Bad Husband
Eminem Lyrics


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We never saw from each other's sides
Or eye to eye
Just eye for eye, lie for lie, fight or flight
So much baggage, need a luggage rack
But we carry on with our public spats and our feuds
Up back in the news, love taps when I dissed you
Like it was fun, actually used to run back to the booth
Jump back in the studio
Give you a tongue lashing, then you
Laughed at the stomach tat with the tombstone
It was funny back in our youth
But then it wasn't after we knew
That we were done and actually through (and actually through)
But if there's one fraction of truth
If it could be spun back I would do
So many things different (things different)
'Cause it was such a dumbass excuse
You hit me once and that I would use
To continue the pattern of abuse
Why did I punch back?
Girls, your dad is a scumbag, I'm confused
Because

How come you can be a Lord and a loser?
How come, how come
You can be a liar and a good father?
A good dad, but a bad husband
Why are you a good father?
A great dad, but a bad husband

You were the beat I loved with a writer's block
The line that's hot, that I forgot
We laughed a little, cried a lot
I'll never forget when you came home and you held Hailie
Day before you went to jail and daily
How we'd wait for that mail lady
Or by the phone for Mom to call
And I watched you pull yourself up and we decided on
Givin' it one more try despite it all
You're my lightning rod when my sky gets dark
I'm your shiny rocks in that tiny box
When we tied the knot, when we broke the knot
Every line we crossed we were s'pposed to not
Every time we fought, the insults, they got
Thrown too far
Words that we said that we didn't mean
The words that we meant that we didn't say
The ones that we thought that we shoulda said
Letters written that we coulda read
Which maybe woulda lead to some good instead
And had this put to bed
But I'd be lyin' still if I said I wasn't sittin' here askin' myself

How come you can be a Lord and a loser?
How come, how come
You can be a liar and a good father?
A good dad, but a bad husband
Why are you a good father?
A great dad, but a bad husband (Dad, you said)
Forever be a hero in my eyes (I reply)
But there's always another side
To a good father
A great dad, but a bad husband

We brought out the worst in each other
Someone had to make the sparring end
'Cause I loved you, but I hated that me
And I don't wanna see that side again
But I'm sorry, Kim
More than you could ever comprehend
Leavin' you was fuckin' harder than
Sawing off a fuckin' body limb
Once upon a time we're all we had
Maybe that's what drew us
To each other, it was true love
Shit, we never knew was possible
We might have loved each other too much
And maybe that's what made us do what
We did to each other, all the screw-ups
'Cause you always thought that you was more in love with me
And I was thinkin' I was more in love than you was
For all the times that we thought it worked
'Til we saw how wrong we were
When the dust settles now and all the dirt
If I touch the rawest nerve

All I want is for us not to hurt
And it's been an exhaustive search to find the words
But I just heard "Mockingbird"
And got the urge to jot some verses and thoughts
The purpose was not to stir up or open wounds
I've caused a few and so have you
Or argue whose fault it was
Partly yours, partly mine, but really no one's
This is so tough, I'm gettin' choked up
Oh fuck it, we both suck
We broke up, got back together
We both thought we had forever
Not bad people, just bad together
We were so nuts, back-stabbed each other
Another blow struck, but there's no duckin' this blow
'Cause it's over and it's closure
But I'm not so sure how to close this
I just don't know how some people can be so good
At one thing and so fucked at a whole 'nother, shit, it's no wonder

How come, how come, you can be a Lord and a loser?
How come, how come
You can be a liar and a good father?
A good dad, but a bad husband
Why are you a good father?
A great dad, but a bad husband (Dad, you said)
Forever be a hero in my eyes (I reply)




But there's always another side to a good father
A great dad, but a bad husband

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Bad Husband" are steeped in emotional depth and introspection, with Eminem agonizing over the breakdown of his relationship with his ex-wife and the role he played in it. Eminem explores the complex and often contradictory roles that he played in the relationship, from a loving father and husband to a scumbag and abuser.


Eminem reflects on the toxic cycle of violence and abuse that he and his ex-wife were caught up in, how the pattern of violence and abuse kept escalating to the point where they both hurt each other irreparably. Throughout the song, Eminem expresses remorse for the way their relationship ended, posits that maybe they loved each other too much or too hard, and recognizes that while he may have been a good father, he was a bad husband.


The lyrics also touch on the difficulties of moving on from such a tumultuous relationship and the enduring pain of heartbreak, making "Bad Husband" a poignant meditation on love, loss, and redemption.


Overall, the song is a heart-wrenching reflection on Eminem's past, the people he loved and hurt, and the possibility of forgiveness and redemption.


Line by Line Meaning

We never saw from each other's sides
We never truly understood each other's perspectives


Or eye to eye
We never agreed or had the same viewpoint


Just eye for eye, lie for lie, fight or flight
Our relationship was characterized by retaliation, dishonesty, and constant conflict


So much baggage, need a luggage rack
Our relationship had accumulated so many unresolved issues and emotional burdens


But we carry on with our public spats and our feuds
Despite our problems, we continue to engage in public arguments and fights


Up back in the news, love taps when I dissed you
Our conflicts and insults towards each other often made headlines and received media attention


Like it was fun, actually used to run back to the booth
We used to find enjoyment in taking jabs at each other through music, and I would eagerly return to the recording studio


Jump back in the studio
I would quickly return to the studio to release new songs


Give you a tongue lashing, then you
I would verbally attack you in my songs


Laughed at the stomach tat with the tombstone
You found humor in the tattoo I had of a tombstone on my stomach


It was funny back in our youth
At a younger age, we found amusement in these things


But then it wasn't after we knew
As we grew older, these actions and behaviors became less funny


That we were done and actually through (and actually through)
We finally realized that our relationship was truly over


But if there's one fraction of truth
If there's any aspect of truth


If it could be spun back I would do
If I could go back and change things, I would


So many things different (things different)
I would do many things differently


'Cause it was such a dumbass excuse
Because the reason for our conflicts and fights was trivial


You hit me once and that I would use
I used the fact that you physically assaulted me as an excuse to continue the cycle of abuse


To continue the pattern of abuse
To perpetuate the cycle of mistreatment and harm


Why did I punch back? Girls, your dad is a scumbag, I'm confused
Why did I respond with violence? I'm sorry, my daughters, your father's behavior was despicable, and I'm conflicted


How come you can be a Lord and a loser?
How is it possible for you to have good qualities but still be a failure?


How come, how come
Why is it, why is it


You can be a liar and a good father?
How can you be deceitful but still be a loving parent?


A good dad, but a bad husband
You excel as a father, but you fail as a husband


Why are you a good father?
What makes you a good father?


A great dad, but a bad husband
You are an outstanding father, but you are a terrible husband


You were the beat I loved with a writer's block
You were the inspiration and rhythm that I cherished, but I struggled to express it in my music


The line that's hot, that I forgot
The powerful and impactful lyrics that I once had but lost


We laughed a little, cried a lot
We shared moments of joy and laughter, but we also experienced intense grief and tears


I'll never forget when you came home and you held Hailie
I will always remember the time you returned home and embraced our daughter, Hailie


Day before you went to jail and daily
The day before you were imprisoned and throughout your time in jail


How we'd wait for that mail lady
We anxiously anticipated letters from each other while you were incarcerated


Or by the phone for Mom to call
We eagerly awaited phone calls from your mother


And I watched you pull yourself up and we decided on
I witnessed your efforts to improve yourself, and together we made the decision to


Givin' it one more try despite it all
Give our relationship another chance despite all the hardships


You're my lightning rod when my sky gets dark
You are my source of strength and support during difficult times


I'm your shiny rocks in that tiny box
I provide stability and precious memories in the limited space of our relationship


When we tied the knot, when we broke the knot
When we got married, and when our marriage fell apart


Every line we crossed we were s'pposed to not
We were supposed to avoid crossing certain boundaries


Every time we fought, the insults, they got
Each time we argued, the insults became more hurtful


Thrown too far
Taken to extremes


Words that we said that we didn't mean
Words that we uttered but didn't truly intend


The words that we meant that we didn't say
The thoughts and feelings we had but failed to express


The ones that we thought that we shoulda said
The thoughts we believed we should have communicated


Letters written that we coulda read
Unsent letters that we should have opened and understood


Which maybe woulda lead to some good instead
Perhaps if we had read those letters, it could have led to positive outcomes


And had this put to bed
And resolved our issues


But I'd be lyin' still if I said I wasn't sittin' here askin' myself
But I would be lying if I denied that I'm still sitting here and questioning myself


How come you can be a Lord and a loser?
How is it possible for you to have good qualities but still be a failure?


How come, how come
Why is it, why is it


You can be a liar and a good father?
How can you be deceitful but still be a loving parent?


A good dad, but a bad husband
You excel as a father, but you fail as a husband


Why are you a good father?
What makes you a good father?


A great dad, but a bad husband (Dad, you said)
You are an outstanding father, but you are a terrible husband (Dad, you admitted)


Forever be a hero in my eyes (I reply)
You will always be a hero to me, my response to you


But there's always another side
But there is always another aspect


To a good father
To someone who is an excellent father


A great dad, but a bad husband
You are an outstanding father, but you are a terrible husband


We brought out the worst in each other
Our relationship caused us to reveal our negative qualities


Someone had to make the sparring end
Someone had to put an end to our constant fighting


'Cause I loved you, but I hated that me
Despite my love for you, I despised the person I became


And I don't wanna see that side again
I don't want to witness or experience that negative aspect again


But I'm sorry, Kim
But I apologize, Kim


More than you could ever comprehend
In a way you may never fully understand


Leavin' you was fuckin' harder than
Separating from you was incredibly difficult


Sawing off a fuckin' body limb
Like amputating a part of myself


Once upon a time we're all we had
There was a time when we only had each other


Maybe that's what drew us
Perhaps that's what attracted us to each other


To each other, it was true love
To each other, it felt like genuine love


Shit, we never knew was possible
We never realized the extent of what was possible


We might have loved each other too much
Perhaps we loved each other excessively


And maybe that's what made us do what
And maybe that's what influenced our actions


We did to each other, all the screw-ups
The mistakes and harm we caused each other


'Cause you always thought that you was more in love with me
Because you always believed you loved me more than I loved you


And I was thinkin' I was more in love than you was
While I thought I loved you more than you loved me


For all the times that we thought it worked
Despite all the instances when we believed our relationship was functional


'Til we saw how wrong we were
Until we realized how incorrect our perception was


When the dust settles now and all the dirt
Now, as everything becomes clear and the truth emerges


If I touch the rawest nerve
If I bring up the most painful and sensitive topics


All I want is for us not to hurt
My only desire is for our pain to cease


And it's been an exhaustive search to find the words
I have been searching desperately for the right words


But I just heard "Mockingbird"
But then I heard the song "Mockingbird"


And got the urge to jot some verses and thoughts
And felt compelled to write down some lyrics and thoughts


The purpose was not to stir up or open wounds
The intention was not to agitate or reopen old wounds


I've caused a few and so have you
I have caused harm in the past, and so have you


Or argue whose fault it was
Or to argue about who was to blame


Partly yours, partly mine, but really no one's
We both bear some responsibility, but ultimately, no one person is solely at fault


This is so tough, I'm gettin' choked up
This is incredibly difficult for me, and it's bringing up a lot of emotions


Oh fuck it, we both suck
Oh, forget it, we are both flawed


We broke up, got back together
We ended our relationship, then reconciled


We both thought we had forever
We both believed our love would last indefinitely


Not bad people, just bad together
We are not inherently bad individuals, but we are not compatible as a couple


We were so nuts, back-stabbed each other
Our relationship was so chaotic, we constantly betrayed each other


Another blow struck, but there's no duckin' this blow
Another painful event occurred, but this time, it cannot be avoided


'Cause it's over and it's closure
Because our relationship is finished, and this represents closure


But I'm not so sure how to close this
However, I'm uncertain about how to truly bring this chapter to an end


I just don't know how some people can be so good
I simply don't understand how some individuals can excel


At one thing and so fucked at a whole 'nother, shit, it's no wonder
In one aspect and yet fail miserably in another, it's no surprise




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Marshall Mathers, Alexander Grant, Luis Resto, Sam Harris

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Honour


on The Real Slim Shady

May I have your attention, please?
May I have your attention, please?
Will the real Slim Shady please stand up?
I repeat, will the real Slim Shady please stand up?
We're gonna have a problem here

Y'all act like you never seen a white person before
Jaws all on the floor like Pam like Tommy just burst in the door
And started whoopin' her ass worse than before
They first were divorced, throwing' her over furniture (ah)
It's the return of the "ah, wait, no way, you're kidding
He didn't just say what I think he did, did he?"
And Dr. Dre said, nothing, you idiots
Dr. Dre's dead, he's locked in my basement (ha ha)
Feminist women love Eminem
"Chicka, chicka, chicka, Slim Shady, I'm sick of him
Look at him, walkin' around, grabbing' his you-know-what
Flippin' the you-know-who"
"Yeah, but he's so cute though"
Yeah, I probably got a couple of screws up in my head loose
But no worse than what s going' on in your parents' bedrooms
Sometimes I wanna get on TV and just let loose
But can't, but it's cool for Tom Green to hump a dead moose
"My bum is on your lips, my bum is on your lips"
And if I'm lucky, you might just give it a little kiss
And that's the message that we deliver to little kids
And expect them not to know what a woman's clitoris is
Of course they're gonna know what intercourse is
By the time they hit fourth grade
They've got the Discovery Channel, don't they?
We ain't nothin' but mammals, well, some of us, cannibals
Who cut other people open like cantaloupes
But if we can hump dead animals and antelopes
Then there's no reason that a man and another man can't elope
But if you feel like I feel, I got the antidote
Women, wave your pantyhose, sing the chorus, and it goes

I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?
'Cause I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?

Will Smith don't gotta cuss in his raps to sell records
Well, I do, so fuck him and fuck you too
You think I give a damn about a Grammy?
Half of you critics can't even stomach me, let alone stand me
"But Slim, what if you win, wouldn't it be weird?"
Why, so you guys could just lie to get me here?
So you can sit me here next to Britney Spears?
Shit, Christina Aguilera better switch me chairs
So I can sit next to Carson Daly and Fred Durst
And hear 'em argue over who she gave head to first
Little bitch put me on blast on MTV
"Yeah, he's cute, but I think he's married to Kim, hee-hee"
I should download her audio on MP3
And show the whole world how you gave Eminem VD (ah)
I'm sick of you little girl and boy groups
All you do is annoy me, so I have been sent here to destroy you
And there's a million of us just like me
Who cuss like me, who just don't give a fuck like me
Who dress like me, walk, talk and act like me
And just might be the next best thing, but not quite me

'Cause I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?
'Cause I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?

I'm like a headtrip to listen to, 'cause I'm only giving' you
Things you joke about with your friends inside your living' room
The only difference is I got the balls to say it in front of y'all
And I don't gotta be false or sugarcoat it at all
I just get on the mic and spit it
And whether you like to admit it, I just shit it
Better than ninety percent of you rappers out can
Then you wonder, "how can
Kids eat up these albums like Valiums?"
It's funny, 'cause at the rate I'm going, when I'm thirty
I'll be the only person in the nursing home flirting
Pinching nurses asses when I'm jacking off with Jergens
And I'm jerking, but this whole bag of Viagra isn't working
And every single person is a Slim Shady lurking
He could be working at Burger King, spitting' on your onion rings
Or in the parking lot, circling, screaming, "I don't give a fuck"
With his windows down and his system up
So will the real Shady please stand up
And put one of those fingers on each hand up?
And be proud to be outta your mind and outta control
And one more time, loud as you can, how does it go?

I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?
'Cause I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?
'Cause I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?
'Cause I'm Slim Shady, yes, I'm the real Shady
All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating
So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up
Please stand up, please stand up?

Ha ha, I guess there's a Slim Shady in all of us
Fuck it, let's all stand up

Noah


on Remember Me?

Remember me? S executions
Remember me? I have no remorse
Remember me? I'm high-powered
Remember me? I drop bombs like Hiroshima

For this one, they scream "X, you retarded?!"
'Cause I grab the mic and get down like syndrome
Hide and roam into the masses
Without boundaries, which qualifies me
For the term "universal" without no rehearsal
I leak words that's controversial
Like I'm not the one you wanna contest, see
'Cause I'll hit your ass like the train did that bitch
That got banned from TV, heavyweight getup
Hit you, watch your whole head split up
Loco is the motion, we comin' through
Hollow-tips is the lead the .45 threw

Remember me? Throw your guns in the air
Remember me? Slam, slam
Remember me? Nigga, back the fuck up
Remember me? Chka-chka-Onyx

Niggas that take no for an answer get told no
Yeah, I been told no, but it was more like "No! No! No!"
Life a bitch, met her, fuck you if you let her
Better come better than better to be a competitor
This vet is ahead of the shit, it's all redder, you deader and deader
A medic instead of the cheddars and credda
Settle vendetta with metal Beretta from ghetto to ghetto
Evidence, nope, never leave a shred of
I got the soul of every rapper in me, love me or hate me
My moms got raped by the industry and made me
I'm the illest nigga ever, I told you
I get more pussy than them dyke bitches Total
Want beef, nigga? Pfft, you better dead that shit
My name should be Can't-Believe-That-Nigga-Said-That-Shit
Probably sayin' he ain't a killer, but I'm killin' myself
Smoke death, fuck bitches raw on the kitchen floor
So think what I'ma do to you, have done to you
Got niggas in my hood who'd do that shit for a blunt or two
What you wanna do? Cocksuckers, we Glock busters
'Til the cops cuff us, gon' start ruckus and drop blockbusters
Round the clock hustlers, you cannot touch us
I'm gettin' wires, niggas wantin' me dead
Wantin' my head, you think it could be somethin' I said?

Remember me? I just don't give a fuck
Remember me? Yeah, fuck you too
Remember me? I'm low down and I'm shifty
Remember me? I'm Shady

When I go out, I'ma go out shootin'
I don't mean when I die, I mean when I go out to the club, stupid
I'm tryin' to clean up my fuckin' image
So I promised the fuckin' critics
I wouldn't say "fuckin'" for six minutes
(Six minutes, Slim Shady, you're on)
My baby's mom, bitch made me an angry blonde
So I made me a song, killed her and put Hailie on
I may be wrong, I keep thinkin' these crazy thoughts
In my cranium, but I'm stuck with a crazy mom
(Is she really on as much dope as you say she's on?)
Came home and somebody must've broke in the back window
And stole two loaded machine guns and both of my trench coats
Six sick dreams of picnic scenes
Two kids, sixteen, with M-16s and ten clips each
And them shits reach through six kids each
And Slim gets blamed in Bill Clint's speech to fix these streets?!
Fuck that! Pfft, you faggots can vanish to volcanic ash
And reappear in hell with a can of gas and a match
Aftermath, Dre, grab the gat, show 'em where it's at
(What the fuck you starin' at, nigga?)

Don't you remember me?
Remember me?
Remember me?
Remember me? (Slim Shady!)

28Rivals


on Lose Yourself

@elchihuahua420 Damn bro, stay strong "You only get one shot don't miss your chance to blow." Don't let them bring you down in life and keep pushing

Noah


on Till ICollapse

Not Afraid

hope


on The Real Slim Shady

hi

eminem


on Crazy In Love

great song

serenity noble


on Lose Yourself

awesome

serenity noble


on The Real Slim Shady

awesome

serenity noble


on Lose Yourself

i love it
#eminemfan

Mind Space Apocalypse


on ShadyXV

Greatest of all time

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