same

Skye Tazmin

2y↑34

Can I just say THANK YOU for mentioning different sexual orientations on this video. With so many relationship and spiritual videos out there, it always seems they're strictly focused on male and female relationships which sadly, as a gay woman it's difficult to stay connected to those videos. Appreciate your versatility! Loving the content, as always!

Cassie Argo

1y↑5

As a 17 year old girl who just started college, going through a rough breakup and truly has no idea what she’s doing with her life I find the advice on this channel very helpful ❤️❤️

Andrezenou

3y↑495

BALANCE is key🔑

25demarzo2929

3y↑28

Smooth!!!

Matt Dugan

3y↑28

No need to comment further here.

TheCosmicGypsy

3y↑22

Thank yooooou. 😆😁

Sasha Fardell

3y↑2

FOR SURE

Diana Concepcion

3y↑40

I thought I was the only one who caught that lol

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Tara Gozay

2y↑2

I really needed this, thank you! I think a lot of girls are told early on that masculine energy isn’t okay but you’re right, both are good just in different ways and balance is key!

Alisha

1y↑1

I definitely grew up hiding my feminine energy and focused on the masculine and didn’t see how not leaning into my nature didn’t make me seem like a partner but more of a brother to men haha 😂 it’s great, cus relationships aside, I feel so much better embracing the female and feminine in me and enjoying the masculine energy around me instead of trying to generate it. It feels more natural to balance it out ❤

nikkiteen

1y↑3

I’m non binary and find it to be an interesting explanation. While figuring out my identity, I’ve discovered something similar in Zen teaching that a person needs a balance of these two energies within themselves. I appreciate that you didn’t go a typical route of saying “women should be this, men should be that.” Femininity and masculinity have no gender, and are just two words that we describe the concept through. I was very confused growing up about why one of the energies/ways of thinking should be attributed to one gender and the other to another gender. I think gender roles throw this balance out of whack often for people, so it’s important to recognize it and heal ourselves in that sense.

Zhané Armstrong

2y↑3

I'm experiencing this in my current relationship and they truly meant it when they said, "the things that first attract you to someone will often be the things that you can't stand later on". My boyfriend is 80/20 feminine energy and I'm 80/20 masculine. At first this was sweet because he was able to show me to tune more into my feminine energy and having a partner that was able to be gentle was a huge change. 15 months later I'm practically bald from ripping my hair out lol (100% sarcasm). It's different for women, depending on the circumstance, to be driven when it comes to business and goals but when you have a male counter part that lacks that to a significant degree it's a HUGE challenge to say in the least. For the women who WANT feminine boyfriends, keep the 80/20 balance for your sanity and thank me later. And if you're a male with feminine dominant energy, it's not a bad trait, but creating balance is key to success. Thank you Clark for this video! It was great :)

Sammyrow

2y↑2

I love this. I recently started doing a deep dive into the energy balances (ying/yang) within us all. There are a lot of parallels with other mammals as well like the energy types within wolf packs (alpha vs.betas vs omegas ETC.) I agree with people naturally gravitating towards those who would compliment and balance them and serve to fill their inner deficit. Humans naturally seek homeostasis and balance at all times. That is within ourselves and externally as well. I think the main reason why relationships fail is definitely because individuals do not do the self work to become their most natural/organic and complete selves before they search for their partner. Thats why a lot of relationships fail because they "grow apart," but actually the majority of the time, people are growing into their true selves and the relationship balance is being thrown off because that wasn't the partner you were meant to be with in the first place. Intriguing.

Amri DeLeon

3y↑86

I just had this thought. I think it’s interesting that we, as a society, have coined the term “toxic masculinity” however is there such a thing as “toxic femininity”? I personally think there is, but I’m not sure how that would be described...

Sharayah B.

3y↑45

Yeah its called feminism. Its made women more masculine.

never mind

3y↑37

toxic means that it yields toxic behavior that genuinely harms others. femininity has been looked down upon for centuries as weak and powerless… so it doesn’t contribute to anyone’s ego or makes a person do harmful acts. masculinity on the other hand (due to our society being closer to patriarchal) results in some violent behavior as some men try to prove themselves to be tougher or emotionless. E.g. most women don’t look down on tomboys or women who are more masculine but many men look down on feminine men or gay men. It’s just that femininity does not praise violence, toughness, nor anger. It’s just how society has split the gender binary unfortunately

Sasha Younger

3y↑12

Yes toxic feminine exists and its talked abt a lot on YouTube but it's not as popular as toxic masculinity

K L

3y↑4

Hyper femininity

Victoria Whitlock

3y↑24

Toxic femininity might be manipulation or being a pick me

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Shivii!

3y↑10

Owesome talk! It's really unfortunate soo many of us grow with masculine/feminine wounds. But the process of creating balance within self is really beautiful!

Hannah Ziad

2y↑63

Omg !!! His advice is gold !!! He hit it right about females wanting to change their mood ! I will try out your advice ! Thank you ☆☆☆☆

NextGenWellness

I’m sayin he explained it so well

Jeshurun Hazelton

So it's all about how u feel whether it's factually wrong or not

Lauren Buckley

1y↑2

Love these concepts and so agree!! I'm curious - do you think the goal is to have a 50/50 balance of masculine and feminine energy within you? Or do we all have some natural imbalance in one direction or another that we're meant to embody in our healthiest state? Your talk about balance at the end made me wonder about this. I find healthy masculine men make me feel like I can finally let go of trying to do both sides equally and finally relax into being the more feminine person I actually am. It feels so good to finally get to focus on giving my feminine gifts, and it really only feels safe to do that when someone I really trust is taking care of the more masculine side. But in the absence of healthy masculine men, in the past I've found myself presenting more 50/50 or even masculine leaning in a way that feels stressful, inauthentic, draining and even like... deadening. But because a functioning life requires both energies (and our masculine society tends to reward masculine behavior), it was my habit for a longggg time to present more masculine. I wonder if a lot of women feel that way.

Samuel Manton

3y↑1

I would say I feel more balanced and perhaps lean more towards the feminine at times. I both love the methodical ways of self help for personal and financial well being, but indulge into the spiritual aspects of life too. Hope everyone can find the balance that works for them in their life 👍

Ticket To Literature

One of the best videos on masculine and feminine energy, so well explained and balanced

angelina xo

36w

“relationships are a place you go to give, not a place you go to get”. yes!!

Carmen Rose

2y↑2

This video! Empowering.Especially when speaking about 'Toxic Masculinity'. Men are not the problem as you greatly pointed out. It's the imbalance of energy that is. Growing up I had a a lot of men around me operating in their masculine energy who were feminists! Also, a divine moment for me happened when you mentioned about when women are sharing about their day, they don't want a solution... They just want to be listened to! That's major for me and makes complete sense why I want that! I have a lot of masculine traits and operate in the masculine a lot. However, this video helped me see how much feminine energy I have and how I can bring both into balance. Appreciate your content. It has been impactful for me!

Chelsea Cora

Love this! Thanks for sharing this information in such a concise, easy-to-understand way. <3

Oblisk

2y↑5

As a mamas boy, I naturally have this more feminine side to me deeper down, but I have this more tougher masculine edge on the outside and just how I rub people off generally. I’ve always bashed the feminine side because I wish I was more masculine so I could “dominate” and be “more of a man”, but I’ve recently grew an appreciation for it and I’ve embraced it because it makes more balanced of a human being.

Michael Brown

3y↑8

I have watched and listened to many programs on this theme. You have given me the best summary and detailed explanation thus far of on a subject which at first glance appears mysterious and complex. Probably because none of us have previously been taught about such energies and our true inner selves. That is now all changing thanks to these transformative times. Thank you.

Reign Of Aragon

2y↑4

My husband has always been feminine and I've been more masculine. . In this last couple years he has manned up so to speak. It's been an interesting transition. But I'm learning to recieve more and hes learning to be more manly. Its been hard but good and more balanced. 😌

Amy J

I was very in my masculine energy, being raised by a single mother with a masculine energy. I've only recently learned about masculine and feminine energy but I can see that my partner, who is very masculine but also very balanced in his energies, has given me the space to explore my feminine. It's been life changing for both of us.

You explain the energies perfectly here. Thank you.

Jessica Thaeter

2y↑1

It feels nice to hear someone say it’s ok to not be perfect.. but remind people that they don’t have to stay in that feeling. There are choices and adjustments we can all make to help reach whatever objective and/or you want to achieve. There’s a reason that doctors offices are called practices. Lawyers have legal practices.. life is practice.. no one has to be perfect or have it perfectly planned out.. it’s that balence that calms the mind to take on the life that you choose.

Christina M

2y↑4

This was such a great video. I’m going to put it in my watchlist folder I have called “How to raise a balanced, productive human”. I don’t have kids, but if I ever have one, I would want my teenager to watch this.

Meditation Haven with Awake and Empowered

45w

The more I've healed, the more unhappier I've become in my relationship. Ive come to realise, we put up with so much when we are broken. Fix ourselves and we no longer accept it.

Jacqui Mwangi

1y↑1

Best explanation I’ve heard of this! Thanks Clark! Been binging on your videos and love your clarity of thought and warped humour 😊

Sani

1y↑1

The part where you mention women wanting you to change then not wanting the change in the end really hit hard. Exactly how things with my ex ended 😂

DENISE SORENSON

45w↑1

This is true...my ex husband was feminine I naturally have a masculine energy out of necessitiy but, I don't want to be in that energy all the time, and I know how to let it go because I like being feminine the problem happened when my husband became more and more feminine it became a competition he was forcing me to become more masculine we were actually fighting over who was going to be the girl in our relationship, it got crazy. I struggle with what happened because after a divorce I was force into a masculine role UGH the very thing I did not want (or did I)
Was it me creating that known patteren I don't know but, I have to balance these two very imporrant sides if I want to feel normal again.

Aski

3y↑2

I'm a woman and left handed 😅 I do feel that I'm very sensitive and creative, but also I do have my masculine energy from time to time, I like things done right and in time I try to focus on the solution rather than the problem I'm almost every day working out and embracing the now as long as I can. My partner tends to be more feminine sometimes, he is piscis (femenine sign) and I'm Leo (masculine sign) I don't know if it counts But I do believe that haha. My partner is amazing we both balance really well ☺️ I can feel and sense whatever he is thinking or feeling most of the times and he also knows what I need rater than what I want, and that's cool.

Akasha Kali

3y↑4

Thank you for this Clark, just sent it to my partner bc we both can benefit from balance the opposite energies within us for our relationship to thrive. I trust he is ready to receive the message. Thank you! 🙏🏾☀️

Helen Balcazar

2y↑3

I’ve always been very masculine. Growing up a tomboy I didn’t really care about looks, until my 8th grade year when I realized I wanted to be liked by the opposite sex. Years later I’m tired of being so masculine I finally want to be a women I want peace I want patience. I was vulnerable with the wrong guy. I was finally letting go of always wanting control and always being the one who took course of action. Well he cheated on me had nothing to do with me more so him. The cheating definitely didn’t have me feeling safe anymore emotionally mentally or physically. I reverted back to being masculine because I had to protect myself again. i have a mortgage that needs to be paid utilities and a son I have to take care of. I learned he was very feminine and of course I attracted him due to my masculine tendencies. I believe I do need a masculine driven energy male because man finally being vulnerable and he stopped working stopped caring and just was emotionally driven. He broke up with me because i was “crazy, obsessed, and loud” everything he loved about me he suddenly hated.. so everything Clark says here is true i lived it. I’m diving into my feminine energy now that I am single and really want to create a balance for me. I have always felt lost and finally I am finding myself. My feminine was crying to be seen and when i finally let my guard down he of course reverted back to his feminine ways. It really wasn’t the cheating that messed me up it was the fact that finally my intuition was right and he made me believe i was wrong. Ladies if someone is trying to make you believe YOU ARE WRONG they aren’t for you. You only have you at the end of the day and someone telling YOU ABOUT YOU IN UGLY WAYS isn’t love it’s manipulation. Believe yourself and believe your intuition it’s always right! Only the wrong person for you will tell you these things to keep playing games with your mind. The best lesson I’ve learned is be you and always BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! Let the people that don’t love you for you go even if it hurts in the long run the people meant for you will love you always! 💕

Ultraviolet Bleu Rose

3y↑90

thats literally all I want is to be listened to, because I am super feminine I always attract super masculine guys who always want to control and dominate me 🥲 I don’t want to be controlled I want to be loved✨ like this video thanx

Juggernaut D

3y↑9

That's like my ex who always went out with guys who ended up controlling her. After being with me she realised she couldn't handle being 50 50 and left me because she attracted to that strong masculine that just wants to control her. Quite sad really.

Noci ND

3y↑5

You are attracted to super masculine men too. Its not that they are picking you, you are picking them.

Randy Drew

2y↑3

Hope you find the one who makes you feel like you can be yourself. No one is perfect. All we can do is the best we can. Like anything that is worth doing it takes work. Even finding someone to make you feel loved takes work. They don't normally just drop from the heavens into your lap. Hope you find that one that lifts you up and makes you feel like a queen. Much love. Hang in there and keep looking.

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ANDREW TATE

3y↑6

To uncover your true potential you must first find your own limits and then you have to have the courage to blow past them.

Sauda Tasnim

1y↑2

As a female, I have about 83.7% masculine traits. Especially when it comes to my professional life, career and education. I am overly competitive and logical. I think in long term and take actions based on if something will benefit me. And I am attracted to such man as well. But it's just hard to find 😅. Even if I do, they are more likely to be attracted to other women who have a high feminine energy.

Izzy

40w

right, as a woman who is 70/30 dominant masculine energy in the way I think, act and present myself, this video still makes sense for me because while I am attracted to more feminine women which probably stems from what I'm missing or what I don't have which he mentions, I am equally attracted to men but search for a masculinity that could outmatch my own, which is a tough thing to find. Women like us have to have higher standards by the law of attractiveness polarity, because our masculine energy is much higher and so we take less bullshit from straight relationship dynamics, we feel the man must be able to provide the masculinity worth giving our feminine vulnerability to.

Yulya Elizarova

Clark, you are my relationship goals. Thanks for all your videos!

ILeah

3y↑20

I really enjoyed this video. I struggle because I tend to be 50/50. Always have been but my husband is very masculine and I have always tried to push myself more feminine for our balance but in turn I lose some of myself.

Isah Favour

Whatzpp 💞📌💞

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Michelle

3y↑5

Great video! Excellent and extreme valid points you made and I couldn't agree with you more!! 🔥🔥 Riddle me this; why are these such abstract concepts scoffed by the masses??!! I'm working on myself and loving myself enough to be secure & single by choice, very confident in divine timing and not eager to rush through my first real solo bit of time in 40 years. Everyone I know is constantly trying to pair me up, like I'm sad, weepy and pathetic or a leper! I like being single, why can't my family deal with it?

Rosa Acevedo

3y↑2

I came across your videos and they are so insightful. Thank you so much for what you are doing, more people need to learn about this!

Williams James

33w

It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing

Relyxx.

2y↑5

I think I have like a 50/50 split of masculine feminine energy and it’s so confusing finding a relationship because I feel weird not being the traditionally masculine male in the relationship but I don’t feel like myself when I’m forcing myself to be dominant like that

Inferno

i get you i’m the same way honestly i’ve just been attracting someone just by doing things for myself and working on my life and making goals n shit. somewhere along the way someone will love you and what you’re doing

Anna

42w

Thanks for this video!! As a masculine woman (who has realized she is gay). I was making myself more feminine when I was still with a man but my true energy is masculine. And I have been trying to date other masculine women. Im realizing now I need to date feminine women. Sounds so simple thinking about it now but i had no idea what I was doing wrong.

Diana Mendoza

This is amazing information ❤️
Thank you for your dedication 🙏🙏🙏

Ashley

1y↑4

This was so good! I remember one day I was telling the guy I was dating "I want to go home," as a way to vent and he told me "then go?" I felt so unsupported and misunderstood. I just wanted him to comfort me and understand I was feeling a little home sick.

Jeshurun Hazelton

1y↑1

So u didn't actually wanna go home u just wanted him to comfort u

Ashley

I did want to go home but I was halfway across the world so it was not that easy - I was just venting and needed some support to feel better. I did just want him to comfort me. I hope I do not sound crazy, lol

christian ogando

2y↑1

I think I’m fairly balanced but only really tap into the feminine when I’m trying to build a connection or brainstorming ideas

sara kate

I 100% have super masculine energy for a girl and I’ve always known this.. but when I started dating and realized I was getting into relationships with men who were really girly and I really didn’t like it and couldn’t figure out why I was attracting them when I was nothing like them.. Well I was confused. I had friends tell me it was because I intimidated guys for a ton of reasons so I tried changing and it didn’t work lol

Ricardo Arias

Me and gf split up a month ago and now I can see clearly where things went wrong!
Great explanation and breakdown of the dynamics. Thank you!
Random question, where did you get the rings from?

Conscious♡Cutie

2y↑1

I love everything about this concept 💗

Williams James

33w

It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing beautiful

POLY LIVING

2y↑2

I’ve been a stripper all my life. Guys have no issues meeting me at the club but once they catch feelings it’s change me time. I totally relate to this video. Brilliant observations👏👏👏

Bojana Connor

Nailed it! Awesome content, well done to pack both practicality and wisdom in 17 mins x

Emily Hiffax

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems
🙏🙏

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Lindy Greg

Great video Clark, really clear & very accurate

Shanon Brown

3y↑2

Clark, I really like who you are. I like how you think. Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us.

KOOLKIIDTRE

This video is amazing! Thank you for making this. 😃

Piya P.

3y↑2

I love this video very much!! Gotta send it to my twin! 🥰😍 thank you so much for spreading wisdoms 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥲🥲

Jeremy Snowden

2y↑2

“Change her mood not her mind.” Excellent!

Nizar Amir Musaffa

47w

My take on this video is that, contrary to what's common around me, masculine and feminine aren't plus and minus energy. They both are their own entity that coexist within a person albeit woman tends to have more feminine energy and vice versa. Balancing both energies is the key to live a better relationship, and even life in general. Thank you Clark for your insightful videos. Very clear and insightful.

Precious Jones

3y↑3

I really love how you explain everything!!

Prashant Parekh

Awesome, makes so much sense to explain my situation.

Aadarsh Karki

2y↑1

Thanks a lot
I listened to this when I really wanted to change my self from a heart break
And it was just the thing i needed

Rosette Torres

3y↑9

This is a great video Clark 😊 I agree with so many points you touched on. I appreciate the Sun/Moon and Venus/Mars symbols, as these are the Classic symbols of Masculine/Feminine Polarity. I like equating them to elements, Feminine energy is like water 💧 (Yin) and Masculine energy is Fire 🔥 (Yang). Where the Feminine energy is still, cool, calm, and collected. At its worst, it’s chaotic. It can be a bubbling brook, or a tsunami. Whereas the Masculine is active, energetic, fiery, and passionate. At its worst, it’s aggressive. It can be a cheerful fire where you warm your chilled bones, or a raging inferno burning everything in its wake.

I also agree that men in particular aren’t the problem. It’s society as a whole, who sees Feminine energy as weak, and therefore lauds only Masculine energy. Feminine energy is needed now to restore balance. One day we’ll stop trying to figure out who’s fault it is that we’re here, and focus on where we go from here. Great content 😊 keep up the growth

Robbie Ambrosio

Hi, thank you for your videos. I’m really learning a lot. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

Jason Smyle

3y↑3

This is a incredible video full of important information. Whomever comes across this video is on the right track, keep it up.

Alan Morales

New subscriber, just found your channel. Enjoying your videos. Thank you for enlightening us with this information.

ppt1969scorpio

Thanks for all your content 🙏🏽

Rebecca Darling

3y↑62

This is so helpful! FEMININES.... peel your energy off of him. Laws of nature say that he chases you. Mind your own, become the most delicious version of you. He is the hunter. He will find you when you are aligned and the time is right. Trust!

Mahnoor Abid

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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BRAZEN

3y↑9

Thanks man I really like this. I’m gay and in the gay community there is this really weird Masc4Masc thing which I find odd. I’m more feminine and I tried to act more masculine to attracts guys but I always attract guys that are too feminine for me. The relationships that have worked for me I’ve notice I was with a more masculine Man that let me be feminine without judgement.

Shaun Chisholm

3y↑5

Ah Clark, it's been a while man! Feel like I've been on this journey of discovery too and everything you said in this vid hits bang on. Love the flipchart

Bea Bea

Clark, I love love love what you’re saying about the state of the world. I think it’s slowly evolving into something more feminine although it’s a long way off. Perhaps this is a sneak peak into what the future holds? A more balanced society. You e got me thinking…

Also had some new ideas I hadn’t considered: women praise each other when they get together. It’s true.

Thanks for sharing. X

Missy B

3y↑4

I've thought this for 30 years ...I'm always attracted to more feminine men and I'm quite masculine. My last was also very masculine and it ended badly

Jp Mp

I see that now maby that why . The ex and me had a fall out. Dam

Jeshurun Hazelton

If u wanna be masculine then u take on the burdens n responsibilities of the man n let him be a house husband

Williams James

33w

It really true about everything he says dear how are you doing

Ira Habibi 🌹

3y↑1

Heartiest thanks for sharing this motivating message
I'm so grateful

Kimberlee Sanchez

There must be balance in the force!

Unlock Your Wellness

2y↑33

Thanks Clark. Your explanation for blaming men for everything is spot on. Masculinity itself is not the problem. We need MORE strong masculine figures who have balanced energy in order to provide our children with love and balance they need to grow and heal our world.

Paulo Henrique

Perfect comment. Its all we need and nowadays, that lacking in the world.

Lynda Gaynor

Excellently explained 🙌💛

Life Of Melissa ♥️

3y↑7

omg this was so interesting LOL so relatable i was just talking to my bf last night complaining about my job and he was trying to fix it and not really listening wow it all makes sense now lol thank you for explaining this :)

Tifany Chantell

Thank you for this. I appreciate your knowledge🙏🏻

Helle Søndergaard

3y↑2

This video is so spot on! Thank you 😊🙏

whitney

2y↑7

I went on a date that lasted 9hrs recently and he was very feminine. He didn't take initiative, he didn't lead or even hug me goodbye. It's hard for me to want a second date because I want a masculine man to lead me. The last person I was with was very masculine but I was unhealed fem and it sadly chased him away. I want to balance. But I realized being masculine made me so exhausted after this date, I felt depleted.

Risper Ladee

35w

Gosh lev run run..he is in his feminine..

Therealtannerhughes

3y↑1

This video is amazing. Extremely eye opening. Love the content!

Karim Aissa

Fantastic work Clark! Love your channel <3

pj m

2y↑3

You dint have to lean in at16:10 and throw thruth to my face just like that 😂
Anyway. I am a woman with masculine energy and all that you said is true. I was fixer. I was forced to make a shift to feminine side recently and i am having trouble maintaining balance now. Motivation and drive which was integral to me is lost.