A Guy Is Guy
Doris Day Lyrics


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I walked down the street like a good girl should
He followed me down the street like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen and I'll tell you what this fella did to me

I walked to my house like a good girl should
He followed me to my house like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen while I tell you what this fella did to me

I never saw the boy before
So nothin' could be sillier
At closer range his face was strange
But his manner was familiar

So I walked up the stairs like a good girl should
He followed me up the stairs like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen and I'll tell you what this fella did to me

I stepped to my door like a good girl should
He stopped at my door like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
So listen while I tell you what this fella did to me

He asked me for a good night kiss
I said, it's still good day
I would have told him more except
His lips got in the way

So I talked to my ma like a good girl should
And Ma talked to Pa like I knew she would
And they all agreed on a married life for me
The guy is my guy wherever he may be

So I walked down the aisle like a good girl should
He followed me down the aisle like I knew he would
Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
And now you've heard the story of what someone did to me





And that's what he did to me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Doris Day's "Guy Is A Guy" tell the story of a young woman who is followed by a man she doesn't know. She walks down the street, and the man follows her. She walks to her house, and the man follows her there too. Despite his strange appearance, she continues to walk up the stairs, where the man makes a move on her by asking for a goodnight kiss. She rejects him, but they end up getting married later on.


On the surface, the song may seem to perpetuate the idea that men are always pursuing women, and that women should be passive and compliant with this behavior. However, a closer examination of the lyrics reveals that the woman in the song is not just a passive object of desire. She purposefully walks down the street and up the stairs, knowing that the man is following her. She rejects his advances, but still ends up marrying him because her parents agreed.


The lyrics also highlight the idea that appearances can be deceiving. The woman initially thinks the man is familiar, but upon closer inspection realizes that he is a stranger. Nevertheless, she still considers his advances.


Line by Line Meaning

I walked down the street like a good girl should
I was walking down the street in a respectable manner.


He followed me down the street like I knew he would
He crept up behind me and started following me.


Because a guy is a guy wherever he may be
Men are the same no matter where you go.


So listen and I'll tell you what this fella did to me
I have a story to tell about what this guy did to me.


I never saw the boy before
I had never met this guy before.


So nothin' could be sillier
It seemed silly that he was following me when we had never met before.


At closer range his face was strange
When I got closer to him, I realized that I did not recognize his face.


But his manner was familiar
Despite not recognizing his face, there was something familiar about his general behavior.


So I walked up the stairs like a good girl should
I walked up the stairs to my house in a proper ladylike manner.


He followed me up the stairs like I knew he would
He continued to follow me as I went up to my house.


I stepped to my door like a good girl should
I stood at my door in a civilized and polite manner.


He stopped at my door like I knew he would
He came to a stop at my door, as if waiting for something.


He asked me for a good night kiss
He requested a kiss goodnight from me.


I said, it's still good day
I declined his kiss, stating that it was still daytime and not appropriate to kiss goodnight.


I would have told him more except
I had more to say to him, but there was a problem.


His lips got in the way
He did not give me a chance to say anything else, as he aggressively tried to kiss me anyways.


So I talked to my ma like a good girl should
I went to speak to my mother, as a proper young lady would.


And Ma talked to Pa like I knew she would
My mother told my father about the situation, as expected.


And they all agreed on a married life for me
After discussion, it was decided that I would marry this man.


The guy is my guy wherever he may be
I came to see him as being the man I would marry, no matter where we were or what we were doing.


So I walked down the aisle like a good girl should
I walked down the aisle for my wedding ceremony in a dignified and respectful manner.


He followed me down the aisle like I knew he would
He walked down the aisle behind me as expected, ready to become my husband.


And now you've heard the story of what someone did to me
That is what happened to me, the story of what someone did to me.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@cliffhammond474

@@forest_green I don't know where you were then, but certainly not where I was.
It was commonplace to go downtown AT NIGHT and alone and not feel in danger. The parks were full of kids playing and families enjoying themselves. The drive home in the "rush hour" on regular streets at 30 MPH was a little longer _ there might be 7 or 8 cars at each traffic light. People actually drove at or under the speed limit! And most unbelievable - were courteous!

School kids were clean and courteous, neatly dressed and clean, walked, rode bikes or took a city bus or streetcar to school and never felt in danger.

And never heard of a drive by shooting.

Movies were under 25 cents for kids, and parents did not fear what they were seeing.

Streets were clean, maintained and mowed.


83 year old city boy



All comments from YouTube:

@indraniganguli8073

Difficult to hear this song now. It sent shivers down my spine at the most inappropriate behaviour of the man. And the breezy " a guy is a guy" excuse.

@maestroCanuck

LOL

@alanbishop9737

One assumes you'd have constant tremors when listening to much of the current lyrical offerings !.

@wilc4036

You're joking right? Look up the lyrics to any Sexxy Red song lol

@wednesdaya.5780

As a wee lass who spoke more Chinese than English I sang this song a LOT without realizing any of the implications. Now I am thoroughly horrified (though admittedly slightly amused) at how much I still enjoy the song despite its themes

@ginabrockway2084

An upbeat song about marrying a guy who stalked and assaulted you. The 50’s were weird.

@donadavs

intentional misinterpretation

@jolexhopealfanta7658

Because people back then doesn't have a dirty way of thinking about life.

@s.a.adams-ford1216

At least in the 50s people were sane enough to realize "A GUY IS A GUY!"

@wampuscat1340

Try singing to people in the 1950s about a girl’s Only Fans account and serial promiscuity. They would be aghast.

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