The Long Way Around
Dixiechicks Lyrics


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My friends from high school
Married their high school boyfriends
Moved into houses in the same ZIP codes
Where their parents live

But I, I could never follow
No I, I could never follow
I hit the highway in a pink RV with stars on the ceiling
Lived like a gypsy
Six strong hands on the steering wheel

I've been a long time gone now
Maybe someday, someday I'm gonna settle down
But I've always found my way somehow

By taking the long way
Taking the long way around
Taking the long way
Taking the long way around

I met the queen of whatever
Drank with the Irish and smoked with the hippies
Moved with the shakers
Wouldn't kiss all the asses that they told me to

No I, I could never follow
No I, I could never follow

It's been two long years now
Since the top of the world came crashing down
And I'm getting' it back on the road now

But I'm taking the long way
Taking the long way around
I'm taking the long way
Taking the long way around
Oh I just take my time, I won't lie down
And take the long way around

Well, I fought with a stranger and I met myself
I opened my mouth and I heard myself
It can get pretty lonely when you show yourself
Guess I could have made it easier on myself

But I, I could never follow
No I, I could never follow

Well, I never seem to do it like anybody else
Maybe someday, someday I'm gonna settle down
If you ever want to find me I can still be found

Taking the long way
Taking the long way around
Taking the long way
Taking the long way around

Taking the long way
Taking the long way around
Taking the long way
Taking the long way around

Taking the long way
Taking the long way around




Taking the long way
Taking the long way around

Overall Meaning

The song "The Long Way Around" by Dixie Chicks describes the journey of the songwriter who chooses a different path from her high school friends. Her friends settled for the conventional life of marrying their high school sweethearts, living in the same ZIP codes as their parents, and following the societal expectations. In contrast, the songwriter decides to hit the highway in a pink RV with stars on the ceiling, living like a gypsy with six strong hands on the steering wheel. She chooses to take the long way around by meeting new people, experiencing different cultures, and living life on her terms, without following anyone's expectations.


The songwriter has been gone for a long time, and she is not sure when she will settle down. She has seen and experienced a lot in her journey, such as meeting the queen of whatever, drinking with the Irish, and smoking with the hippies. The songwriter has seen the world through her lens, without any filters or prejudices. However, she does confess that it can get lonely when you show yourself, revealing the vulnerable side of oneself. The songwriter acknowledges that she has fought with a stranger and met herself, but she could never follow the conventional path. She chooses to take the long way around, to explore new adventures and meet new people, which lets her discover the essence of her true self.


Line by Line Meaning

My friends from high school
I know people who stayed close to home, even after graduating.


Married their high school boyfriends
They settled down with their high school sweethearts.


Moved into houses in the same ZIP codes
They stayed in their hometown and didn't venture too far.


Where their parents live
They are still close to their family and their childhood roots.


But I, I could never follow
I couldn't do what they did, I needed to explore and see the world.


I hit the highway in a pink RV with stars on the ceiling
I left home in style, with a fancy RV that made me feel adventurous and free.


Lived like a gypsy
I didn't have a fixed place to call 'home' and kept moving like a nomadic wanderer.


Six strong hands on the steering wheel
I drove with confidence, knowing that I had control of my own journey.


I've been a long time gone now
I've been away from home for a long time now.


Maybe someday, someday I'm gonna settle down
Although I am still restless and wandering right now, I might settle down in the future.


But I've always found my way somehow
I've always managed to navigate through unfamiliar places and situations.


By taking the long way
I chose the difficult path; the scenic path that was unconventional and not well-traveled.


Taking the long way around
I intentionally chose to take the longer, more complex route.


I met the queen of whatever
I met people of different types without any prejudice and treated them with respect.


Drank with the Irish and smoked with the hippies
I enjoyed different cultures and ideas, and even had some fun experiences along the way.


Moved with the shakers
I mingled with people of high status and influence.


Wouldn't kiss all the asses that they told me to
I wasn't interested in seeking favor with influential or wealthy people.


It's been two long years now
It's been two years since something happened that changed my life.


Since the top of the world came crashing down
Since something happened that shattered my dreams and hopes.


And I'm getting' it back on the road now
I am getting back to my journey, and not letting past setbacks hold me back.


Oh I just take my time, I won't lie down
I don't give up easily, and am willing to take time to achieve what I want.


Well, I fought with a stranger and I met myself
I had to face my fears and weaknesses, and discovered my true self.


I opened my mouth and I heard myself
I expressed myself, and realized what I wanted and believed in.


It can get pretty lonely when you show yourself
It can be difficult to be honest and vulnerable with oneself and with others.


Guess I could have made it easier on myself
I could have avoided the difficulties of self-discovery by following others and fitting in.


Well, I never seem to do it like anybody else
I am not like everyone else, and do things differently.


If you ever want to find me I can still be found
If anyone ever wants to catch up with me, they can still find me.


Taking the long way
I am still on my unconventional, long, and winding journey.


Taking the long way around
I am still choosing to take the more complex and unconventional path.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, BMG Rights Management
Written by: MARTHA MAGUIRE, NATALIE MAINES, EMILY ROBISON, DAN WILSON

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@xxf4795

The fact they’ve not released any new music in 16 years and they’re selling out venues like this!! That is what you call an achievement. Complete legends

@Alliejen12345

Traceyann Cooney I’m a conservative. Know 90% of their music. To be honest they are probably one of my most listened to acts. What’s your point?

@leannegraham4872

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@galenwarren3579

Selling out? LOL. More gas lighting by the DC's. Something they've been doing for nearly two decades.

@jenniferweigel4775

Absolute FACTS!! Cannot wait for Tinely Park!!! 🙂🎧🐣🐤🐥

@curtisyost5247

Yes an achievement or several

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@karabellaellaellaella

This song comforted me. It’s ok that I’m not married, I don’t have kids, not even a boyfriend but I’m ok. And that’s all that matters.

@walterpaton8698

You are an awesome person. I've been married 40 years, but never had male friends, I'm ok with that. Love.

@joelaprobert

I'm going through a divorce and might be getting kicked out of my grad program. But you know what? I've got an amazing new boyfriend that I'm spending a month with in Argentina. I don't mind taking the long way around. Here's to all of us taking the long way. <3

@spmoran4703

@Joel Meredith Amen to that sis .

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