Not Ready To Make Nice
Dixiechicks Lyrics


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Forgive, sounds good
Forget, I'm not sure I could
They say time heals everything
But I'm still waiting

I'm through with doubt
There's nothing left for me to figure out
I've paid a price, and I'll keep paying

I'm not ready to make nice
I'm not ready to back down
I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time
To go 'round and 'round and 'round
It's too late to make it right
I probably wouldn't if I could
'Cause I'm mad as hell
Can't bring myself to do what it is
You think I should

I know you said
Can't you just get over it?
It turned my whole world around
And I kinda like it

I made my bed, and I sleep like a baby
With no regrets, and I don't mind saying
It's a sad, sad story
When a mother will teach her daughter
That she ought to hate a perfect stranger
And how in the world
Can the words that I said
Send somebody so over the edge
That they'd write me a letter
Saying that I better
Shut up and sing
Or my life will be over?

I'm not ready to make nice
I'm not ready to back down
I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time
To go 'round and 'round and 'round
It's too late to make it right
I probably wouldn't if I could
'Cause I'm mad as hell
Can't bring myself to do what it is
You think I should

I'm not ready to make nice
I'm not ready to back down
I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time
To go 'round and 'round and 'round
It's too late to make it right
I probably wouldn't if I could
'Cause I'm mad as hell
Can't bring myself to do what it is
You think I should, what it is you think I should
What it is you think I should

Forgive, sounds good
Forget, I'm not sure I could




They say time heals everything
But I'm still waiting

Overall Meaning

The Dixie Chicks' hit single "Not Ready to Make Nice" deals with the aftermath of a controversy that erupted when the band made an anti-Bush statement during a concert in London in 2003. It was a highly divisive issue and led to boycotts, death threats, and general vilification of the Dixie Chicks. The lyrics of the song are a response to the backlash the band received and the expectations of certain people to apologize or take back their statement. The song is an anthem for standing one's ground and refusing to back down to those who try to silence or intimidate you.


The chorus of "Not Ready to Make Nice" is the most memorable part of the song, with the refrain "I'm not ready to make nice" repeated several times. The power and emotion in lead singer Natalie Maines' voice convey the gravity of the situation and the resolve of the band to not bow down to pressure. The lyrics paint a picture of someone who has been deeply hurt and is struggling to deal with the effects of the controversy. The lines "It's too late to make it right / I probably wouldn't if I could" show that the singer has reached a point of no return and will not apologize just to appease those who want them to.


The song is ultimately about the importance of standing up for oneself and being true to oneself, even when facing strong opposition. The Dixie Chicks faced an incredible amount of backlash and hate for their statement, but they refused to be silenced. "Not Ready to Make Nice" is a powerful and cathartic song that speaks to anyone who has faced similar pressures to back down or apologize for standing up for what they believe in.


Line by Line Meaning

Forgive, sounds good
While the idea of forgiveness may sound appealing, it's not necessarily easy for the singer to move on from the hurt that they've experienced.


Forget, I'm not sure I could
The singer is hesitant to forget what has happened to them, as it's a painful memory that they're not ready to let go of just yet.


They say time heals everything
Although people claim that time can heal all wounds, the singer has yet to find that to be true in their own life.


But I'm still waiting
Despite the passage of time, the artist is still struggling to come to terms with what happened and move on.


I'm through with doubt
The artist has resolved to stop doubting themselves and their feelings, and instead to stand firm in their convictions.


There's nothing left for me to figure out
The singer has given up trying to make sense of what happened and why, as it seems like an impossible task.


I've paid a price, and I'll keep paying
The singer has suffered as a result of what happened, and knows that they will continue to feel the emotional toll for the foreseeable future.


I'm not ready to make nice
The artist is not yet ready to forgive and forget, or to pretend like everything is okay after what happened to them.


I'm not ready to back down
The artist is determined to stand up for themselves and not let others bully them into silence or submission.


I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time to go 'round and 'round and 'round
The artist is still angry about what happened, but doesn't want to waste their time going in circles trying to make sense of it all.


It's too late to make it right
Even if an apology or reconciliation were offered, the singer has already suffered too much to simply move on and forget what happened.


I probably wouldn't if I could
Even if the artist were able to make things right, they're not sure they'd want to - the pain and hurt is still too fresh in their mind.


'Cause I'm mad as hell
The singer's anger is still bubbling up within them, and they're not yet ready to let it go.


Can't bring myself to do what it is you think I should
The singer is not going to let others tell them how to feel or what to do, as they know what's best for themselves.


I know you said 'Can't you just get over it?'
Others may have told the singer to simply move on and forget about what happened, but it's not that easy for them.


It turned my whole world around, and I kinda like it
Despite the pain and hurt that they've experienced, the artist has also experienced growth and change as a result of what happened, which they're starting to appreciate and embrace.


I made my bed, and I sleep like a baby
The artist is at peace with the choices they've made, and is able to sleep soundly at night knowing that they stood up for themselves.


With no regrets, and I don't mind saying
The singer has no regrets about how they've handled the situation, and is proud of themselves for standing up for what they believe in.


It's a sad, sad story when a mother will teach her daughter that she ought to hate a perfect stranger
The singer reflects on the fact that some people are taught to hate others based on stereotypes or prejudices, which is a sad commentary on the state of the world.


And how in the world can the words that I said send somebody so over the edge that they'd write me a letter saying that I better shut up and sing or my life will be over?
The artist is perplexed by the fact that their words - which were simply a form of expression - could elicit such a strong negative reaction from others.


I'm not ready to make nice
The artist reiterates that they are not yet ready to forgive and forget, or to let others dictate their emotions or actions.


I'm not ready to back down
The artist will continue to stand up for themselves and their beliefs, instead of submitting to the will of others.


I'm still mad as hell, and I don't have time to go 'round and 'round and 'round
The singer is still grappling with complex emotions surrounding what happened, and doesn't want to waste time getting caught up in unproductive dialogue or circular arguments.


It's too late to make it right
Even if an apology or reconciliation were offered, the artist has already suffered too much to simply move on and forget what happened.


I probably wouldn't if I could
Even if the singer were able to make things right, they're not sure they'd want to - the pain and hurt is still too fresh in their mind.


'Cause I'm mad as hell
The singer's anger is still bubbling up within them, and they're not yet ready to let it go.


Can't bring myself to do what it is you think I should, what it is you think I should
The singer reiterates that they won't let others dictate how they should feel or act, even if the pressure to conform is great.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., BMG Rights Management
Written by: Martha Maguire, Natalie Maines, Emily Robison, Dan Wilson

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@vickikunetka1111

Yep! I agree. They should stand by what they believe.

…just don’t do it at a concert of paying fans (“shut up and sing” - that’s what you were paid to do.)
…and don’t embarrass our nation overseas.

Other than that, it was great!

It’s a great I’ll never repent or apologize” song.

After than, their FANS started singing a song of their own.

How are DIXIE Chicks record sales now? Not what it was, is it?

EVERYONE can speak their mind. That doesn’t mean that shooting off in the wrong place or wrong time won’t bear consequences.

She put her personal opinions above the need of the nation for a united front to the entire world. She embarrassed us and she’s not sorry. Got it.

I’m not sorry either. I used to be a fan.



@vickikunetka1111

@@liannedegerness1155 I don’t have to be a fan of anyone to appreciate talent and the products they’ve produced. I can still enjoy my once-favorite songs and not pay a penny for the group to pocket. I might have paid to see them perform but there’s not a chance of that now.

But just because I’m no longer a fan doesn’t mean I’m not interested in the historical impact they made. It was bad enough for them to embarrass our nation by denigrating our president to citizens overseas. But for them to dig in their heels after the fact and not be remorseful for airing our nation’s “dirty laundry” (if you please…). Nope. They have no remorse and they don’t want to be forgiven.

So let’s let them have their way. They counted to cost and they are reaping the benefits of their own selfish pride. They still have a few fans, but most of the nation has turned them off. Still, I won’t punish myself for their misdeeds. I can still listen to the music I like without purchasing any of it, though I won’t listen to anything new.

All this aside, pop culture plays a huge role in minds and hearts of the American people, and it does leave historical marks and lessons to be learned by others. Younger generations have been oblivious to Natalie’s spit in the eye of our nation, and I hope I would be JUST as angry if I had not voted for that president. Her behavior that night on stage
was unprofessional and unpatriotic.

So why do I bother to speak of it now? So you’ll learn how Americans respond to other Americans which dishonor our country. And so younger entertainers, though they do have freedom of speech, will understand there are times and places to speak your political mind.

And onstage to people who hired you to entertain them, is NEVER a smart business move.

No you know why I care. The “Chicks” have every right to do whatever they like. (But not on my dime. As your “employer/customer” I can fire you as quickly as I hired you.)

Americans have every right to respond however they like.

Does that answer your question?



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