The Party
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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As we were dressing to go out
Our little girl and boy
Came in and asked if they could go this time
We told them little girls and
Boys don't belong at parties
And that they should be in bed asleep by nine
The babysitter came in then and
We kissed the kids goodbye
And told them that we'd be home soon
And told them not to cry

Then we left for the party
Like we'd so often done
Thinkin' only of ourselves and
Not our little ones
The party started out wild and it grew
Wilder as the night wore on
With drinking laughing teling dirty jokes
Nobody thinkin' of home
Then the stranger feeling came over me and
It chilled me to the bones
And I told my wife that
We'd better leave the party
'Cause I felt that we were needed at home
As we rode along, i got to thinking of how
The kids that mornin'
Had asked if we would take them
To church the next day
And how I'd put 'em off
Like I'd so often done
By sayin' we'd probably get home too late
Then my thoughts were interrupted by
The sound of sirens
As they cut through the still night air
Then we turned down our street
That's when we saw the fire
The rest was like a nightmare
We took their little bodies to
Church the next day




Though we'd left the party early we
Still got home too late

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "The Party" by Dolly Parton and Porter Wagoner tell a heartbreaking story of regret and the devastating consequences of neglecting one's responsibilities as parents. The song opens with the couple getting ready to go out for the night, when their children ask if they can join them at the party. The parents dismiss their request, stating that children should be in bed by nine and not allowed at parties.


The parents leave for the party, completely wrapped up in their own desires and not thinking of the impact their choices have on their children. The party grows wilder and more reckless as the night goes on, with no consideration for the responsibilities waiting for them at home. However, the singer experiences a sudden realization, a "stranger feeling," that something is wrong and that they are needed at home. They decide to leave the party and head back.


As they drive home, the guilt-ridden thoughts of how they had brushed off their children's request to go to church the next day consumes the singer's mind. Their thoughts are abruptly interrupted by the sound of sirens, indicating a tragedy. When they arrive home, they witness the devastating sight of their house on fire. In shock and despair, they realize that they arrived home too late to save their children.


The song serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of prioritizing family responsibilities over personal desires. It carries a profound message about the consequences of neglecting the needs and well-being of our loved ones. "The Party" serves as a reminder to cherish the moments we have with our children and to prioritize their happiness and safety above all else.


Line by Line Meaning

As we were dressing to go out
While we were getting ready to leave our house


Our little girl and boy
Referring to our young daughter and son


Came in and asked if they could go this time
Entered the room and requested to join us at the party


We told them little girls and Boys don't belong at parties
We explained that parties are not suitable for young children


And that they should be in bed asleep by nine
We instructed them to go to sleep before nine o'clock


The babysitter came in then
At that moment, the babysitter arrived


We kissed the kids goodbye
We bid farewell to our children with kisses


And told them that we'd be home soon
We assured them of our imminent return


And told them not to cry
We comforted them, asking them not to shed tears


Then we left for the party
Subsequently, we departed for the party


Like we'd so often done
In the manner we had done numerous times before


Thinkin' only of ourselves and
Being selfish and solely concerned about ourselves


Not our little ones
Neglecting the well-being of our children


The party started out wild and it grew
The party began in a lively manner and escalated


Wilder as the night wore on
Becoming even more raucous as the night progressed


With drinking laughing telling dirty jokes
Involving alcohol, laughter, and sharing inappropriate jokes


Nobody thinkin' of home
Nobody considering their responsibilities at home


Then the stranger feeling came over me and
At that moment, an unfamiliar sensation overwhelmed me and


It chilled me to the bones
It deeply unsettled and frightened me


And I told my wife that we'd better leave the party
I informed my spouse that it was necessary for us to depart from the event


'Cause I felt that we were needed at home
Because I had a strong sense that our presence was required at our house


As we rode along, I got to thinking of how
While we were traveling, I started contemplating about


The kids that mornin' Had asked if we would take them
How our children that morning had requested to accompany us


To church the next day
To attend the religious service the following day


And how I'd put 'em off Like I'd so often done
And how I had ignored their request just like I frequently did


By sayin' we'd probably get home too late
By replying that we would likely return home too late


Then my thoughts were interrupted by
Suddenly, my thoughts were disrupted by


The sound of sirens
The audible wailing of emergency vehicles


As they cut through the still night air
Penetrating the silent atmosphere of the nighttime


Then we turned down our street
Subsequently, we took a turn onto our residential road


That's when we saw the fire
At that moment, we witnessed the blaze


The rest was like a nightmare
The subsequent events felt like a horrifying and distressing dream


We took their little bodies to
We carried their lifeless corpses to


Church the next day
The place of worship on the following day


Though we'd left the party early we
Despite departing from the party prematurely, we


Still got home too late
Regrettably, arrived at home after it was already too late




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Bukurie

It is pleasure to hear Po🌟rter Wagoner and Dol🌟ly Parton😍🌏🙏

Dion

Nobody could do those sad recitations like Porter Wagoner and Red Sovine. Another good one that's sad like this is Joeys Old Things, by Jimmy Gateley. He also has a good one called, She Wants To Be Like You. I knew Jimmy Gateley's brother when I was a boy.

Jason Halverson

reminds me of something that happened when i was young. a relative of my dad's lost 6 kids in a fire while they were away! 😢

Floren York

I remember mom always listening to this as I was child

Jim Watson

Reminds me of a similar situation when I was a kid. Sad Memory.

Heather emc

Holy crap! I love Dolly but....I don't... It's just...how did this....what???

Amanda Hayes

This song has a meaning that life is short spend as much as possible there a fire years ago that loss of small children lives parents weren't home at a party baby sister was killed also from electric fire sad song but true

Jamie Kimsey

Wow😭😭😭😭

Patrick Carney

Gruesome

ciscokid25

morbid song

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