I Can
Doris Day Lyrics


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I don't know why, I made you cry
I'm sorry sweetheart and yet
Though you shouldn't be lenient with me
I hope you'll forgive and forget

What can I say, dear, after I say I'm sorry?
What can I do to prove it to you, I'm sorry?
I didn't mean to ever be mean to you
If I didn't care I wouldn't feel like I do
I was all wrong but right or wrong I don't blame you
Why should I take somebody like you and shame you
I know that I made you cry, and I'm so sorry dear
So what can I say, dear, after I say I'm sorry?

You made me glad, I made you sad
I made you lonesome and blue
And who ever knew
Who'd ever think that I would be crying to you

What can I say, dear, after I say I'm sorry?
What can I do to prove it to you, I'm sorry?
I didn't mean to ever be mean to you
If I didn't care I wouldn't feel like I do
I was all wrong but right or wrong I don't blame you
Why should I take somebody like you and shame you




I know that I made you cry, and I'm so sorry dear
So what can I say, dear, after I say I'm sorry?

Overall Meaning

In "I Can," Doris Day sings about regret and apologizing to her partner for making them upset. She acknowledges that her behavior was wrong and hopes for forgiveness. She questions what else she can do to prove her love and make things right again. Day's lyrics reveal the complicated emotions that can come with a relationship and the importance of taking responsibility for one's mistakes.


The first stanza shows Day's remorse for having made her partner cry. She apologizes and hopes that they will forgive and forget. In the second stanza, Day questions what she can do to prove her love and make amends. She acknowledges that she was wrong and shouldn't have mistreated her partner. She also points out that she cares deeply for her partner and that is why she feels so upset about making them cry.


In the final stanza, Day reflects on the power dynamics that can occur in a relationship. She admits to having made her partner sad and lonesome, but to her surprise, she finds herself crying to them now. This line reveals that even in times of strife, there is still love and vulnerability present in a relationship.


Overall, "I Can" is a song that captures the complex emotions that can arise in a romantic relationship. It highlights the importance of taking responsibility for one's actions, seeking forgiveness, and being honest about one's feelings.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know why, I made you cry
I am confused as to why my actions caused you to become upset


I'm sorry sweetheart and yet
I apologize, but I understand that saying sorry does not absolve me of the harm I caused


Though you shouldn't be lenient with me
Even though I do not deserve forgiveness, I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me


I hope you'll forgive and forget
My wish is that you can grant me your forgiveness and we can move forward from this incident


What can I say, dear, after I say I'm sorry?
I am unsure of what actions I can take to make amends after apologizing


What can I do to prove it to you, I'm sorry?
I am willing to make any effort needed to demonstrate how sorry I am for what I have done


I didn't mean to ever be mean to you
It was never my intention to hurt you or cause you any pain


If I didn't care I wouldn't feel like I do
My emotions prove that I care deeply for you and I am truly remorseful for my actions


I was all wrong but right or wrong I don't blame you
I acknowledge that I was in the wrong, and even though you may have reacted in a certain way, I do not place blame on you for my actions


Why should I take somebody like you and shame you
It would be unfair and unkind of me to treat someone as wonderful as you in a negative or hurtful manner


I know that I made you cry, and I'm so sorry dear
I understand that my actions led to your tears, and I am truly sorry that I caused you such pain


So what can I say, dear, after I say I'm sorry?
Even after apologizing, I am still unsure of what else I can do or say to make amends and show my remorse




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: WALTER DONALDSON, ABE LYMAN

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Brianna Leatherberry

My favorite movie as a kid. My mom had to rewind it so many times for me as a kid. I can sing every song by heart:)

Ellen Sheppard

Same here! I grew up on this movie and I can sing all the songs! ❤

Deanna Breezy

Mine too the good ole days

Leah McCarthy

I love their facial expressions haha. Calamity's facial expression at 1:43 and how Bill reacts to her jumping up at 1:53. It makes me laugh when I see Calamity looking at Bill at 2:17. Their facial expressions really make the scene seem like they are true reactions.

deici7

you can here that they are really singing, there is no play back, thats talent

Melissa Bee Ann.

Of all the ladies playing opposite of Howard Keel, Doris Day holds her own and matches his energy. Perfect couple.

sirilucksana

One of my favourite films and the best thing about this song is that it's a single shot and not dubbed post-filming so it's like watching them perform live! and performed perfectly at that.

EditorOfSL

“Sure, why don’t I send for the Queen of Sheba?”

“No good, they want Adelaide!”

Lol! I love Doris Day so much; she was one of the few actresses I know of who could do comedy and serious stuff, glamorous and dressed down, and could sing brilliantly into the bargain!

John Bockelie

" My half pint buckaroo", a cute Nick name for Calamity Jane.

Wild Heart

"In my bosom, you're a dagger.
You're a mangy carpet bagger!" Ah, they don't write them like that anymore.
Pure gold!

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