I Dont Want To Be a Memory
Exile Lyrics


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I don't want to be a memory
Just a shadow in your mind
Wanna be the one you always need
Not the one you left behind

I don't want to be a notch in your handle
Another love casualty
So lay back down and let's talk it over
'Cause I don't want to be a memory

Don't you remember how it used to be
When we were so in love
We spent the nights in a two-room flat
Drinking wine from a coffee cup

Making love was so very easy
We couldn't get enough
I never dreamed there would come a time
When you'd think about giving me up

I don't want to be a memory
Just a shadow in your mind
I wanna be the one you always need
Not the one you left behind

I don't want to be a notch in your handle
Another love casualty
So lay back down and let's talk it over
'Cause I don't want to be a memory

I know you've had other lovers
But that's all history
I got to know that you'll let me be the last one
To share your company

I don't want to be a memory
Just a shadow in your mind
I wanna be the one you always need
Not the one you left behind

I don't want to be a notch in your handle
Another love casualty
So lay back down and let's talk it over
'Cause I don't want to be

I don't want to be a memory
Just a shadow in your mind
I wanna be the one you always need




Not the one you left behind
I don't want to be a memory

Overall Meaning

In "I Don't Want to Be a Memory," Exile croons about a former love that they don't want to fade into the background of the person's thoughts. The singer yearns to be wanted and needed by their ex, rather than being just a distant memory or a notch on their belt. The song begins with the singer expressing their reluctance to be forgotten, stating that they don't want to be just a silhouette in their former lover's thoughts. They want to be the person their ex needs, not the one they left behind.


The chorus reveals the singer's fears about being forgotten or just being another casualty in their ex's quest for love. They urge their former love to "lay back down and let's talk it over" because they believe that they can work through their issues and not let their relationship fade away. The next verse details the couple's past and hints at the reasons for their separation. The singer describes how easy it was to fall in love and make love, but they never thought that their partner would consider giving them up.


The final verse brings the song to a hopeful conclusion. The singer recognizes that their ex has had other lovers but asks to be the last one to share their company. They assert their desire to be the person their ex always needs, not just someone to pass the time with. In the end, the singer makes it clear that they don't want to be a memory, just a shadow in their ex's mind. They want to be the one their ex comes back to, not the one they left behind.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't want to be a memory
I don't want to be just a thought in your mind, a distant recollection of our past relationship


Just a shadow in your mind
I don't want to be a mere shadow or an insignificant memory of our past love story, I want to be remembered as someone important


Wanna be the one you always need
I want to be the person you always want to have around, the one you can rely on and depend on


Not the one you left behind
I don't want to be the person who got left behind or abandoned in our love story, I want to be the one who matters to you


I don't want to be a notch in your handle
I don't want to be just another person you have had a romantic relationship with or a mark on your belt of past conquests


Another love casualty
I don't want to be yet another victim of our failed relationship or a statistic in the long list of your past loves


So lay back down and let's talk it over
Let's take a moment to talk and discuss where we went wrong and try to fix it so that I don't end up becoming just another memory


'Cause I don't want to be a memory
I am stressing the importance of not becoming just a memory because I really care about you and our relationship




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC
Written by: LEMAIRE, PENNINGTON

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@bobbygaspard9107

brings me back to the good ole 80s

@calvin3464

Wow. I don't think they make music this good anymore.

@crprit

Love this!  Exile's country hits had such catchy tempos.  Great memory listening to this song!  :)

@379exth

wish they would have all the classics on vinyl in stores that was the way they were ment to be herd im 26 and still love the way a good ole turntable sounds

@nancystymiest9577

Darwin Pryce *gary Stewart songs

@Mick72956

Great group. Loved the performance with Trace Adkins on GAC! Kiss you all over. These guys are the best!!!

@onlyme114

We got lucky when Exile decided to change from rock to country ! Great memories !   ;)

@Produto_Ideal

For me they are a mix of all those u mentioned

@ericgarner889

i grew up with this kinda good music brings back great childhood memories

@sandrswinters1903

Me too

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