My Darling My Darling
Doris Day Lyrics


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My darling, my darling
I′ve wanted to call you my darling
For many and many a day

My darling, my darling
I fluttered and fled like a starling
My courage just melted away
Now all at once, you've kissed me
And there′s not a thing I'm sane enough to say
Except, my darling, my darling
Get used to the name of my darling
It's here to stay

′Till a moment ago, we were mister and miss
Discussing the weather, avoiding each others eye
′Till a moment ago, when we hadn't a kiss
And we kissed the mister and miss goodbye

Now at last, she can sigh
My darling, my darling
I′ve wanted to call you my darling
For many and many a day

My darling, my darling
I fluttered and fled like a starling
My courage just melted away

Now all at once, you've kissed me
And there′s not a thing I'm sane enough to say
Except, my darling, my darling




Get used to the name of my darling
It′s here to stay

Overall Meaning

These lyrics convey a sense of longing and hesitation in expressing one's true feelings towards another person. The line "My darling, my darling, I've wanted to call you my darling for many and many a day" suggests that the singer has been harboring deep affection for this person, possibly for an extended period of time. However, they have been hesitant to express their feelings openly.


The line "I fluttered and fled like a starling, my courage just melted away" reveals the singer's fear and uncertainty, comparing their actions to that of a bird that quickly flits away when frightened. This suggests that they have been unsure of how the other person would receive their emotions, causing their courage to falter.


The moment of clarity mentioned in the lyrics is when the other person finally kisses the singer. This kiss is a breakthrough for the singer, as it validates their feelings and confirms a mutual attraction. The line "And there's not a thing I'm sane enough to say" portrays the overwhelming surge of emotions that the singer experiences after this kiss, rendering them momentarily speechless.


The repetition of the phrase "my darling, my darling" throughout the song emphasizes the newfound joy and certainty the singer feels in the relationship. They urge the other person to "get used to the name of my darling" as a declaration that they are fully committed to this love and that it is here to stay. Overall, the lyrics tell a story of hesitancy and eventually finding the courage to express love, culminating in a deep sense of joy and commitment.


Line by Line Meaning

My darling, my darling
I have desired to address you as my beloved for a long time


I′ve wanted to call you my darling
I have yearned to express my deep affection for you


For many and many a day
Throughout an extended period of time


I fluttered and fled like a starling
I was nervous and evasive, like a startled bird


My courage just melted away
I lost all my bravery and confidence


Now all at once, you've kissed me
Suddenly, you embraced me with a tender kiss


And there's not a thing I'm sane enough to say
I am unable to think clearly or articulate my feelings


Except, my darling, my darling
However, my love, my beloved


Get used to the name of my darling
Become accustomed to being addressed as my beloved


It's here to stay
This affectionate term is permanent


′Till a moment ago, we were mister and miss
Until just a moment ago, we referred to each other formally


Discussing the weather, avoiding each others eye
Engaging in mundane small talk, deliberately avoiding eye contact


′Till a moment ago, when we hadn't a kiss
Until just a moment ago, we had not shared a kiss


And we kissed the mister and miss goodbye
And we bid farewell to the formalities of addressing each other


Now at last, she can sigh
Now finally, she can breathe a contented sigh




Writer(s): Frank Loesser

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My darling, my darling
I've wanted to call my "my darling"
For many and many a day
My darling, my darling
I fluttered and fled like a starling
My courage just melted away
Now all at once you've kissed me
And there's not a thing I'm sane enough to say
Except, my darling, my darling
Get used to that name of "my darling"
It's here to stay



All comments from YouTube:

@AwakeLazarus

If I had ever gotten married, this would have been my first dance song.

@francisalanwormald6328

AT AGE 11 I WAS DISCOVERING GREAT POP MUSIC...& I HAVE ENJOYED IT ALL MY LIFE....THIS IS LOVELY

@alfubabe

You are the best

@francisalanwormald6328

@@alfubabe NOT SURE HOW "BEST",,,BUT AT 83 I AM OF ONE OF THE OLDER. ABLE TO STILL ENJOY THEM AS I JUST DID THX & Be Well

@Ashkan41

I'm glad you rediscovered it, hope you're doing well!

@francisalanwormald6328

@@Ashkan41 NOW 85 I ENJOYED ONCE MORE THX TO YOU. SO SIMPLE & SO LOVELY> Be Well

@Ashkan41

@@francisalanwormald6328 Oh I'm very delighted you're doing well, you just made my day kind sir, wishing you all the best!

@onaleemcgraw4048

Buddy Clark and Doris, THE BEST!!!!!

@johnmitchell9180

The best baritone of his time....maybe all time...

@fasbc

Doris and Buddy were a great combination.

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