Caro Padre
Deaf Havana Lyrics


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I arrived on time, into my mother's arms
and a name I didn't choose.
I was blinded by the white of the hospital,
and in that moment I was pure and absolute.
Little did I know the moment died when it
was young, when my father taught me half
of right and wrong. He washed his hands of
trust and left us penniless before my brain
had chance to learn his foreign tongue.

Even thought I feel like I'm alright, part of
me is missing when I close my eyes. It's clear
that you shine through me in every mistake
that can't be undone. As I'm getting older,
oh, it's clear what I've become.

I am my father's son
I am my father's son
It's clear what I've become.
I am my father's son

I do more than just share your name, I
can feel your blood running through my
veins. Because the lying, the cheating, the
stealing, oh, it's transferred through. To me,
from you.

All of the months and the years that have
gone by, you never once could find the time
to tell me why. In all of the months and
the years that we've gone through, I tried




my best to be myself but ended up turning
into you.

Overall Meaning

The song "Caro Padre" by Deaf Havana tells the story of a son who is reflecting on his relationship with his father. The song starts with the singer recalling his own birth and how he had no say in the name given to him. The first verse of the song is very much a reflection of a newborn's life, how everything is new and pure. The singer then explains how his father left them without any money but with the knowledge of what's right and what's wrong. As the song continues, the singer talks about how he feels that he is missing a part of him that can never be undone because he is becoming more and more like his father, his father's negative traits.


The chorus of the song marks the point where the singer realizes that he is his father's son, and how the lying, cheating, and stealing have transferred from father to son. The final verse of the song is about the singer's frustration with his father's inability to communicate with him over the years. Despite his best efforts to be himself, he ended up turning into his father. The song is a heartfelt plea from a son to a father, to understand the pain that he has been through, and to acknowledge the role that he played in it.


Overall, "Caro Padre" is a poignant song about the complex relationship between a father and son, and how that relationship can shape a person's identity. It's a song about how the things we inherit from our parents can be both positive and negative, and the struggles we face as we try to navigate our own lives while carrying the weight of our family's history.


Line by Line Meaning

I arrived on time, into my mother's arms
I was born at the expected time and was welcomed by my mother's embrace.


and a name I didn't choose.
My parents named me without my input.


I was blinded by the white of the hospital,
The bright light of the hospital overwhelmed my sight.


and in that moment I was pure and absolute.
At birth, I was innocent and untainted.


Little did I know the moment died when it was young,
My childhood innocence was lost early on.


when my father taught me half of right and wrong.
My father was only present for a portion of my moral education.


He washed his hands of trust and left us penniless
My father betrayed our family's trust and abandoned us, leaving us in financial hardship.


before my brain had chance to learn his foreign tongue.
My father left before I had the chance to fully learn his language and understand his culture.


Even thought I feel like I'm alright, part of me is missing when I close my eyes.
Although I may seem fine on the surface, deep down I feel incomplete.


It's clear that you shine through me in every mistake that can't be undone.
My father's negative influence is evident in every irreversible mistake I make.


As I'm getting older, oh, it's clear what I've become.
With age comes self-awareness, and I'm realizing that I've become my father's son.


I am my father's son
I have inherited my father's traits and flaws.


I do more than just share your name, I can feel your blood running through my veins.
Our connection runs deeper than just sharing a name, as I feel your influence in my very being.


Because the lying, the cheating, the stealing, oh, it's transferred through. To me, from you.
My father's habit of dishonesty, deceit, and theft has been passed on to me.


All of the months and the years that have gone by, you never once could find the time to tell me why.
Despite the passage of time, my father never explained his actions or apologized.


In all of the months and the years that we've gone through, I tried my best to be myself but ended up turning into you.
Despite my efforts to be different from my father, I've inadvertently become like him in many ways.




Writer(s): Christopher Daniel Pennells, Matthew Veck-Gilodi, James Veck-Gilodi, Lee William Wilson, Max Britton, Thomas Ogden, Matt Britton

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